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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 10, 2019 21:07:48 GMT
Be nice cheetah, he poured his heart out to us. Nothing wrong with that. So enough with the sarcasm bitch Y'know... "wow...thanks for sharing...." could be interpreted not as the sarcasm you took it for, but as simply... "wow...thanks for sharing...." So maybe you jumped the gun a bit and shouldn't be casting stones? Just saying...
No it was sarcasm, it's cheetah.
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Post by Admin on Jun 10, 2019 21:12:11 GMT
It's better to love than to be loved. Requited love is overrated.
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Post by Jep Gambardella on Jun 10, 2019 21:43:23 GMT
Story of my fucking life! Three times in my life I was very good friends with girls who had boyfriends. I was crazy about each of them and would have sold my soul to be with them but I didn’t have the self-confidence required to actually do something about it and tell them how I really felt about them.
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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 10, 2019 22:16:35 GMT
Story of my fucking life! Three times in my life I was very good friends with girls who had boyfriends. I was crazy about each of them and would have sold my soul to be with them but I didn’t have the self-confidence required to actually do something about it and tell them how I really felt about them. Honestly if you were with them you would sell your soul. Relationships are a trap. Once you get past the infatuation stage, you will wish you were single again. No matter how hot the woman is you'll always wanna try another ass.
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Post by Cooper, the Golden Retriever on Jun 10, 2019 22:54:38 GMT
Yep. I had it happen with a girl I worked with. She started on a different shift and I'd see her as I was coming into work, and I thought she was cute. She ended up coming to my shift and every once in a while we would be put on the same job together. I became smitten pretty quickly. The only problem was that she wasn't single and they had a child together. It was hell. I think she was somewhat interested as well just from the vibe that I got when we talked and when we worked in the same vicinity I would catch her looking at me. But after a year or so our company downsized and she was let go. We remained in contact for around a year after that through social media. She followed my band on Instagram and we sent messages to one another. But it stopped last June. I've thought about sending her a message from time to time, but I feel that I'm finally over it, and any further contact would put me right back at square one. I did write a song about it though and it appeared on our last CD, so I guess something positive came out of it. You have a bandm, famous? What's the band's name? You got a YouTube channel?
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Post by Cooper, the Golden Retriever on Jun 10, 2019 23:01:23 GMT
Yep. I had it happen with a girl I worked with. She started on a different shift and I'd see her as I was coming into work, and I thought she was cute. She ended up coming to my shift and every once in a while we would be put on the same job together. I became smitten pretty quickly. The only problem was that she wasn't single and they had a child together. It was hell. I think she was somewhat interested as well just from the vibe that I got when we talked and when we worked in the same vicinity I would catch her looking at me. But after a year or so our company downsized and she was let go. We remained in contact for around a year after that through social media. She followed my band on Instagram and we sent messages to one another. But it stopped last June. I've thought about sending her a message from time to time, but I feel that I'm finally over it, and any further contact would put me right back at square one. I did write a song about it though and it appeared on our last CD, so I guess something positive came out of it. I can;t find your Instsagram page..
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Post by Cooper, the Golden Retriever on Jun 10, 2019 23:06:35 GMT
Sure. The one in my profile pic. But not obsessively.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 11, 2019 1:26:05 GMT
Y'know... "wow...thanks for sharing...." could be interpreted not as the sarcasm you took it for, but as simply... "wow...thanks for sharing...." So maybe you jumped the gun a bit and shouldn't be casting stones? Just saying...
No it was sarcasm, it's cheetah. can it, fat ass!
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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 11, 2019 2:10:35 GMT
No it was sarcasm, it's cheetah. can it, fat ass! Know your role cheetah, and shut your mouth!
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Post by kls on Jun 11, 2019 2:28:12 GMT
No. I don't fall so quickly it would be before I realized he was unavailable.
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Jun 11, 2019 4:05:03 GMT
There was this apparently well known Instagram influencer who looked like Scarlett Johansson crossed with Alyssa Milano. Her and I hit it off and made a date for dinner, only for her to not show up (easily top 5 most humiliating moments of my life, btw). Turned out she had a boyfriend and her guilty conscience hit her at the last moment.
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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 11, 2019 13:44:21 GMT
There was this apparently well known Instagram influencer who looked like Scarlett Johansson crossed with Alyssa Milano. Her and I hit it off and made a date for dinner, only for her to not show up (easily top 5 most humiliating moments of my life, btw). Turned out she had a boyfriend and her guilty conscience hit her at the last moment. Too bad, would have been a nice lay.
