People marry for many and varied reasons, however it is a contract between them, and when it goes sour from either side, violence (especially when heightened by drug and alcohol abuse) is NOT the solution, hence they are in court.
When and if you commit to marriage you may comment further with more authority.
In other words, you can't admit to the phoniness of it all and look for any opening to blame those awful males, you evil feminist twit. How dare you condescend to me, with your shallow and phony rhetoric woman! I bet no man could bear to be married to you long enough, since you would drive them batty.