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Post by msdemos on Mar 18, 2019 17:08:58 GMT
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Mar 18, 2019 17:54:15 GMT
I didn't vote, because I am a recovering people-pleaser. Now, my mother is a full-blown one; external validation is what she lives for. As I said in another thread, she had childhood issues, and this was one of the characteristics that emerged.
I was raised by her to put EVERYONE'S needs ahead of my own, ESPECIALLY her needs, so it has taken me a long time to learn how to set appropriate boundaries, and make sure my own needs are met.
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Post by Ass_E9 on Mar 18, 2019 18:17:08 GMT
I'll say no, if that's OK with you.
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Post by Raimo47 on Mar 18, 2019 18:44:17 GMT
No.
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Post by Nora on Mar 18, 2019 21:32:04 GMT
thought i would be but the quizz says i am not. go figure.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 18, 2019 22:14:52 GMT
I didn't vote, because I am a recovering people-pleaser. Now, my mother is a full-blown one; external validation is what she lives for. As I said in another thread, she had childhood issues, and this was one of the characteristics that emerged. I was raised by her to put EVERYONE'S needs ahead of my own, ESPECIALLY her needs, so it has taken me a long time to learn how to set appropriate boundaries, and make sure my own needs are met. I feel like I could have written this, except it was my dad instead of my mom. I'm still working on the boundaries thing.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Mar 18, 2019 23:00:31 GMT
Every now and again
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Mar 18, 2019 23:20:09 GMT
I didn't vote, because I am a recovering people-pleaser. Now, my mother is a full-blown one; external validation is what she lives for. As I said in another thread, she had childhood issues, and this was one of the characteristics that emerged. I was raised by her to put EVERYONE'S needs ahead of my own, ESPECIALLY her needs, so it has taken me a long time to learn how to set appropriate boundaries, and make sure my own needs are met. I feel like I could have written this, except it was my dad instead of my mom. I'm still working on the boundaries thing. I'm still working on the boundaries thing, too - I think it's a life-long issue.
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Post by BATouttaheck on Mar 18, 2019 23:28:04 GMT
an Prime Example of a People Pleaser (?)
[Cameron doesn't want to go out, but Ferris keeps calling]
Cameron: He'll keep calling me, he'll keep calling me until I come over. He'll make me feel guilty. This is uh... This is ridiculous, ok I'll go, I'll go, I'll go, I'll go, I'll go. What - I'LL GO. Shit.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 0:25:56 GMT
Nope. I don’t really understand people pleasers, I equate it to letting people walk all over you and then saying thank you.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 1:49:16 GMT
Nope. I don’t really understand people pleasers, I equate it to letting people walk all over you and then saying thank you. --------------------------- you'd feel better if you got me a cold beer.... on second thought the prospect of opening a can of beer thats been shaken to the point of being a hand grenade upsets me so, yur not a people pleaser.... *tossing the beer in the garbage* You know what it is pal! Lol I’m old fashioned and enjoys feeding men and all that jazz but if you expect it you’ll never get another sandwich.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 1:59:28 GMT
*tossing the beer in the garbage* You know what it is pal! Lol I’m old fashioned and enjoys feeding men and all that jazz but if you expect it you’llnever get another sandwich. ------------------------------- I'll let you hold the remote control? I’ll go watch whatever I want in a different room.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 19, 2019 2:21:28 GMT
------------------------------- I'll let you hold the remote control? I’ll go watch whatever I want in a different room. This is how I picture NoRevisionism
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 2:28:29 GMT
I’ll go watch whatever I want in a different room. This is how I picture NoRevisionism lol. Hey Al was a hard worker and loyal.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 19, 2019 2:41:53 GMT
lol. Hey Al was a hard worker and loyal. I'm betting NoRev is too. But he just likes being a pain in the ass online and I could totally see him belonging to this:
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 2:44:37 GMT
lol. Hey Al was a hard worker and loyal. I'm betting NoRev is too. But he just likes being a pain in the ass online and I could totally see him belonging to this: HAHAHA yes!!
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 19, 2019 3:11:46 GMT
I’ll go watch whatever I want in a different room. ---------------------------------- let me guess? Lifetime? aka the "The Rape, Abuse, Chick Cancer, and Man Hating Network" I don’t watch Lifetime mister! ID channel... 😁
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Post by ant-mac on Mar 19, 2019 3:17:26 GMT
Fuck off!
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Post by Marv on Mar 19, 2019 15:08:14 GMT
I had to click the links to even understand what this meant...but absolutely not.
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Post by Jokers_Wilde on Mar 19, 2019 15:55:01 GMT
I like to think so. I know some decisions I make aren't going to be popular, but hey....that's life.
I do work in customer service. [wink]
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