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Post by movieliker on Jun 11, 2019 15:16:51 GMT
emotionally or otherwise perhaps?. No. I am not attracted to anybody who is not attracted to me. If I had a girlfriend who lost interest in me, I would lose interest in her just because she had lost interest in me.
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Post by twothousandonemark on Aug 17, 2021 3:27:38 GMT
Year 3 for me, on/off. This summer I finally went all in with honesty, & even now it's a drug because she still invites msg'ing, though at least the more truths I've finally revealed, the less idyllic she seems.
The texting is by far the deepest cut for me - because I think literate messaging enables both parties to visualize their own idyllic vision of the other as it were, rather than vocal tone &/or physical cues. I am surely a far more literate communicator than verbal, hilariously so... & when I text her & read her replies, I'm always doing so envisioning the best of her in my mind's eye... when who only knows if she's on a date with her new bf (whom she started dating before even breaking up her old one... yeah, that's how skewed I am).
What is mental on me, is how aware I am of our list of incompatibilities. We text msg like 2 peas in a pod, & worst I feel like I excite her mind the most with humour & candor. That's the deepest drug cut for me - my most intimate self as it were, like typings here I suppose, continue being shared together.
I dunno, this wkend was a big truth tell from me, & I searched this thread. What's nearly as worse as imagining her idyllic, is that had I not been so forthcoming these past few weeks... instead of regretting doing so because reality sucks, I might just as well be where I was last month.
It sucks so hard because she's such a terrific human being. While she's really cute, it's always been more about her spirit & warmth. I can't quit it.
RSVP bring them on, I'm all ears. Anyways, typing & reading back my own words feels constructive... thank you strangers for participating in my so called existence!
I've told myself that this unrequited is a drug, & the easiest way to conquer a drug if you can is to quit it. I have told her that I love her, that her friendship has been a lifesaver as she has always paused & took time for me... & yet wtf, 3 years can't turn to 6, to 12...
It's soo hard.
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Post by Spitfire926f on Aug 17, 2021 4:30:14 GMT
Year 3 for me, on/off. This summer I finally went all in with honesty, & even now it's a drug because she still invites msg'ing, though at least the more truths I've finally revealed, the less idyllic she seems. The texting is by far the deepest cut for me - because I think literate messaging enables both parties to visualize their own idyllic vision of the other as it were, rather than vocal tone &/or physical cues. I am surely a far more literate communicator than verbal, hilariously so... & when I text her & read her replies, I'm always doing so envisioning the best of her in my mind's eye... when who only knows if she's on a date with her new bf (whom she started dating before even breaking up her old one... yeah, that's how skewed I am). What is mental on me, is how aware I am of our list of incompatibilities. We text msg like 2 peas in a pod, & worst I feel like I excite her mind the most with humour & candor. That's the deepest drug cut for me - my most intimate self as it were, like typings here I suppose, continue being shared together. I dunno, this wkend was a big truth tell from me, & I searched this thread. What's nearly as worse as imagining her idyllic, is that had I not been so forthcoming these past few weeks... instead of regretting doing so because reality sucks, I might just as well be where I was last month. It sucks so hard because she's such a terrific human being. While she's really cute, it's always been more about her spirit & warmth. I can't quit it. RSVP bring them on, I'm all ears. Anyways, typing & reading back my own words feels constructive... thank you strangers for participating in my so called existence! I've told myself that this unrequited is a drug, & the easiest way to conquer a drug if you can is to quit it. I have told her that I love her, that her friendship has been a lifesaver as she has always paused & took time for me... & yet wtf, 3 years can't turn to 6, to 12... It's soo hard. You told her you love her, but does she know you want more? Were you frank with your feelings about her? I struggled with this too...for years. And I finally told him, bluntly, after years of us dancing around it. I was tired of not being honest with my feelings, so I decided that I would just tell him, and if I lost his friendship, it's what needed to happen. And instead of ending the friendship, he reciprocated. It's still too early to tell where it's going to go, but right now, I feel very lucky. He's too good for me, honestly. But I took a chance and now I have a chance.
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Post by Sarge on Aug 17, 2021 5:05:10 GMT
One day, Lynda Carter will show up on my doorstep in her Wonder Woman outfit (in which I'm sure she still looks amazing) and profess her undying love. I don't mind that she's a little older (and more experienced, wink, wink). If she doesn't, I might have to settle for Jennifer Connelly.
