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Post by Deleted on Oct 9, 2018 2:41:58 GMT
And it's really sad to think about. I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time.
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Post by Ass_E9 on Oct 9, 2018 2:52:30 GMT
But it's good that you have family who would miss you, right?
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Post by Anonymous Andy on Oct 9, 2018 2:52:59 GMT
Well, at least you have a family that cares. Not that it's going to make everything better, but it's something.
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Post by theauxphou on Oct 9, 2018 3:06:01 GMT
Just have a wank.
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Post by itsmagic on Oct 9, 2018 3:31:42 GMT
And it's really sad to think about. I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time.
i am sorry you are depressed. try to figure out what you can change about the things that you hate about your life.
i understand your anger at not getting what you feel you deserve. try to be more assertive. and choose to define
what it is you need. specifically. then work towards changing situations and circumstances to your favor.
maybe that means changing how you act towards others. or who you associate with.
consider counseling as well, wherever it is available to you. school, at work thru human resources or otherwise.
also talk to us here
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Post by redhorizon on Oct 9, 2018 4:14:17 GMT
Same here.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 9, 2018 4:24:46 GMT
And it's really sad to think about. I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time. Life sucks. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you once you're gone. Dead is dead. |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Oct 9, 2018 23:55:48 GMT
I think that's true of most people. Family are the ones who stick by you. Or stick it to you |
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Post by Nora on Oct 10, 2018 0:18:22 GMT
I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time. I cant help but wonder, what kind of a person would not be missed by ANYONE (outside of their family). Provided you do not live in a complete isolation (physically bound to one place, unable to go outside and /or communicate with outside world) its near to impossible that there would be nobody that would remember you fondly if you died. from what i have seen, even complete psychopaths and murderers have had some people that called them friends in their life. they were not assholes to just everybody their entire life. the way i see it its goes down to two options: 1. you think something thats not really true - isnt that GREAT NEWS? Congrats, someone WOULD miss you if you died. Your brain may not believe it but its true. therapy and/or pills may help your brain adjust to reality. 2. what you believe is actually true, in which case you would have to be actively evil, dangerous, cruel, aggressive or something like that, for most of your life, to put all people you every came into contact with off. simply being boring, ugly, self-conscious, poor, or socially awkward will not do that (if that is something that you feel may relate to you). so which one is more likely, you think? that you believe something thats not true or that you have been evil, cruel and dangerous your entire life? when i feel like i am getting the short end of stick all the time, i slap myself and restructure the question: what do i do wrong that i end up like this? i find that opens the doors to solutions most of the time. also emotions in most healthy adults are/can be a choice. it takes training but its possible to transition into choosing or at least heavily moderating what we feel most of the time. feel better. also chose life  |
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Oct 10, 2018 0:51:59 GMT
I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time. I cant help but wonder, what kind of a person would not be missed by ANYONE (outside of their family). Provided you do not live in a complete isolation (physically bound to one place, unable to go outside and /or communicate with outside world) its near to impossible that there would be nobody that would remember you fondly if you died. from what i have seen, even complete psychopaths and murderers have had some people that called them friends in their life. they were not assholes to just everybody their entire life. the way i see it its goes down to two options: 1. you think something thats not really true - isnt that GREAT NEWS? Congrats, someone WOULD miss you if you died. Your brain may not believe it but its true. therapy and/or pills may help your brain adjust to reality. 2. what you believe is actually true, in which case you would have to be actively evil, dangerous, cruel, aggressive or something like that, for most of your life, to put all people you every came into contact with off. simply being boring, ugly, self-conscious, poor, or socially awkward will not do that (if that is something that you feel may relate to you). so which one is more likely, you think? that you believe something thats not true or that you have been evil, cruel and dangerous your entire life? when i feel like i am getting the short end of stick all the time, i slap myself and restructure the question: what do i do wrong that i end up like this? i find that opens the doors to solutions most of the time. also emotions in most healthy adults are/can be a choice. it takes training but its possible to transition into choosing or at least heavily moderating what we feel most of the time. feel better. also chose life Ummm… I used to do that, blame myself, until I went to the doctor and he prescribed anti-depressants. Depression is a disease, a chemical imbalance than can be effectively treated. Now I can manage my emotions more effectively and live a better life. I can get through a rough patch instead of being hopelessly mired down. This poster truly needs help from a medical professional. I've been that low. Meds help. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2018 0:57:23 GMT
Then find some hobbies. In terms of people? Who cares they are a waste of time anyway.
