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Post by Nora on Jun 20, 2018 17:37:56 GMT
the other topic made me think of different preferences people have.
I never knew how much I would love getting my ears massaged. It is absolutely my favorite part to get massaged. If you have not had it done, do it! The feeling is insane. No wonder dogs love it so much. And no when you do it to yourself or when someone who doesn't know what they are doing tries it its not the same.
After ears it would be my feet.
What do you like getting massaged the most? (from a professional I mean).
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Post by Terrapin Station on Jun 20, 2018 17:47:34 GMT
It's kind of hard to answer (outside of a sexual context, at least), because really, it's pretty much, "Whatever part you weren't massaging a few minutes ago." In other words, a massage is going to feel best to me the first couple minutes in a particular spot, then move on to the next spot.
However, in the vein of providing some answer, I said "scalp," largely because a scalp massage, if done just the right way, will completely relax me and then put me to sleep before too long, and it will still feel just as good to me if it goes on for awhile.
The body part that does the second-best job of that for me is a hand/lower-arm massage.
More than being massaged for a long time, though, I prefer to be "tickled"--that is, very, very light, slow-moving touching, almost so that I can barely feel it, almost just barely touching the ends of my hairs. I particularly like that on my back and face.
Back massages don't usually do a whole lot for me if they go on more than a couple minutes. Shoulder/neck massages I like more, though, and that doesn't put me to sleep.
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Post by Nora on Jun 20, 2018 18:22:35 GMT
It's kind of hard to answer (outside of a sexual context, at least), because really, it's pretty much, "Whatever part you weren't massaging a few minutes ago." In other words, a massage is going to feel best to me the first couple minutes in a particular spot, then move on to the next spot. However, in the vein of providing some answer, I said "scalp," largely because a scalp massage, if done just the right way, will completely relax me and then put me to sleep before too long, and it will still feel just as good to me if it goes on for awhile. The body part that does the second-best job of that for me is a hand/lower-arm massage. More than being massaged for a long time, though, I prefer to be "tickled"--that is, very, very light, slow-moving touching, almost so that I can barely feel it, almost just barely touching the ends of my hairs. I particularly like that on my back and face. Back massages don't usually do a whole lot for me if they go on more than a couple minutes. Shoulder/neck massages I like more, though, and that doesn't put me to sleep. i agree on the scalp massage being super relaxing. i love that also. and the tickleing too. but have you ever had that done by a massage therapist?? Is that a thing they do? Is so I WANT IT FOR 90 MINUTES! |
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Post by lordquesterjones on Jun 20, 2018 18:32:23 GMT
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Post by Raimo47 on Jun 20, 2018 19:03:50 GMT
I have never had a professional massage. I would probably choose shoulders and neck, because occasionally I have neck pains.
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Post by deembastille on Jun 20, 2018 19:14:11 GMT
Feet. They hurt me so.
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Post by Nora on Jun 20, 2018 21:17:25 GMT
I have never had a professional massage. I would probably choose shoulders and neck, because occasionally I have neck pains. oh do! Its like a different world of pleasure. |
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Post by Nora on Jun 20, 2018 21:18:47 GMT
yeah I know the feeling. Have you been wearing high heels a lot? In my past life as a corporate worker I wore high heals almost every day for about 10 years. I think I am still paying for that. |
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Post by deembastille on Jun 20, 2018 23:06:21 GMT
yeah I know the feeling. Have you been wearing high heels a lot? In my past life as a corporate worker I wore high heals almost every day for about 10 years. I think I am still paying for that. i can't wear high heals at all. my feet are nothing but arch. i have had many ingrown toenails but thankfully not anymore. i have many toe problems and have been putting off having a bone in each of my fourth toes removed due to the problems [actually a common problem and a common remedy]. my podiatrist took one look at my feet when he was going to remove a horrid corn from UNDER a toe [!] and said your feet must cause you so much pain. |
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Jun 20, 2018 23:15:21 GMT
Back
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Post by Nora on Jun 21, 2018 0:04:10 GMT
seems the scalp is winning. i would have bet on feet or back…. interesting.
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Post by koskiewicz on Jun 21, 2018 18:38:15 GMT
...my speculum...
