Some pedophiles hate being pedophiles.

I do agree that pedophiles don't choose who they are attracted to.  I suspect that it is a lot more common than people think and I bet that many adults have had attractions to children at some point in their adult lives.  I don't think there is anything wrong or immoral about an adult having an attraction to someone who is underage as long as they don't act on it.  I think society should be more understanding and accepting of adult attractions towards children, provided the adult isn't harming the child.