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Post by Nora on Oct 10, 2018 1:00:07 GMT
I cant help but wonder, what kind of a person would not be missed by ANYONE (outside of their family). Provided you do not live in a complete isolation (physically bound to one place, unable to go outside and /or communicate with outside world) its near to impossible that there would be nobody that would remember you fondly if you died. from what i have seen, even complete psychopaths and murderers have had some people that called them friends in their life. they were not assholes to just everybody their entire life. the way i see it its goes down to two options: 1. you think something thats not really true - isnt that GREAT NEWS? Congrats, someone WOULD miss you if you died. Your brain may not believe it but its true. therapy and/or pills may help your brain adjust to reality. 2. what you believe is actually true, in which case you would have to be actively evil, dangerous, cruel, aggressive or something like that, for most of your life, to put all people you every came into contact with off. simply being boring, ugly, self-conscious, poor, or socially awkward will not do that (if that is something that you feel may relate to you). so which one is more likely, you think? that you believe something thats not true or that you have been evil, cruel and dangerous your entire life? when i feel like i am getting the short end of stick all the time, i slap myself and restructure the question: what do i do wrong that i end up like this? i find that opens the doors to solutions most of the time. also emotions in most healthy adults are/can be a choice. it takes training but its possible to transition into choosing or at least heavily moderating what we feel most of the time. feel better. also chose life Ummm… I used to do that, blame myself, until I went to the doctor and he prescribed anti-depressants. Depression is a disease, a chemical imbalance than can be effectively treated. Now I can manage my emotions more effectively and live a better life. I can get through a rough patch instead of being hopelessly mired down. This poster truly needs help from a medical professional. I've been that low. Meds help. sure, thats why i included that recommendation under option one and mention “healthy adults”. those with mental problems/diagnosis obviously need medical attention. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2018 1:02:59 GMT
I don't know you, but I'm sorry that you're hurting and I hope you get through this dark time.
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Post by bd74 on Oct 10, 2018 1:13:35 GMT
And it's really sad to think about. I'm sick and tired of getting the short end of the stick all the time. Well, everybody has problems of some kind. I personally love my life, but I feel like I got the short end of the stick in certain ways (which I'm not gonna go into here). Life feels unfair sometimes. So, don't sweat it because there are a lot of other people out there who are going through something. |
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Post by Primemovermithrax Pejorative on Oct 10, 2018 1:16:41 GMT
I am having this sort of day myself.
Solamen miseris socios habuisse doloris
"solace of the wretched to have companions in misery"
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Post by mslo79 on Oct 10, 2018 3:21:08 GMT
I think that's true of most people. Family are the ones who stick by you.
Yeah, that's pretty much my view on things as a general guideline. because you got family but outside of them I kind of assume no one really cares all that much. but I would not worry about it as it's just the way things are for many.
but even within family, I suspect even for those of us fortunate enough to have a close family, there are some your closer to than others.
with that said... I feel more sorry for those who are alone without any family or if they do have some family, they are at each others throats etc. now that would be quite rough.
p.s. I don't know whether the OP believes in God, but He always cares  |
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Post by BATouttaheck on Oct 10, 2018 3:43:10 GMT
So, I had written a nice compassionate reply to this kids "plea for help" and then before posting it, I took a look at his note history .
Conclusion : Going by the last few days posts, if that's what he's like in his off-line life, it's a wonder that even his family would miss him.
As suggested by cooler heads than mine, he appears to need some medical attention and intervention. There seem to be anger issues at play.
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Post by Aj_June on Oct 10, 2018 4:01:19 GMT
So, I had written a nice compassionate reply to this kids "plea for help" and then before posting it, I took a look at his note history . Conclusion : Going by the last few days posts, if that's what he's like in his off-line life, it's a wonder that even his family would miss him.
As suggested by cooler heads than mine, he appears to need some medical attention and intervention. There seem to be anger issues at play. I may be wrong but it does appear that this poster is former sports board member who was a fan of New York Mets but obsessed with New York Yankees. At least two members on sports board have also indicated that they believe it is him. This fellow was also a member of soapbox board and went by the name of "Hairybuttcheeks". Definitely a troll and not a troll for whom I ever felt any pity.
If he really feels as he claims to feel then I am indeed sorry for him and wish him well.
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Oct 10, 2018 4:32:02 GMT
So, I had written a nice compassionate reply to this kids "plea for help" and then before posting it, I took a look at his note history . Conclusion : Going by the last few days posts, if that's what he's like in his off-line life, it's a wonder that even his family would miss him.
As suggested by cooler heads than mine, he appears to need some medical attention and intervention. There seem to be anger issues at play. I may be wrong but it does appear that this poster is former sports board member who was a fan of New York Mets but obsessed with New York Yankees. At least two members on sports board have also indicated that they believe it is him. This fellow was also a member of soapbox board and went by the name of "Hairybuttcheeks". Definitely a troll and not a troll for whom I ever felt any pity.
If he really feels as he claims to feel then I am indeed sorry for him and wish him well.
The longer I post on this board, the less inclined I am to interact with a new unknown-to-me poster. Smart move, BATouttaheck, looking at previous posts. I couldn't tell if the post was legitimate but wasn't going to get too drawn in, just recommend professional help. If I was truly despondent as he seems to be, I wouldn't post it to an anonymous message board, I would look for an online support group. There are a few of you here that I've interacted with since this board started, and we've shared a few stories. I consider you a friend, AJ, as well as a few others. |
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Post by Aj_June on Oct 10, 2018 4:38:17 GMT
I may be wrong but it does appear that this poster is former sports board member who was a fan of New York Mets but obsessed with New York Yankees. At least two members on sports board have also indicated that they believe it is him. This fellow was also a member of soapbox board and went by the name of "Hairybuttcheeks". Definitely a troll and not a troll for whom I ever felt any pity.
If he really feels as he claims to feel then I am indeed sorry for him and wish him well.
If I was truly despondent as he seems to be, I wouldn't post it to an anonymous message board, I would look for an online support group. There are a few of you here that I've interacted with since this board started, and we've shared a few stories. I consider you a friend, AJ, as well as a few others. Thanks, Rachel. You too are what I would consider among people I respect and admire.
And I am also wary of certain new posters. Not of all but those whose posting history arouses suspicion in me.
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