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Post by Nora on Jun 21, 2018 19:02:52 GMT
tell us more about it… I, for one, I am interested in all you have to say on that subject. |
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Post by mslo79 on Jun 21, 2018 20:29:19 GMT
I guess ill vote for the 'neck and shoulders' area (with 'back' being a alternative choice). but anyways...
given the options in the topic, ill just make some general comments... "getting a massage is a sin and you will burn in hell!" ; my guess is you put this here for comedic effect etc. but on a serious note that would not be a sin as long as things don't turn sexual (NOTE: this just assumes one is not legitimately married as if one is married then, obviously, your pretty much in the clear and there is no sin). "I never had a professional massage" & "I don't like when other people touch me" ; these pretty much apply to me because in general I don't really like when people touch me. I don't mind a handshake here and there or something like that, or maybe a pat on the back once in a while, but in general I prefer not to have much physical contact with random people or like when people get too close when talking to me or have to hang onto you etc as that stuff I don't like as a general guideline. "genitals" and "breasts" ; obviously these can't count on a serious note as it's not really a massage at that point and turns into a "massage"  ; but the one that's a bit of a grey area, which is "butt", I could 'maybe' see that one being a legit massage. but with that stuff out of the way... given the rest of the choices, I would almost certainty go with 'back' or 'neck and shoulders'. I guess technically I had a 'neck and shoulder' thing a little at some point in the past but not really much. but outside of these two choices... the rest just seem mostly pointless. I would have to assume most people would likely choose one of these two options because they seem to be the most beneficial in general. |
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Post by Nora on Jun 21, 2018 21:32:10 GMT
I guess ill vote for the 'neck and shoulders' area (with 'back' being a alternative choice). but anyways...
given the options in the topic, ill just make some general comments... "getting a massage is a sin and you will burn in hell!" ; my guess is you put this here for comedic effect etc. but on a serious note that would not be a sin as long as things don't turn sexual (NOTE: this just assumes one is not legitimately married as if one is married then, obviously, your pretty much in the clear and there is no sin).
"I never had a professional massage" & "I don't like when other people touch me" ; these pretty much apply to me because in general I don't really like when people touch me. I don't mind a handshake here and there or something like that, or maybe a pat on the back once in a while, but in general I prefer not to have much physical contact with random people or like when people get too close when talking to me or have to hang onto you etc as that stuff I don't like as a general guideline. "genitals" and "breasts" ; obviously these can't count on a serious note as it's not really a massage at that point and turns into a "massage" ; but the one that's a bit of a grey area, which is "butt", I could 'maybe' see that one being a legit massage. but with that stuff out of the way... given the rest of the choices, I would almost certainty go with 'back' or 'neck and shoulders'. I guess technically I had a 'neck and shoulder' thing a little at some point in the past but not really much. but outside of these two choices... the rest just seem mostly pointless. I would have to assume most people would likely choose one of these two options because they seem to be the most beneficial in general. wait, how is it not a sin if you are married but it IS a sin when you are not? I dont get it. Isnt adultery a sin? |
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Post by Aj_June on Jun 21, 2018 22:19:45 GMT
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Post by deembastille on Jun 21, 2018 22:23:54 GMT
I guess ill vote for the 'neck and shoulders' area (with 'back' being a alternative choice). but anyways...
given the options in the topic, ill just make some general comments... "getting a massage is a sin and you will burn in hell!" ; my guess is you put this here for comedic effect etc. but on a serious note that would not be a sin as long as things don't turn sexual (NOTE: this just assumes one is not legitimately married as if one is married then, obviously, your pretty much in the clear and there is no sin).
