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Post by politicidal on Jul 1, 2017 21:34:39 GMT
"Yes yes and yes" I imagine is the answer.
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Post by deembastille on Jul 1, 2017 22:04:51 GMT
ah... your average Baptist, Lutheran and roman catholic!
I see this a lot. the sad thing, when does 'moral values' cross over into being judgmental? I was brought up with many moral values such as a strong worth ethic [even if you are scrubbing toilets], to get married before having kids [this is a big one in my family] and to never stop learning. does that mean that I despise and look down on those who have children without being married? no. however, when I told my mother how my ap "Ms AP" was pregnant, the first thing out of her mouth was a cold, 'is she married'?
just because it is wrong FOR YOU, doesn't make it WRONG for anyone else. and just because it is RIGHT for you, doesn't make it RIGHT TO BEGIN WITH.
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Post by deembastille on Jul 1, 2017 22:06:39 GMT
I don't think many people will agree with me, because people are either one extreme or the other nowadays, however I think we are living in a time where people are both overly sensitive and major assholes. People insult one another for absolutely no reason at all. There is no regard for others. These are the people that you are talking about. Meanwhile, we are facing in obesity epidemic because a bunch of feminists are too lazy to get off their ass and take care of themselves. They promote obesity as beauty in the name of "body positivity". The biggest overly sensitive people ARE THE ASSHOLES! AL SHARPTON!
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Post by napanzee on Jul 1, 2017 23:04:32 GMT
"The biggest overly sensitive people ARE THE ASSHOLES!"
president cheeto
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Post by poelzig on Jul 2, 2017 1:04:37 GMT
I don't think many people will agree with me, because people are either one extreme or the other nowadays, however I think we are living in a time where people are both overly sensitive and major assholes. People insult one another for absolutely no reason at all. There is no regard for others. These are the people that you are talking about. Meanwhile, we are facing in obesity epidemic because a bunch of feminists are too lazy to get off their ass and take care of themselves. They promote obesity as beauty in the name of "body positivity". The biggest overly sensitive people ARE THE ASSHOLES! AL SHARPTON! Was professional whiner Sharpton being ironic or calling out his own community? It had to be the former because there's not a dollar to be made in the latter.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 1:19:48 GMT
"Yes yes and yes" I imagine is the answer. lol
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Post by Nora on Aug 11, 2017 2:52:50 GMT
Why do certain people feel the need to constantly judge and degrade everybody and make them feel like shit about themselves? Are they really so damn perfect that our shortcomings are so obvious and annoying to them that they feel the need to constantly point them out to us and to others? Have they no faults of their own or does it bring them joy to feel more powerful than us? i ask this a lot in my head. My work is exposed on line each and every day. So every day people have the option to like what i do, ignore what i do, or criticize (or outright hate) what I do. It baffles me when someone will just spew what seems random hateful comments, often of no substance or relation to your actual work (like they will attack my face, or my body, or my education, my history, or my whatever personality they think I have, rather than the work itself). It must bring them joy or other type of pleasant feelings. So my explanation is: it makes them feel better, and everybody wants to feel good/better all the time, no? So thats why they do it. I learned to deal with harsh criticism or hate. If its something that I can take as a useful feedback ("hey your shit is too long, or boring") Ill take it in account. But if its just outright hate like "You ugly stupid boring cunt why dont you die", that I ignore. But what I cannot really control is the effect it has or may have on my family. For example my mother will see it, and SHE gets hurt by it. More than me. Was that the point of the person that called me an ugly stupid cunt and told me to die? I wonder…
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 7:16:29 GMT
I know exactly the type of people you are talking about and I can't stand them either. Aside from the homophobes and racists who used to always put us down to make them feel better about themselves (and still do to an extent but nowhere near as bad as when I was younger) the worst are the slut shamers who judge of for how we look, the way we dress, who we sleep with, how many sexual partners we have and how open we are with our sexuality.
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Post by medjay on Aug 11, 2017 7:31:26 GMT
"The biggest overly sensitive people ARE THE ASSHOLES!" president cheeto As a purely cultural force that asshole feels nice in the oversensitive press and big corporate enviroement.
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Post by naterdawg on Aug 11, 2017 17:59:08 GMT
Gabourey Sidibe is very sensitive.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 18:21:47 GMT
Most people are judgmental but some are more than others.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Sept 13, 2017 20:57:11 GMT
Why do certain people feel the need to constantly judge and degrade everybody and make them feel like shit about themselves? Are they really so damn perfect that our shortcomings are so obvious and annoying to them that they feel the need to constantly point them out to us and to others? Have they no faults of their own or does it bring them joy to feel more powerful than us? I'm going to give you something else to think on. What about people who should be told that they're assholes? Some behavior is clearly assholy. Am I an asshole if I let someone know that they're being an asshole? And aren't I judging them by calling them out on their nonsense? It can be seen from many different perspectives. Who's to say really?
