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Post by BATouttaheck on Oct 15, 2018 2:28:18 GMT
Catman I am always careful with my watch BUT it tends to gain time ! Perhaps its hands are too quick. Take the battery out. It's a windup . Maybe I wound it too quickly !
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Post by Deleted on Oct 17, 2018 6:29:02 GMT
It depends on what the person has done to me. I never spoke to my parents again when they abandoned me after I came out and I don't regret that even after I heard my Father passed away 'cause they chose to cut me out of their lives and never tried to contact me and my life has been a whole lot better without them in it but I will usually forgive people if it is something small.
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Post by Chalice_Of_Evil on Oct 17, 2018 10:22:13 GMT
When it comes to holding grudges...I'm a lot like the Poldarks.
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Post by bd74 on Oct 17, 2018 17:14:22 GMT
Absolutely. A grudge simply means that you haven't forgotten the harm that someone did to you. The whole "forgive and forget" crap is just plain stupid. You don't forget other things that have happened in your life, so why would you need to "forgive and forget" a harm that someone did to you? I don't owe forgiveness to the person(s) who wronged me.
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Post by mecano04 on Oct 18, 2018 0:30:03 GMT
While I remember what happened, I'm pretty forgiving in the sense that I got no problem starting anew the next day but if nothing changes at some point I'm fed up and then I'm just done. When I'm done, I'm done. That means the person is out of my life and I want nothing from or related to that person.
I got a few people out already and once you're out, it's not better chance in a few years or after some time passed, it's better chance in another life. You could end world hunger, world poverty, war, find the cure to cancer, make us a space civilization and even if you said my name in your speeches after receiving awards for achieving all that I still wouldn't give a damn.
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Post by Terrapin Station on Oct 18, 2018 0:37:15 GMT
No. I'm not at all a fan of holding grudges. I very quickly forgive/drop/forget stuff that people did that upset me.
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