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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2018 1:26:43 GMT
Who's better?
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Post by mslo79 on Jun 23, 2018 6:58:56 GMT
Well I can say I am definitely closer to my mom than my dad. but it's not surprising as she's warmer and just easier to talk to on random stuff for me in general. things just click.
I am not saying my dad is bad or that we don't get along, it's just I always been closer to my mom. so I generally talk to my mom much more.
but with that said... I am not going to vote in the topic.
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Post by ellynmacg on Jun 23, 2018 7:00:03 GMT
I notice you don't include the option of "They were both good." Any particular reason for that?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2018 7:20:55 GMT
Neither. Both abandoned me when I came out and my life has been better without them. 
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Post by Nicko's Nose on Jun 23, 2018 7:23:29 GMT
My mom. She knows everything about me and I can talk to her about anything. Can’t say the same about my dad. I don’t dislike him or anything though.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2018 8:03:04 GMT
My mom
My father is just an selfish alcohol asshole who i cut all contact with years ago.
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Post by Caesar Roberto on Jun 24, 2018 15:11:10 GMT
Neither. Both abandoned me when I came out and my life has been better without them. What the hell? What scumbags. |
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Post by deembastille on Jun 25, 2018 0:31:46 GMT
they both take turns being whacadoos...
my mom... was this june cleaver type of mom. would not vacuum in pearls and high heals but would do the 50's mom thing. even in the 80s.
my dad... kind of didn't have a normal childhood because of him and that was sometimes good sometimes not. every weekend was spent going to Pergament. and then he would do weekend projects which we would have to assist with. good thing: he knew what he was doing with the wps and would actually teach us viable things regarding wood working or car maintenance.
he was the major bread winner and we would go out to eat to relatively nice places every once in a while. enough so that we knew how to behave when at a restaurant but not too close where we had no money for anything else.
my father when i was growing up would like everything just so. to the point he made a teenage waitress cry over her not getting his head of beer right. i was so embarrassed but at the end of the day, we were stuck with this dude raising us. if you are going to cry, cry for his poor kids and maybe his wife who is 'stuck with him'.
he has gotten better but now that he is older his body has caught up with him... my parents were weird growing up -- like they would keep the 'dirty laundry' well hidden for fear that the dirty laundry was police worthy [some of it was]. my father would be verbally abusive to my mother sometimes but never in front of any guests. now he has forgotten guests are around and he treats her like shes an idiot. trouble is, after 50 years of marriage, she is not standing up for herself in front of guests -- i guess not to fan the flames.
i am getting tired of her whining and crying about how he abuses her but she wont even talk to him about it. wont leave him. don't you dare say the d word to her...
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Post by Vodkie on Jun 25, 2018 4:13:01 GMT
My mom. I never really knew my father
He was a selfish asshole who cheated and karma got his ass. he was honest about his cheating too because he wanted his own apartment.
He moved into his own apartment 4 miles away in 85 when i was 2.5 years old so he could screw other women without me or my brother seeing it. I was co-raised by my mom and aunt because of it.
We moved 70 miles away in 1990. then in 1991, he had a stroke while driving, crashed, was left brain damaged, paralyzed and cared for in nusring homes until his 2013 death. His car didn't have seat belts in it because it was made before seat belts were required by california law. The car accident was karma. I mean i visited him in the nursing homes but I never felt like I knew him.
The damage it did to my brother growing up. He acted out over it. I don't even speak to him. He was not a brother to me. He was just some selfish cunt I had to live with.
He used to call me the embarassment of the family. Yet on his facebook profile, under the 'bio' section, he writes "PERIOD BLOOD!!!!!" several times and on his instagram bio it says "I am for sale. I Will strip for you if you pay me". and he had the nerve to say I was the embarrassment of the family?
To this day, it creeps me out if 2 brothers or a father and son say "I love you" to each other.
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Post by QueenB on Jun 25, 2018 4:27:00 GMT
My mom. My father was an abusive alcoholic who cheated on my mom. When they finally divorced, none of us had any contact with him or his side of the family. I haven't seen him since I was 11.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Jun 25, 2018 8:11:51 GMT
2 out of 3 falls? Or Steel Cage Match?
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Post by Nora on Jun 25, 2018 10:32:29 GMT
why no "they were both good" or "i love them both equally" (which would be my case)? This way I cannot vote. Plus my heart is now breaking for all the dads that were not picked and based on what they did also for their kids…
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