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Post by kls on May 18, 2018 7:51:03 GMT
nice = boring
they like bad dangerous interesting males. I don't find bad and dangerous interesting.
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Post by Nicko's Nose on May 18, 2018 7:54:07 GMT
Seek help.
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Post by ghostintheshell on May 18, 2018 8:04:38 GMT
Get over yourself
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Post by movieliker on May 18, 2018 16:14:21 GMT
There must be a reason. Any idea what it is? How old are you? well people tell me im boring dull with no personality or sense of humour. Im also called ugly. women never show an interest in me, they don't like me. Im 33. Born 1985.
Regardless of what you think others think, what do you think? Do you think you are dull and boring? If so, go do something fun and interesting. That has nothing to do with women. That is just your personal life. If not, that is all that matters. As long as you are secure, responsible and happy, many women will want to be with you. If you are happy with yourself and your life, that is enough to attract women. Everybody is not James Bond living a superhero life. All women are not attracted to that. Many women are boring and uninteresting. They are happy with themselves and their lives. They are just lonely, and looking for someone --- with like interests --- to share their lives with. And nobody knows whether you are boring and uninteresting --- or exciting and interesting --- until they get to know you. So don't act like you have a blinking neon sign on your forehead telling strangers you are boring and uninteresting. And don't look for a girlfriend right off the bat. Many guys make that mistake. What you look for at first is friends and acquaintances. Trying to drive anybody you just met into the "girlfriend" box will scare anybody away. Girls have to prove they are good enough to be your girlfriend. That takes time. Start off being people who just met. Move on to friends and acquaintances. It takes time to become boyfriend and girlfriend. And you can stop seeing anybody anytime if you lose interest in them. Believe it or not, there are many girls/women/ladies you don't want to be friends with. They are just trouble. It takes time for them to reveal their true selves to you. Do you have any guy friends? Women are more attracted to guys with guy friends than loners with no friends. Even loners have girlfriends. But guys with guy friends have an easier time with it.
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Post by kls on May 18, 2018 16:18:41 GMT
well people tell me im boring dull with no personality or sense of humour. Im also called ugly. women never show an interest in me, they don't like me. Im 33. Born 1985.
Regardless of what you think others think, what do you think? Do you think you are dull and boring? If so, go do something fun and interesting. That has nothing to do with women. That is just your personal life. If not, that is all that matters. As long as you are secure, responsible and happy, many women will want to be with you. If you are happy with yourself and your life, that is enough to attract women. Everybody is not James Bond living a superhero life. All women are not attracted to that. Many women are boring and uninteresting. They are happy with themselves and their lives. They are just lonely, and looking for someone --- with like interests --- to share their lives with. And nobody knows whether you are boring and uninteresting --- or exciting and interesting --- until they get to know you. So don't act like you have a blinking neon sign on your forehead telling strangers you are boring and uninteresting. And don't look for a girlfriend right off the bat. Many guys make that mistake. What you look for at first is friends and acquaintances. Trying to drive anybody you just met into the "girlfriend" box will scare anybody away. Girls have to prove they are good enough to be your girlfriend. That takes time. Start off being people who just met. Move on to friends and acquaintances. It takes time to become boyfriend and girlfriend. And you can stop seeing anybody anytime if you are not interested in them. Believe it or not, there are many girls/women/ladies you don't want to be friends with. They are just trouble. It takes time for them to reveal their true selves to you. It's funny, when someone finds me boring I tend to feel the same way about them. Just who determines who or what is boring versus interesting anyhow?
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Post by movieliker on May 18, 2018 16:22:17 GMT
Regardless of what you think others think, what do you think? Do you think you are dull and boring? If so, go do something fun and interesting. That has nothing to do with women. That is just your personal life. If not, that is all that matters. As long as you are secure, responsible and happy, many women will want to be with you. If you are happy with yourself and your life, that is enough to attract women. Everybody is not James Bond living a superhero life. All women are not attracted to that. Many women are boring and uninteresting. They are happy with themselves and their lives. They are just lonely, and looking for someone --- with like interests --- to share their lives with. And nobody knows whether you are boring and uninteresting --- or exciting and interesting --- until they get to know you. So don't act like you have a blinking neon sign on your forehead telling strangers you are boring and uninteresting. And don't look for a girlfriend right off the bat. Many guys make that mistake. What you look for at first is friends and acquaintances. Trying to drive anybody you just met into the "girlfriend" box will scare anybody away. Girls have to prove they are good enough to be your girlfriend. That takes time. Start off being people who just met. Move on to friends and acquaintances. It takes time to become boyfriend and girlfriend. And you can stop seeing anybody anytime if you are not interested in them. Believe it or not, there are many girls/women/ladies you don't want to be friends with. They are just trouble. It takes time for them to reveal their true selves to you. It's funny, when someone finds me boring I tend to feel the same way about them. Just who determines what is boring and what is interesting anyhow? Yeah, but it sounds like you have self-esteem and past social success. It sounds like sugarbiscuits doesn't. So it is understandable he would be hesitant, lacking in confidence, and inefficient when socializing.
