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Post by movieliker on Nov 16, 2018 20:28:03 GMT
You mean like Data on Star Trek; The Next Generation? Well Nora, they have to walk before they can run. Supposedly, the ones they have now can hold a conversation. (Hell with the sex. I never had a problem finding real life company. I don't need a sex doll. I need a robot who can cook, clean, pay bills, go to work, and make money !!!) i havent had that problem so fair either but I presume once I am 70 or 80 years old it might get real. And even though there might be some equally old people who will want to have sex with me, what if one wants to have sex with someone who looks 40-50 lets say, I am guessing that would be kind of hard to find unless its a fetish for someone or its a gigolo. So by then… and its decades away, MAYBE there will be some real progress. And yes they can cook and clean for me in between sex too  In my experience, as long as one is clean and healthy, sexual attraction is all intangible. The older I get, the more offers I get. In spite of the physical aging process. Don't be surprised if you get more popular as you get older Nora. On the other hand, cooking, cleaning, going to work and making money has gotten harder. And the more energy I spend on daily chores, the less energy I have left over for socializing. I hope you have managed your money well. Otherwise you may end up like me --- dreaming of a robot that can do daily chores !!! |
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Post by movieliker on Nov 16, 2018 20:32:15 GMT
You mean like Data on Star Trek; The Next Generation? Well Nora, they have to walk before they can run. Supposedly, the ones they have now can hold a conversation. (Hell with the sex. I never had a problem finding real life company. I don't need a sex doll. I need a robot who can cook, clean, pay bills, go to work, and make money !!!) LOL! You mean none of your "real life company" has ever volunteered to do all that other stuff? Smart ladies! Number 1 reason that most widowed men remarry within a year - they need someone to take care of all that hard stuff. I learned that in grief support group after my husband died. The psychologists who were in charge of the group told me that, after some widower hit on me. Just FYI, I never remarried, knowing what I knew.  First of all, I am sorry your husband has passed away. Secondly, in my experience, as long as one is clean and healthy, sexual attraction is all intangible. The older I get, the more offers I get. In spite of the physical aging process. On the other hand, cooking, cleaning, going to work and making money has gotten harder. And the more energy I spend on daily chores, the less energy I have left over for socializing. I hope you have managed your money well. Otherwise you may end up like me --- dreaming of a robot that can do daily chores !!! |
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Nov 16, 2018 21:02:02 GMT
LOL! You mean none of your "real life company" has ever volunteered to do all that other stuff? Smart ladies! Number 1 reason that most widowed men remarry within a year - they need someone to take care of all that hard stuff. I learned that in grief support group after my husband died. The psychologists who were in charge of the group told me that, after some widower hit on me. Just FYI, I never remarried, knowing what I knew. First of all, I am sorry your husband has passed away. Secondly, in my experience, as long as one is clean and healthy, sexual attraction is all intangible. The older I get, the more offers I get. In spite of the physical aging process. On the other hand, cooking, cleaning, going to work and making money has gotten harder. And the more energy I spend on daily chores, the less energy I have left over for socializing.
I hope you have managed your money well. Otherwise you may end up like me --- dreaming of a robot that can do daily chores !!! Ain't that the truth! And thank you for the condolences. I am 65, my best friend is 64 and also a widow, and both of us have mused that we "need a wife". We are both rural farm girls and damn, those hay bales are getting heavier! Socializing? It's been so long I've forgotten what that is...  |
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Post by movieliker on Nov 16, 2018 21:41:30 GMT
First of all, I am sorry your husband has passed away. Secondly, in my experience, as long as one is clean and healthy, sexual attraction is all intangible. The older I get, the more offers I get. In spite of the physical aging process. On the other hand, cooking, cleaning, going to work and making money has gotten harder. And the more energy I spend on daily chores, the less energy I have left over for socializing.
