Post by Toasted Cheese on Jul 23, 2018 13:45:11 GMT
Your first two methods of dealing with it I can relate to, especially the second one. If I have gone ahead and started to do some dreaded task, I soften the horrific sense of urgency that inevitably goes with it by giving myself mini-rewards and mini-breaks, like you said, before, during and after. Doing this manages to disarm how intimidating said task may be.
Another thing I do is I prioritize those dreaded tasks. I rate them and rank them, and say there are seven things that really need to get done in the next five days. Rather than attempting to take on the number one, most intimidating and dreaded task of responsibility, I will scroll down and take on something lesser, say the third or fifth most daunting task. Which, of course, makes me breathe a sigh of relief because, compared to number one, number four is practically a piece of cake, and I can get something important done without being bound up by nerves, and usually I can get that task done faster and better, simply by virtue of the fact that I wasn't nervous about doing it. In fact, I even play this mind game with myself and allow myself to think that I am getting away with procrastinating (because I'm NOT doing that scary thing at the top of my list of "scary things to do") when, in fact, I am actually being productive by doing something that is two or three places further down on my list, but still needs to get done.
btw, I LOVE writing cover letters. Thats so strange to hear someone would hate that. I mean I get it, I understand it exists, but for me thats the fun part. But then again, I love writing pls I always feel like there is many things I wanna tell the company about why they should hire me or why i want to work for them…
Anyway, it seems you have a quite methodical approach to dealing with procrastination. thats good. And it also seems that its mostly about how difficult a certain task is for you/in your eyes. My procrastination deals with that also sometimes, but much more often its pure laziness. Like I am not dreading doing the task and I know I can do it well/easily (like lets say wash the dishes) but I am just too lazy to do it so i postpone it and postpone it hoping the family of raccoons that by now lives in my kitchen will eventually lick the dishes dry.
any tips on how to deal with That kind of procrastination?
I know this question was directed at dirtypillows, but I would say that washing ones own dishes, could be about being thankful for the meal that you had on them and that you even have dishes.
I don't mind doing the laundry, hanging it out can be a chore, but it's folding it all up and putting them away where I fail. They just sit in the laundry basket most of the time and I am picking them out as I wear them. When I do finally get around to putting them away and grumble about it, I tell myself to shut the f<>k up and be grateful you have all these clothes to wear.