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Post by movieliker on May 18, 2018 16:29:08 GMT
Regardless of what you think others think, what do you think? Do you think you are dull and boring? If so, go do something fun and interesting. That has nothing to do with women. That is just your personal life. If not, that is all that matters. As long as you are secure, responsible and happy, many women will want to be with you. If you are happy with yourself and your life, that is enough to attract women. Everybody is not James Bond living a superhero life. All women are not attracted to that. Many women are boring and uninteresting. They are happy with themselves and their lives. They are just lonely, and looking for someone --- with like interests --- to share their lives with. And nobody knows whether you are boring and uninteresting --- or exciting and interesting --- until they get to know you. So don't act like you have a blinking neon sign on your forehead telling strangers you are boring and uninteresting. And don't look for a girlfriend right off the bat. Many guys make that mistake. What you look for at first is friends and acquaintances. Trying to drive anybody you just met into the "girlfriend" box will scare anybody away. Girls have to prove they are good enough to be your girlfriend. That takes time. Start off being people who just met. Move on to friends and acquaintances. It takes time to become boyfriend and girlfriend. And you can stop seeing anybody anytime if you are not interested in them. Believe it or not, there are many girls/women/ladies you don't want to be friends with. They are just trouble. It takes time for them to reveal their true selves to you. It's funny, when someone finds me boring I tend to feel the same way about them. Just who determines who or what is boring versus interesting anyhow? To answer your question, you decide. But you have self-esteem and past social success. It seems like sugarbiscuits doesn't. So he is more concerned with what others think, than what he thinks.
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Post by kls on May 18, 2018 16:30:31 GMT
Actually, isn't hate nice males very extreme? Even if women didn't gravitate towards the nice guys and preferred the bad boys it doesn't mean they hate anybody.
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Post by movieliker on May 18, 2018 16:33:01 GMT
Actually, isn't hate nice males very extreme? Even if women didn't gravitate towards the nice guys and preferred the bad boys it doesn't mean they hate anybody. Yes, but sugarbiscuits is projecting his own emotions when he thinks he has been rejected by women. Probably he believes he has been rejected before the women actually have a chance to accept or reject him.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2018 15:03:04 GMT
Maybe "nice" guys and "bad" guys only appear that way to certain people so that's more based on the certain perspective of the person? I think the women falls for the "bad" guy when she gets to know him and sees the good in him that others don't notice right away. But yeah you never want to be boring.... :/
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Post by movieliker on May 19, 2018 16:10:50 GMT
Maybe "nice" guys and "bad" guys only appear that way to certain people so that's more based on the certain perspective of the person? I think the women falls for the "bad" guy when she gets to know him and sees the good in him that others don't notice right away. But yeah you never want to be boring.... :/ Perspective is important. But I know lots of "hot chicks" who could have any guy they want, who stubbornly stick with the world's biggest assholes who cheat on them, spend all their money, and even abuse them to some degree. But these girls/ladies/women won't even look at "nice guys" who have all their shit together.
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Post by kls on May 19, 2018 16:15:26 GMT
Maybe "nice" guys and "bad" guys only appear that way to certain people so that's more based on the certain perspective of the person? I think the women falls for the "bad" guy when she gets to know him and sees the good in him that others don't notice right away. But yeah you never want to be boring.... :/ Perspective is important. But I know lots of "hot chicks" who could have any guy they want, who stubbornly stick with the world's biggest assholes who cheat on them, spend all their money, and even abuse them to some degree. But these girls/ladies/women won't even look at "nice guys" who have all their shit together. I don't know if it's that some people find a drama free life boring.
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Post by movieliker on May 19, 2018 17:10:36 GMT
Perspective is important. But I know lots of "hot chicks" who could have any guy they want, who stubbornly stick with the world's biggest assholes who cheat on them, spend all their money, and even abuse them to some degree. But these girls/ladies/women won't even look at "nice guys" who have all their shit together. I don't know if it's that some people find a drama free life boring. You could be on to something there. Might be the same women who like to watch soap operas and shows like "The Real Housewives of Somewhere" where every character seems to live to create trouble, controversy and drama. With all due respect, that seems to be a female thing.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Sept 5, 2018 18:53:30 GMT
nice = boring
they like bad dangerous interesting males. I wouldn't say hate. They are indifferent to them. Which in some ways might be worse since you're not even on the radar!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2018 22:32:34 GMT
nice = boring
they like bad dangerous interesting males. I don't find bad and dangerous interesting. Yeah, Thriller was by far his best album.
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Sept 6, 2018 4:57:13 GMT
nice = boring
they like bad dangerous interesting males. You're not a Supreme Gentleman in the making, are you?
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Post by ck100 on Sept 6, 2018 5:07:29 GMT
Just because a man is nice doesn't mean he's a pussy.
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