Post by Nora on Jul 31, 2019 14:09:00 GMT
The Yes part is there are a variety of ways to do it if you are willing to invest the patience, emotion, and humility to talk to someone you are rejecting in an open honest yet caring manner.
The No part comes in because everything I just wrote above means squat to most people who are being rejected.
I guess the question is not if you can let someone down gently so much as does anyone ever accept being rejected without feeling it is a personal attack
yes. it hurts, sure, but regarding lust and love its not like the person is freely chosing who to like or not is it. its kinda coded into them and if it so happens their code doesnt tell them to fall in love with me how is it their fault and how can it be their attack on me?
but yes it still sucks of course. and i struggle myself when i need to reject someone.