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Post by deembastille on Jan 16, 2019 1:51:34 GMT
movieliker ... "Most teens who are sexually active don't get pregnant" Um... You've never been to Mott Haven, Bronx, have you? Yeah. If you're a teen and NOT pregnant, you are considered barren. The parents actually want to become grandparents by the time they are 35. It's considered an accomplishment. Most teens are from that area? Again, you haven't been to that area, have you?
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Post by kls on Jan 16, 2019 1:56:57 GMT
Most teens are from that area? Again, you haven't been to that area, have you? No I haven't. But what does that have to do with my question? That area isn't the whole of NY, America or the world in general.
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Post by deembastille on Jan 16, 2019 3:38:31 GMT
Again, you haven't been to that area, have you? No I haven't. But what does that have to do with my question? That area isn't the whole of NY, America or the world in general. Sigh. Your question asked if all the teens live in Mott Haven Bronx. They might has well all live there. It seems like they all migrate from everywhere in the world to this area. Don't go there. They'd eat you alive.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Jan 16, 2019 4:20:31 GMT
movieliker... "Most teens who are sexually active don't get pregnant" Um... You've never been to Mott Haven, Bronx, have you? Yeah. If you're a teen and NOT pregnant, you are considered barren. The parents actually want to become grandparents by the time they are 35. It's considered an accomplishment. Your implication is ludicrous.
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Post by kls on Jan 16, 2019 7:25:08 GMT
No I haven't. But what does that have to do with my question? That area isn't the whole of NY, America or the world in general. Sigh. Your question asked if all the teens live in Mott Haven Bronx. They might has well all live there. It seems like they all migrate from everywhere in the world to this area. Don't go there. They'd eat you alive. I've never once heard a teen other than one of my incarcerated students speak about the area.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jan 16, 2019 15:18:22 GMT
IMO...
15 would be the earliest. I mean really... wtf do you know about dating before that? You were probably still playing with Pokémon before that. Kids are too in a rush to grow up.
I knew of a girl who had boyfriends when she was 13. What?! WTF does she know about romance at 13?! Generalizing, she doesn't! It is about the attention only that she gets from boys. While girls can be more mature than boys at that age, that doesn't account for much life experience in partnership relationships, unless they are trampy flirts. Such 13yr old girls though, their looks and intelligence may belie their true age and many may tell lies about how old they really are. The girl you are referring to, were her boyfriends in the same grade? They were.
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Post by clusium on Jan 16, 2019 16:01:42 GMT
What age is it okay to start dating? Back when I was a kid, kids began dating around 10 years old (but, most of them did it without their parents knowing about it).
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Post by clusium on Jan 16, 2019 16:02:05 GMT
What age is it okay to start dating? Back when I was a kid, kids began dating around 10 years old (but, most of them did it without their parents knowing about it).
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jan 16, 2019 17:25:03 GMT
What age is it okay to start dating? Back when I was a kid, kids began dating around 10 years old (but, most of them did it without their parents knowing about it). ^THIS^ lol
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Post by Nora on Jan 16, 2019 18:44:23 GMT
I'm a homo and had 3 gf's when I was a kid. One up until I was 7 until we moved away and she was devastated and the other until I was around 11. I then had another gf around 12 and she was the baddest girl in school who had to be taught in her own class and would beat me up sometimes. She asked me if I would marry her, because her mother said I could. wait thats not the end of the story... what happened then?
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Post by clusium on Jan 16, 2019 19:37:50 GMT
Back when I was a kid, kids began dating around 10 years old (but, most of them did it without their parents knowing about it). ^THIS^ lol
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jan 16, 2019 20:38:24 GMT
I'm a homo... You could have stopped right there. After that all those relationships were doomed.
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Post by hanswilm on Jan 16, 2019 20:41:01 GMT
I'd say about 16 or 17.
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Post by clusium on Jan 16, 2019 23:10:51 GMT
Some start dating as young as 10 years.
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Post by Nora on Jan 17, 2019 1:04:55 GMT
wait thats not the end of the story... what happened then? One night she called me. I can't recall if I was nearing the end of high school, or if I had left by then, but she said she was in bad girls borstal or something. She didn't go into why she was there. That was the last I heard of her. We used to have a lot of fun together and I couldn't wait to see her and would feel detached when we parted. I loved all my ladies for making me appreciative of their presence. sounds sweet. i now what to know what happened to her and if she got married or is STILL WAITING FOR YOU
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Post by dirtypillows on Jan 17, 2019 6:11:58 GMT
I'm a homo and had 3 gf's when I was a kid. One up until I was 7 until we moved away and she was devastated and the other until I was around 11. I then had another gf around 12 and she was the baddest girl in school who had to be taught in her own class and would beat me up sometimes. She asked me if I would marry her, because her mother said I could. Oh, Toasted Cheese! No! I don't know whether to laugh or cry or throw my hands in the air. "and would beat me up sometimes..." Nah, that's actually very funny. And her mother said it was okay if she married you. Huh-wow. I can't imagine what the mother was like. Did you say yes or no to the proposal? And did she beat you up after you gave her your final answer? Was her name Lola?