I hope you have managed your money well. Otherwise you may end up like me --- dreaming of a robot that can do daily chores !!! Ain't that the truth! And thank you for the condolences. I am 65, my best friend is 64 and also a widow, and both of us have mused that we "need a wife". We are both rural farm girls and damn, those hay bales are getting heavier! Socializing? It's been so long I've forgotten what that is... I have a solution for both you and your friend. Get a young healthy boyfriend. Treat him well, both in and out the bedroom. And he will be more than willing to do all your farm chores. This seems to be a more and more common arrangement these days --- older women and younger men. |
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Post by teleadm on Nov 16, 2018 21:44:13 GMT
No!
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Nov 16, 2018 21:55:46 GMT
Ain't that the truth! And thank you for the condolences. I am 65, my best friend is 64 and also a widow, and both of us have mused that we "need a wife". We are both rural farm girls and damn, those hay bales are getting heavier! Socializing? It's been so long I've forgotten what that is... I have a solution for both you and your friend. Get a young healthy boyfriend. Treat him well, both in and out the bedroom. And he will be more than willing to do all your farm chores. This seems to be a more and more common arrangement these days --- older women and younger men. LOL! First, it's not the younger men who "want" us! Second, neither of us have any estrogen left, and Third, we both had remarkable husbands, and decided to quit while we were ahead. But thanks for the thought. Now, my friend did decide to purchase something mechanical to help... a uni-loader! And lots of Ryobi saws, drills, tile-cutters, et al. Both of us were raised by dads who were carpenters and engineers. We've remodeled her kitchen and half-bath, my kitchen is next, then fencing... oh, and we remodeled her rental properties, too. We're doing fine... |
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Post by Nora on Nov 16, 2018 22:11:17 GMT
I have a solution for both you and your friend. Get a young healthy boyfriend. Treat him well, both in and out the bedroom. And he will be more than willing to do all your farm chores. This seems to be a more and more common arrangement these days --- older women and younger men. LOL! First, it's not the younger men who "want" us! Second, neither of us have any estrogen left, and Third, we both had remarkable husbands, and decided to quit while we were ahead. But thanks for the thought. Now, my friend did decide to purchase something mechanical to help... a uni-loader! And lots of Ryobi saws, drills, tile-cutters, et al. Both of us were raised by dads who were carpenters and engineers. We've remodeled her kitchen and half-bath, my kitchen is next, then fencing... oh, and we remodeled her rental properties, too. We're doing fine... sweet post. i like to hear that two women had remarkable husbands. it seems more and more rare these days somehow. sorry for your loss though. and kudos for being so handy, i can barely change the batteries in the remote control (i am somewhat ok at finding patterns - daughter of a system analyst here,- but thats about it. dad is super smart but my mum has to call a handyman for everything :0) |
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Post by movieliker on Nov 16, 2018 22:19:00 GMT
I have a solution for both you and your friend. Get a young healthy boyfriend. Treat him well, both in and out the bedroom. And he will be more than willing to do all your farm chores. This seems to be a more and more common arrangement these days --- older women and younger men. LOL! First, it's not the younger men who "want" us! Second, neither of us have any estrogen left, and Third, we both had remarkable husbands, and decided to quit while we were ahead. But thanks for the thought. Now, my friend did decide to purchase something mechanical to help... a uni-loader! And lots of Ryobi saws, drills, tile-cutters, et al. Both of us were raised by dads who were carpenters and engineers. We've remodeled her kitchen and half-bath, my kitchen is next, then fencing... oh, and we remodeled her rental properties, too. We're doing fine... You and your friend seem like some pretty impressive women to me. I think you would be surprised how many young men would appreciate spending time with you two. I am happy to hear you and your friend are doing well. |
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Nov 16, 2018 22:23:10 GMT
LOL! First, it's not the younger men who "want" us! Second, neither of us have any estrogen left, and Third, we both had remarkable husbands, and decided to quit while we were ahead. But thanks for the thought. Now, my friend did decide to purchase something mechanical to help... a uni-loader! And lots of Ryobi saws, drills, tile-cutters, et al. Both of us were raised by dads who were carpenters and engineers. We've remodeled her kitchen and half-bath, my kitchen is next, then fencing... oh, and we remodeled her rental properties, too. We're doing fine... sweet post. i like to hear that two women had remarkable husbands. it seems more and more rare these days somehow. sorry for your loss though. and kudos for being so handy, i can barely change the batteries in the remote control (i am somewhat ok at finding patterns - daughter of a system analyst here,- but thats about it. dad is super smart but my mum has to call a handyman for everything :0) Thanks, it was a huge loss, for both of us. They were each one-of-a-kind. Oh, we like being handy, both of us are independent spirits - I do believe my friend's first words were "Me do me self!" Both of our dads lived through the Great Depression, and they passed down that 'making do with nothing new' attitude. Something I fear the current generation can't even wrap their heads around, sadly. |
