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Post by dirtypillows on Jun 25, 2019 14:10:24 GMT
Was it difficult to do this? Parents can intimidate us like nobody else. I have had to stand up to my parents, each exactly one time. My dad was being particularly difficult and I let him have it. I pretty much blew my stack and didn't back down. He knew he had it coming. Whenever I recall the particulars, I get nervous all over. Parents know this and they can use it to their advantage to make themselves feel better.
I stood up to my mother once, too. It was on the phone and she was being especially manipulative and I cussed her out and she responded with more crocodile tears. That's really what she has in her. Poor slob. We didn't talk for two months. Actually, now that I think about it, I stood up to her twice. I told her she was a classic narcissistic mother, all the signs were there. She said she was never going to speak to me again. I touched a nerve. It was quite gratifying to get that off my chest. The silent treatment lasted a week.
Some people out there will say that one's parents are sacred and these people usually will not budge on this regardless of circumstances. Mothers, in particular, are held as sacred. I am not a member of this camp. Stephen King once said that parents try to murder their own children. I totally get that. Parents can be nice and loving, but they can also be just terrible to their children. I know that parents are people, too. It's a fine line where to cut them some slack.
So if you ever had to let a parent finally have what was coming to to them, how did it go?
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