Post by kuatorises on Oct 8, 2018 15:15:08 GMT
Toasted Cheese borders on it sometimes.
Well, I guess when the majority of bashing comes from the hets, it is just a recourse by some gay people to delineate what gets taken for granted by straight people. Hets are the ones that are creating the homophobia and they are the ones doing the breeding as well, which creates both homo and hetero beings.
If my sexuality is relevant to the topic, it will crop up, like on this thread, so I don't see what your issue is here. I agree that sexuality isn't the be all end all, but ignorant attitudes can provoke as well. Unless one is gay, any straight person that doesn't know what the experience is of outside looking in for the most part, need to show a little more respect.
You're not exactly helping yourself with terms like this. Hets? Breeders? Who talks like this? You don't think there is a certain air or tone when you speak like this? It's not the only time either. You generally look down on straight people and their traditional lifestyle choices (kids):
I'm not a breeder, I don't have kids and those that I do know and have kids, I act as respectful as possible, but at the end of the day, I don't go out of my way to be surrounded by brats and ultimately, if I don't know you, keep your unruly brats out of my face. 
It's directed by a woman. I will have to think twice before seeing it.
And this? Parenting is a hetero responsibility?! I do think you're kidding part of the time, but you do see some pretty whacked out in derogatory remarks towards us lowly “breeders”.
There are several billion people on this earth and a massive chunk of them are breeding. There are couples with varying personality traits and from many different cultures and also conditionings themselves. We can't possibly pinpoint an absolute reasoning behind something like sexuality, when it derives from many diverse factors and is even capricious in nature. At any rate, and if there is credence to what you say, it still comes down the hets as how children turn out, since they are the ones breeding. If it is due to conditioning, then they only have themselves to blame due to the lack of input from the father and if it is innate, it is still a het responsibility, because the child is a part of their dna. I think it has more to do with hormones and a child is developing and transmuting as they grow in many facets of their physical being.