Some people are so miserable and mad they have no control

You have to realize that some people have reached a point of no return in their mind. They no longer care. There is a point where you have to give up or you will just cause yourself to become more miserable. You got to let go in some cases.

You also have to realize that everyone isn't the same. Some people are stronger than other people. There are people who have run out of fucks to give. I struggle with this every day. I have become borderline indifferent to what happens to me and I am trying to hang on tightly to caring about what happens to other people. I say that, because if that goes away then I have nothing left to live for. When you are existing just for the sake of existing then what is even the point?

Harping on things can come from a place of concern. Harping on something just means that you keep bringing it up. If that isn't what you are doing then I take that back. You could be doing it and not even realizing that you are coming off a certain way. Part of everyone's problems is that it is very difficult to see ourselves from the perspective of other people. Self-awareness has a limit.

People have to want to change. You can only do so much.