"I never had a professional massage" & "I don't like when other people touch me" ; these pretty much apply to me because in general I don't really like when people touch me. I don't mind a handshake here and there or something like that, or maybe a pat on the back once in a while, but in general I prefer not to have much physical contact with random people or like when people get too close when talking to me or have to hang onto you etc as that stuff I don't like as a general guideline. "genitals" and "breasts" ; obviously these can't count on a serious note as it's not really a massage at that point and turns into a "massage" ; but the one that's a bit of a grey area, which is "butt", I could 'maybe' see that one being a legit massage. but with that stuff out of the way... given the rest of the choices, I would almost certainty go with 'back' or 'neck and shoulders'. I guess technically I had a 'neck and shoulder' thing a little at some point in the past but not really much. but outside of these two choices... the rest just seem mostly pointless. I would have to assume most people would likely choose one of these two options because they seem to be the most beneficial in general. wait, how is it not a sin if you are married but it IS a sin when you are not? I dont get it. Isnt adultery a sin? AND HERE WE ARE WITH THE RELIGIOUS SHIT! [not aimed at nora] |
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Post by QueenB on Jun 21, 2018 22:42:08 GMT
I've never had a professional body massage although I have had a few facials before which were really good. The closest I've had to a body massage was in the nail salon for like 2 mins while my nails are drying. So I guess my shoulders and neck would be my favorite since I tend to get a lot of knots in that area.
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Post by mslo79 on Jun 21, 2018 22:48:54 GMT
NoraYes, adultery is clearly and unquestionably a sin. but in short... sex within legitimate marriage is not adultery. although if for example... say you or I, or any random person, had sex with another married person. that's clear cut adultery there. but basically... sex within marriage is not a sin (although it's still possible one can cross the line in some ways but I won't get into that for now) but outside of marriage it's always a sin to sum it up. like all of those people who live/sleep together and are not married or just get together and have sex etc. that offends God, as it's pretty much lust. a lot of people are guilty here especially in today's world were more and more people are sleeping together who are not married but it's probably not all that surprising given society seems to be drifting further and further away from God's way of living. basically lust is one of the easiest ways for people to fall into serious sin and based on the Fatima stuff (the ones tied to the Miracle of the Sun which occurred in 1917)... Our Lady(i.e. the mother of God) said to Jacinta(one of the three children involved with the Fatima thing), "The sins which cause most souls to go to Hell are the sins of the flesh.". ; but it's not that surprising because the sexual desire is one of our strongest desires and one of the the easiest for us to abuse. but this talks about adultery a bit (and other stuff inline with it etc) and will give you more info... www.vatican.va/archive/ccc_css/archive/catechism/p3s2c2a6.htm ; that's direct from the Catechism of the Catholic church which is official church teachings on these matters. but to quickly quote #2380 & #2381 from the CCC (Catechism of the Catholic church), which is in that website link above... so while sex outside of marriage is already crossing the line. I would imagine a random single person (or married person) having sex with another married person is a bigger offense (i.e. a worse sin) than two random single people having sex. but don't get me wrong, clearly avoid both. I was just saying that messing around with a married person is likely even worse. but basically... it's pretty easy for one to fall into sin around the sexual desire if we ain't careful. even in thoughts, like for example... when we willingly choose to fantasize about having sex with someone in our mind/heart (basically what many commonly refer to as 'impure thoughts'(although I guess it could go beyond sexual desire to etc)), one can even sin that way to. but say those thoughts come into our head, which they likely will from time-to-time since we are human, but as soon as we acknowledge that they are there as long as we quickly reject them, we are not guilty of sin. but if one commits to those thoughts/desires etc, one is guilty and has crossed the line. p.s. a word of advice... if one is serious about this stuff(like belief in God etc), regular prayer is not optional but required is one is going to resist sin (basically we obtain grace from God through prayer etc to live a more holy life) and grow closer to God. that's one area I suspect many Christians neglect is lack of regular prayer, sadly. but since we all have a free will, God won't force someone to follow His commandments etc as it needs to be a free act on our part, otherwise it would not be love. like if He forced us to do or not do things, it would not be a act of love on our part as we have to freely choose to follow His commandments etc. so those thinking it's impossible to resist my sexual urge etc... well your right, it basically is in general without God's help which we obtain through regular prayer etc.
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Post by deembastille on Jun 21, 2018 22:57:06 GMT
^^^^ did i tell ya or did i tell ya?????
shit. he never fails.
in any event, i wish there was a small range we could check off... i also like my neck to be massaged and my shoulders provided my nerves aren't screaming when you start massaging.
a few months ago i had a terrible back ache where the neck meets the back and i got one of those heated massage pads for your shoulders [but could be used for other areas like your belly if needed]. it was great although it does automatically turn off after a half hour.
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; but the one that's a bit of a grey area, which is "butt", I could 'maybe' see that one being a legit massage.
