Romance

        in relationships women usually wish to or do control the pace of things. it helps to let it evolve slowly or more gradually, naturally.

        this can be difficult when strong emotions are involved. especially when she is not at the same place yet. try not to push the

        pace of things. they will let you know generally if you are sensitive to what they say. note carefully what they don't say. try to put

        all that excess energy into something else for a while. some people react to that intensity by withdrawing. it's a dance. wait

        for them to respond by seeing when they are "open" to you. don't press when they are "closed"