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Post by bonerxmas on Sept 13, 2017 21:03:16 GMT
well you are judging those people, would be inhuman not to judge
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2017 17:41:47 GMT
I'm going to give you something else to think on. What about people who should be told that they're assholes? Some behavior is clearly assholy. Am I an asshole if I let someone know that they're being an asshole? And aren't I judging them by calling them out on their nonsense? It can be seen from many different perspectives. Who's to say really? Well assholes deserve to get called out when acting an ass, but I am talking about polite/good people who are always nice to everybody and still always get attacked and judged by people who think that they are better than them.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2017 5:16:31 GMT
I'm going to give you something else to think on. What about people who should be told that they're assholes? Some behavior is clearly assholy. Am I an asshole if I let someone know that they're being an asshole? And aren't I judging them by calling them out on their nonsense? It can be seen from many different perspectives. Who's to say really? Well assholes deserve to get called out when acting an ass, but I am talking about polite/good people who are always nice to everybody and still always get attacked and judged by people who think that they are better than them. I get what people you are talking about and people like that are not worth wasting your time on. They often put other people down to make them feel good about themselves 'cause they are extremely insecure.
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Post by kuatorises on Oct 24, 2017 14:48:31 GMT
Well assholes deserve to get called out when acting an ass, but I am talking about polite/good people who are always nice to everybody and still always get attacked and judged by people who think that they are better than them. I get what people you are talking about and people like that are not worth wasting your time on. They often put other people down to make them feel good about themselves 'cause they are extremely insecure. What your definition of wasting time? If a kid is verbally bullying one of his classmates shouldn't he be punished for it? If you just ignore it, it's only going to get worse.
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Post by teleadm on Oct 27, 2017 18:31:11 GMT
Are the Worst!!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2017 6:39:57 GMT
I get what people you are talking about and people like that are not worth wasting your time on. They often put other people down to make them feel good about themselves 'cause they are extremely insecure. What your definition of wasting time? If a kid is verbally bullying one of his classmates shouldn't he be punished for it? If you just ignore it, it's only going to get worse. Well, if it is at a school you should definitely report it to a teacher or it will get worse as you said. It depends on the situation and where the bullying takes place though. I got bullied by some homophobic girls in my old High School and Uni for being open about my sexuality and I found the best way to get them back was pretend I was madly in love with them and they left me alone after that 'cause I freaked the crap out of them.
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Post by kuatorises on Nov 1, 2017 13:58:38 GMT
What your definition of wasting time? If a kid is verbally bullying one of his classmates shouldn't he be punished for it? If you just ignore it, it's only going to get worse. Well, if it is at a school you should definitely report it to a teacher or it will get worse as you said. It depends on the situation and where the bullying takes place though. I got bullied by some homophobic girls in my old High School and Uni for being open about my sexuality and I found the best way to get them back was pretend I was madly in love with them and they left me alone after that 'cause I freaked the crap out of them. Well, that's why I asked what your definition of wasting time was. To you, what is considered wasting time versus legitimate and valid instance in which you should stand up for yourself?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 2, 2017 11:52:17 GMT
Well, if it is at a school you should definitely report it to a teacher or it will get worse as you said. It depends on the situation and where the bullying takes place though. I got bullied by some homophobic girls in my old High School and Uni for being open about my sexuality and I found the best way to get them back was pretend I was madly in love with them and they left me alone after that 'cause I freaked the crap out of them. Well, that's why I asked what your definition of wasting time was. To you, what is considered wasting time versus legitimate and valid instance in which you should stand up for yourself? Online homophobic and sexist trolls on comment sections of articles for one. With the postal plebiscite for Same Sex Marriages going on here we are currently seeing a lot of them on comment sections of articles who not only want to take away our rights to get married and have our marriages acknowledged here in Australia but take away our rights to have children, re-criminalise homosexual relationships and vote on interracial marriages and indigenous rights. Their threats to destroy our weddings if the vote comes back yes are ridiculous along with encouraging people to violently attack us and people that support us. The majority of them are bogans and yobbos who identify as Neon Nazis (Antipodean Resistance), dominionists and reconstructionists and part of the racist 'Reclaim Australia' movement who wants to ship out all of the Asian and (what they call) 'wog bastards' out of our country. They think Australia was a better place to live before the gays, Aborigines and wogs existed here. They are very disturbed and aren't worth wasting time on.
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