Post by Toasted Cheese on Mar 8, 2018 8:57:22 GMT
I say this as a male who isn't uncomfortable watching gay sex scenes.
The thing you say about most men being bisexual is a lie that homosexuals/bisexual men of certain type try to convince themselves of in order to feel more "normal."
Since I have no problem talking about this stuff and have very little shame I will be very honest with you.
I am bisexual but I am more straight than gay in my bisexuality. If I had to choose between the two it wouldn't be a difficult choice. I would choose biological women. I am NOT turned on by masculinity in most cases so even when I mess around with a male it is a very feminine male. I also have a huge thing for trangendered women but only pre-op transgendered woman.
This next part will be offensive to transgendered women.
I could never date anyone but a biological female because there is a raw mental connection between me and them. Just knowing a transgendered women was born a male on the outside causes a kind of mental block for me in terms of relationship. There is a reason men and women are attracted to eachother biologically and that is to continue the human race. This is another fact that many (not all) homosexuals and transgendered women have a hard time dealing with. Sure, we have the technology to change some of these things now, but that isn't how nature began.
This is all nature and nature is cruel.
I'd say it's because straight men are the ones that believe they are "normal". Even your point about homo and bi men proves where you are coming from. What if being homo is actually the superior "normal" sexuality? Sex isn't just for pro-creation and whatever sexual dynamic is built into each individual, most of this heteronormative projection and conditioning is just to keep the status quo intact. Nature is just what it is, yet most men are fearful of their homo aspect. I can only speak for myself, but I don't need the feminine as an external part of world, it is well balance and adjusted within and same goes for my masculine side. I can watch lesbian sex, and gay sex, it is just the straight sex that makes me
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