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Nov 17, 2018 17:23:05 GMT
There'll come a time when no one wants to fuck you, so stop looking a gift horse in the mouth and go fuck your ass off! hopefuly the development of decently humanoid sex robots is not too far away thats what my hopes are for my seventies and onwards anyway... I hadn't though of it that way. That's probably the way to go. LOL! |
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Post by Fox in the Snow on Nov 18, 2018 23:51:46 GMT
They are already here. Supposedly extremely life like. But they cost a lot. I think like 15 thousand each. The price should come down over time like all other technology. those are still just glorified sex dolls. i am talking about the ones who can pass the turing test and actually behave indistinguishable from a human for at least a while... Like Westworld, yeah that could be a little way off I imagine. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2018 7:13:07 GMT
Definitely. Of course for me it is very different than it is for some people 'cause all of my exes were guys. I was never sexually attracted to men and while I enjoyed having sex with them there were a lot of things I wouldn't do with them which grossed me out like going down on them and I was mostly thinking about women when I was having sex with them but dating guys was a lot easier when I was younger and a lot of people were very hush hush with their sexuality back then and it isn't like it is now. I also liked getting attention from guys and the way they looked at me and after growing up with two prudish parents who abandoned me 'cause when they found out I had feelings for my best friend and my best friend's parents wouldn't let us see each other I was really depressed and would spend a lot of time crying and going to parties and having sex with my male friends was an escape from that and I felt sexy and sexually liberated. It was all just fun though and I never had any real feelings for them.
I liked my ex 'cause he was a great guy and I cared about him and we had some great times together but I didn't love him and the longer I was with him the more I discovered I could never be truly happy being with a guy. Being with my Wife now is very different 'cause I am emotionally and sexually attracted to her and I loved her since we were kids and when we have sex it is amazing and full of passion and I am willing to do a lot of things for my Wife I would never do for a guy and have discovered I can do things I didn't know I could do before. We are sexually adventurous and there an't many things we haven't tried and we have very high sex drives and have just as much sex now as we did when we first got together.  Sorry your parents didn't support your homosexuality.  |
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Post by movieliker on Nov 21, 2018 7:40:31 GMT
Sorry your parents didn't support your homosexuality. I agree. Also young boys are bullied and end up killing themselves. |
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2018 11:21:52 GMT
I'd like to think so but that doesn't stop the big muscly man coming in and cucking you.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 6, 2018 7:02:16 GMT
Thanks. Sadly a lot of young girls still go through what my Wife and I both had to go through with our parents growing up and while things are getting better homophobia (and lesbiaphobia which has become its own thing now due to sexists) is still widespread especially on the internet and there have been a number of young homosexual girls in the past few years that took their own lives after being bullied by people online over their sexuality and what is pathetic is a number of these bullies are adults who go after young children 'cause they see them as easy targets. I agree. Also young boys are bullied and end up killing themselves.  |
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Post by _ on Jan 7, 2019 7:17:00 GMT
lol
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Post by Deleted on Jan 8, 2019 4:27:41 GMT
Not necessarily, no. I guess it can't hurt, but I don't think love is necessary to have great sex. I don't get why people think that sex is love anyway. It is a satiation of lust. Love for the person can be perceived as an aspect behind it, but ultimately, love is not sex. Many women don't seem to understand this. I understand that it's not the same thing, but sex is better when it's with someone you love because it is already an intimate thing in itself. I think the issue is that men and women view sex differently and women view it more as an emotional experience so they prefer it with someone who actually loves and cares about them. |
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