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Post by dirtypillows on Jan 17, 2019 6:16:08 GMT
My first date consisted of getting a blow job from an older man, probably in his 40s. I was 17 years old.
My second date was two years later and I got another another blow job from a dude closer to my age.
I don't know when I started going out on dates that did not begin and end with getting a blow job. Probably early 20s....
So, you see, it's all relative.
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Post by dirtypillows on Jan 17, 2019 22:08:58 GMT
My first date consisted of getting a blow job from an older man, probably in his 40s. I was 17 years old. My second date was two years later and I got another another blow job from a dude closer to my age. I don't know when I started going out on dates that did not begin and end with getting a blow job. Probably early 20s.... So, you see, it's all relative. Sounds like they used you Mr. D and then blew you off. Oh, yes! Those were the days, my friend! (I thought they'd never end. ) I have been neurotic about many things that life has confronted me with. However, being gay was never one of them. Never once did I want to not be gay. I have no idea how that one missed me. I kissed my first boy when I was in second grade. He simply stood there and looked at me. There was no hostility whatsoever. Wow. What a sweet memory.
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Post by dirtypillows on Jan 17, 2019 23:53:00 GMT
Oh, yes! Those were the days, my friend! (I thought they'd never end. ) I have been neurotic about many things that life has confronted me with. However, being gay was never one of them. Never once did I want to not be gay. I have no idea how that one missed me. I kissed my first boy when I was in second grade. He simply stood there and looked at me. There was no hostility whatsoever. Wow. What a sweet memory. From what you recall Mr. D, do you remember growing up around ignorant and prejudicial comments and attitudes from family members, friends, neighbors, school kids....etc?
I DID grow up neurotic regarding my homoness and not playing the 'victim' here by saying this, I did grow up around many bigoted and abusive attitudes. At the time I felt 'victimized', but as a child, couldn't put this into proper perspective. I also grew up not too confident either. That was a parental conditioning too. At any rate, I have survived them and still am....
Not that I minded how my gayness made me feel inside, which I was aware of as a wee lad and as it was a part of me that was normal, but from a psychological perspective as how many others saw homosexuality and not normal, it did disturb and rattle me.
How sweet! You kissed your first boy in second grade. Was he a school chum, or just a kid you thought was cute? I had school friend in early primary, and we would walk around holding hands occasionally. He was a nice friend to have, but he also had a lot more confidence about himself, was more socially pro-active and I grew up more troubled.
Both my parents, especially my dad, I am 99% sure knew they had a gay son on their hands and I believe they thought they could successfully "scare" me out of it with their - I have to say it - sometimes hateful comments about gay people. I suppose, in part, they thought they were saving their child from having a hard like as somebody who would be marginalized, but that did not work. I did have the classic set-up of strong, overbearing mother and emotionally absent father. I'm not sure if that was the case with you and your folks or not, Toasted Cheese. From as early back as I can remember, I have always viewed men as the more vulnerable gender - by a wide, wide margin. And this vulnerability makes men exquisite to me. In ways that women could never do for me (except for Carrie White ), men break my heart. And growing up, what DID bother me (very much) was this idea that women have it so much harder than men. I've always felt that women have it so much easier than men. And, good for me, I never succumbed to popular opinion. Everything about men I have always loved, their sweetness, their openness, the way they smell, their vulnerability, just everything. (The movie "The Deer Hunter" might be my go to example for making a case.) I have spent some time socializing with heterosexual couples, and the kind of psychic energy that some women exude is quite intense and, frankly, terrifying. The trump card that some women have is their humor. I do love a woman who can make me laugh, and that is why actresses like Sylvia Miles, Pat Ast, Nancy Parsons, Susan Tyrrell, Bette Davis, Cookie Mueller, Cassandra Peterson, Wendy O Williams, etc. are so awesome. Okay, WOW was not an actress, but she was still AWESOME!!! Wendy was the BEST!!! I got made fun of somewhat, mostly 5th-8th grade, and almost all of my tormentors were girls. Go figure. John U., awww... He was my classmate and he was the shyest child in the room and I was the second shyest, and he was very endearing to me. I remember it well. It was right before lunch time when the kids went to the bathroom and wash their hands, and John and I were the last two boys in the bathroom and we were standing there and I just reached over and kissed him on the cheek. I had a huge crush on him. I will never forget it.
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Post by moviemouth on Jan 18, 2019 1:21:12 GMT
What age is it okay to start dating? Back when I was a kid, kids began dating around 10 years old ( but, most of them did it without their parents knowing about it). Thank you. You are the first person to point this out. Most kids do a lot of stuff without their parents knowing about it and the only way to really stop it is to be an over-protective parent.
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