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Post by Toasted Cheese on Oct 4, 2018 4:00:23 GMT
My mother said she already pretty much knew, but I went through a dark phase and got very down, and there was no choice but for me to be open about it in the end. My father started to play this strange victim game himself and project onto me, and my folks can have a tendency to drag me and my sister down whether they are aware of it or not. It is about control issues. I was the one that was feeling oppressed by them, but my father was turning it around to make it about himself at times. It was weird and made it difficult. I then went through a, I can't have you near me phase, because of your behavior. This hurt their pride, and caused more resentment, but I guess I finally stood up to them. How old were you when you told them? I was a late bloomer Gamey, in my late 20's. I didn't live in the same country as my folks, so didn't see them that often, otherwise it would have been something that I would have been open about with them much earlier. I didn't want them near me. |
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