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Post by Aj_June on Jul 21, 2018 5:36:50 GMT
It depends how friendly they are for starters. I give as good as I get. Well you should try to be nice to people even if they are not to you fud Do you think that he is 'fud-slush'? The only common thing with him and Fud is that Fud also occasionally posted on cricket threads just as Nx does. But Fud was a gay poster and I don't think Nx is gay. Oh, I remember Fud also used to have females avatars.
6/10 ...I do not start friendships (I know it's my demerit) but I am nice to people who become my friends.
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Post by mslo79 on Jul 21, 2018 7:32:42 GMT
for the 1 through 10 thing... it's really hard to say. but I would probably say no less than a 5/10. like say your average civilized person standard.
like I know I am more friendly than some people (like some people just seem arrogant or just generally negative etc) but then again I know there are some people more friendly than myself (as some people seem to be really good at talking to others about random things). I am not someone who starts conversations with people I don't know for sure which means either the other person starts one or most likely nothing will be said between me and the other person.
but in my experience those types of people who seem to be good at talking to others without it feeling fake etc are not easy to come by as most people (if not the vast majority) ain't up to that standard even though you do stumble into those types of people here and there. I pretty much know one of those types as he's married to one of my cousins. like just the way he comes across talking I think would make others feel more comfortable etc which is always a nice skill to have especially for jobs as that can get people to like you etc which can be a solid advantage.
but I generally don't say much to people I don't know as I keep it brief and move on.
but as a general guideline... I try to treat people with a basic level of respect as some people who lack that towards others tend to be worse than many people. but it's hard to say how I come across to other people. like I would guess they don't see me as unfriendly but at the same time I doubt I come across as one of those super friendly people either. but I think when it comes to talking to people in general some people are good at it while others are not. I am generally not (probably at least partially due to I get a bit of social anxiety which makes me not talk to people I don't know well and I may come across as a bit awkward to some people(?)) but it's not like I can't say a little here and there if the right topic comes up or you happen to be someone who seems pretty friendly etc it might make it a bit easier/more likely for me to talk a bit more etc. plus, I noticed when I get a bit of alcohol in me I tend to talk a bit more than usual.
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Post by ck100 on Jul 21, 2018 7:47:30 GMT
I follow the golden rule so make of that what you will.
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Post by koskiewicz on Jul 21, 2018 14:05:19 GMT
fud...= in my world, Fear, Uncertainty, Doubt
I react to people accordingly...if they want to be friendly, I will be friendly. If they conduct themselves as a jerk, I comply in like manner...
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Post by BATouttaheck on Jul 21, 2018 19:48:40 GMT
for Harmless elf and anyone else ! The bigger question may be: If/when you are being, say, 8-10 level friendly to strangers what level friendly are they back to you ? and if you get a lower than that response, <perhaps a 6 or lower> how does it make you feel and what do you do then ? ?
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Post by jamesbamesy on Jul 22, 2018 2:31:32 GMT
A solid 8 I think.
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Post by ant-mac on Jul 22, 2018 2:44:58 GMT
It depends upon the circumstances.
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Post by petrolino on Jul 22, 2018 2:58:50 GMT
I was raised to be polite, respectful and courteous. My mother always said, "politeness costs nothing". Social interaction can be a positive thing. But if someone keeps acting like a rude, self-absorbed, self-righteous jerk back to you, then to hell with them.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2018 9:20:58 GMT
I follow the golden rule so make of that what you will. So should everyone. I follow that rule myself except that I don't tend to return courtesy for discourtesy.
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