Post by rachelcarson1953 on Sept 7, 2017 5:10:33 GMT
Sept 6, 2017 20:04:53 GMT @miccee said:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antinatalism
I was unfamiliar with it - interesting read.
I did not procreate - I have often "joked" that that was my gift to the universe, not reproducing - because I didn't want to pass on the dysfunctional aspects of my family. My husband's family was even more dysfunctional - actually brutal - than mine. So I see your point.
Cupcakes thinks that this is some kind of a 'Dr Evil' philosophy; but it's actually about not imposing hazards upon people who cannot consent, just because the parents feel that their own lives will be enriched by the addition of children. That's a brief summary, anyway.
Or because they have empathy and experience and basic sense enough to know that kids can and with good parental support generally do have blasts, and can be guided to have lives that they thoroughly enjoy.
And no one seems to think about whether the earth can continue to support as much life as there is now. I look at pregnant women in the grocery store with another two kids in tow and wonder, what are they thinking, bringing more kids into a world that is going to be stressed to the max.
I know I made the right choice. My non-existent children were spared a dysfunctional childhood and troubled life. I feel my life has been enriched by not having children; I've pursued other interests. The animal rescue groups I have volunteered with have a policy; any animal that comes in to the rescue is spayed or neutered before being put up for adoption. No unwanted litters to be abandoned, drowned or thrown into a dumpster in the heat of summer. And if an animal comes in that is too sick to survive and is suffering, it is humanely euthanized. Reduce the suffering.

