How Good Looking do you think you are?

How Good Looking do you think you are? Mar 21, 2018 22:38:25 GMT

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Post by Toasted Cheese on Mar 21, 2018 22:38:25 GMT

Mar 21, 2018 3:16:54 GMT Nora said:

I mainly wish women liked themselves more. I think I dont have a single friend who thinks they are really good looking. I have one or two that realize "they are not ugly" (both are complete knock outs like as objectively as you can evaluate female attractiveness but don't see themselves as hot. the rest just thinks they are average or outright disgusting.

I tried looking outside of my social circles too, to take more scientific approach and to see how women from other groups and social economic status feel about themselves. I have yet to find what I am looking for (woman that actually genuinely likes herself inside and outside). I talked to models who are still struggling with self-acceptance based on their physical attributes. And "regular women" too. How and why does this happen to what seems to be an entire gender?

Looks aren't just about the face. The rest of the package can be appealing and attractive even if the face is average. I'm sure many males may also feel insecure about their looks. All I will say about myself, is that I have more appreciation for my features and body now that I am getting older. Stunners may appear to get away with things that others won't, or perhaps get more attention given to them. People who are good looking or extremely hot may find it very frustrating as well, because others may be crushing on them, or act awkward around them. I guess it can give one more confidence in themselves though.

This is only my own observation, I do tend to find many males that I think are better looking than their female counterparts, but that can also come down to dynamic and physical attraction as well and that is purely subjective. I think it is also very difficult to rate looks and attraction away from a pure objective superficial\facade pov.

Are people perhaps focusing way too much on looks and is this a culture thing? Genetics can be a cruel thing and at the end of the day, we are all just the package we came with and like they say, beauty does fade. What is being radiated from within is more important.