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Post by twothousandonemark on Aug 17, 2021 5:24:10 GMT
Year 3 for me, on/off. This summer I finally went all in with honesty, & even now it's a drug because she still invites msg'ing, though at least the more truths I've finally revealed, the less idyllic she seems. The texting is by far the deepest cut for me - because I think literate messaging enables both parties to visualize their own idyllic vision of the other as it were, rather than vocal tone &/or physical cues. I am surely a far more literate communicator than verbal, hilariously so... & when I text her & read her replies, I'm always doing so envisioning the best of her in my mind's eye... when who only knows if she's on a date with her new bf (whom she started dating before even breaking up her old one... yeah, that's how skewed I am). What is mental on me, is how aware I am of our list of incompatibilities. We text msg like 2 peas in a pod, & worst I feel like I excite her mind the most with humour & candor. That's the deepest drug cut for me - my most intimate self as it were, like typings here I suppose, continue being shared together. I dunno, this wkend was a big truth tell from me, & I searched this thread. What's nearly as worse as imagining her idyllic, is that had I not been so forthcoming these past few weeks... instead of regretting doing so because reality sucks, I might just as well be where I was last month. It sucks so hard because she's such a terrific human being. While she's really cute, it's always been more about her spirit & warmth. I can't quit it. RSVP bring them on, I'm all ears. Anyways, typing & reading back my own words feels constructive... thank you strangers for participating in my so called existence! I've told myself that this unrequited is a drug, & the easiest way to conquer a drug if you can is to quit it. I have told her that I love her, that her friendship has been a lifesaver as she has always paused & took time for me... & yet wtf, 3 years can't turn to 6, to 12... It's soo hard. You told her you love her, but does she know you want more? Were you frank with your feelings about her? I struggled with this too...for years. And I finally told him, bluntly, after years of us dancing around it. I was tired of not being honest with my feelings, so I decided that I would just tell him, and if I lost his friendship, it's what needed to happen. And instead of ending the friendship, he reciprocated. It's still too early to tell where it's going to go, but right now, I feel very lucky. He's too good for me, honestly. But I took a chance and now I have a chance. PM'd or DM'd or whatever*
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2021 5:57:49 GMT
Year 3 for me, on/off. This summer I finally went all in with honesty, & even now it's a drug because she still invites msg'ing, though at least the more truths I've finally revealed, the less idyllic she seems. The texting is by far the deepest cut for me - because I think literate messaging enables both parties to visualize their own idyllic vision of the other as it were, rather than vocal tone &/or physical cues. I am surely a far more literate communicator than verbal, hilariously so... & when I text her & read her replies, I'm always doing so envisioning the best of her in my mind's eye... when who only knows if she's on a date with her new bf (whom she started dating before even breaking up her old one... yeah, that's how skewed I am). What is mental on me, is how aware I am of our list of incompatibilities. We text msg like 2 peas in a pod, & worst I feel like I excite her mind the most with humour & candor. That's the deepest drug cut for me - my most intimate self as it were, like typings here I suppose, continue being shared together. I dunno, this wkend was a big truth tell from me, & I searched this thread. What's nearly as worse as imagining her idyllic, is that had I not been so forthcoming these past few weeks... instead of regretting doing so because reality sucks, I might just as well be where I was last month. It sucks so hard because she's such a terrific human being. While she's really cute, it's always been more about her spirit & warmth. I can't quit it. RSVP bring them on, I'm all ears. Anyways, typing & reading back my own words feels constructive... thank you strangers for participating in my so called existence! I've told myself that this unrequited is a drug, & the easiest way to conquer a drug if you can is to quit it. I have told her that I love her, that her friendship has been a lifesaver as she has always paused & took time for me... & yet wtf, 3 years can't turn to 6, to 12... It's soo hard. Ya really had to get that off your chest eh. Bumping this old thread and all lol
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Dec 8, 2023 4:31:06 GMT
I had a huge thing for my boss, and I was pretty sure she liked me back since she was always alluding to my muscles. But a. She was my boss, and b. She was married. So pretty unavailable.
She just moved recently and another girl confirmed she did have a thing for me. I remember the first day I got my work shirt, she just gave it to me to try on. She didn't tell me to go somewhere private to change, so I took the initiative to tease her a bit and just took my shift off there. She didn't say anything but according to the co worker it made quite an impression.
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Post by Feologild Oakes on Dec 8, 2023 10:14:44 GMT
I have never fallen i love, so no i have not.
I have been attracted to women, but i have never actually been in love
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