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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2019 15:45:37 GMT
....in the the context of a conversation about greater committment to a relationship, that you would never do better than that person, would you consider it an insult? Basically that person feels like he or she is the best you're going to do partner wise. Is it just being honest, or is it basically implying that you are too faulted to aspire to more than what that person has to offer? 😒
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Post by Catman 猫的主人 on Feb 9, 2019 16:42:15 GMT
Sounds like the person is either a raging egoist or begging for you to lower your expectations.
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Post by politicidal on Feb 9, 2019 18:20:52 GMT
Sounds like the person is either a raging egoist or begging for you to lower your expectations. Either way, I'm breaking up with that person. |
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 9, 2019 21:55:56 GMT
Run, don’t walk.
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Post by teleadm on Feb 9, 2019 22:19:55 GMT
Strange as it sounds, it reminds of a nightmare I had a few days/nights ago
A choir keeps singing "wake up" "wake Up" over and over, and undeed I woke up, but there was no reason waking up 6:30 in the morning that day.
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Post by Sandman on Feb 9, 2019 22:20:58 GMT
....in the the context of a conversation about greater committment to a relationship, that you would never do better than that person, would you consider it an insult? Basically that person feels like he or she is the best you're going to do partner wise. Is it just being honest, or is it basically implying that you are too faulted to aspire to more than what that person has to offer? 😒 My advice if someone says that to you. Run, run, run. Run far and run fast. Don't look back just RUN. |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Feb 9, 2019 22:25:02 GMT
....in the the context of a conversation about greater committment to a relationship, that you would never do better than that person, would you consider it an insult? Basically that person feels like he or she is the best you're going to do partner wise. Is it just being honest, or is it basically implying that you are too faulted to aspire to more than what that person has to offer? 😒 It's just something to say |
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Feb 10, 2019 1:51:13 GMT
Marilyn, you're too good for him. Anyone that plays head games like that... That person is most likely a Narcissist. You know they cannot care about anyone but themselves. Find a genuine human being to spend time with. Don't fall into the trap.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2019 2:00:03 GMT
Thank you for input everyone. I guess I'm not crazy.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:00:31 GMT
Marilyn, you're too good for him. Anyone that plays head games like that... That person is most likely a Narcissist. You know they cannot care about anyone but themselves. Find a genuine human being to spend time with. Don't fall into the trap. Not everyone who says foul things is a narcissist, don’t you and Marilyn think you attract them? |
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:01:40 GMT
....in the the context of a conversation about greater committment to a relationship, that you would never do better than that person, would you consider it an insult? Basically that person feels like he or she is the best you're going to do partner wise. Is it just being honest, or is it basically implying that you are too faulted to aspire to more than what that person has to offer? 😒 It's just something to say Anyone who does that isn’t trustworthy so either way it’s time to go. |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Feb 10, 2019 4:13:18 GMT
It's just something to say Anyone who does that isn’t trustworthy so either way it’s time to go. Although it is something I would never say, I disagree with you |
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:18:31 GMT
Anyone who does that isn’t trustworthy so either way it’s time to go. Although it is something I would never say, I disagree with you That’s cool, but how do you know when someone is sincere if they tend to say things ‘just to say it?’ That leaves too much room to say “oh I didn’t mean it like that.” Game knows game so I don’t deal with that type of person. |
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Post by Nora on Feb 10, 2019 4:20:43 GMT
Thank you for input everyone. I guess I'm not crazy. no u r not. at best its a very insecure person trying to make you feel insecure as well to benefit or level up with him. at worst its a manipulator/narcissist/someone who doesnt value you enough. i was once told "nobody will love you more than this guy" by my mother (!) and I can tell you it took a long time to get over that. had it been the guy who said it, it would have been even worse. or better? not sure now, but bad  |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Feb 10, 2019 4:23:11 GMT
If I said it, I would be trying to be complimentary to the person to whom I was speaking, as in saying they did good.
I wouldn't neccesarily mean it, as in it's just something you say.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:35:48 GMT
If I said it, I would be trying to be complimentary to the person to whom I was speaking, as in saying they did good. I wouldn't neccesarily mean it, as in it's just something you say. Question. If you don’t mean it why say it? |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Feb 10, 2019 4:36:40 GMT
If I said it, I would be trying to be complimentary to the person to whom I was speaking, as in saying they did good. I wouldn't neccesarily mean it, as in it's just something you say. Question. If you don’t mean it why say it? Read my post again |
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:40:05 GMT
Question. If you don’t mean it why say it? Read my post again What am I missing? You said you wouldn’t necessarily mean it as in it’s just something to say. Apologies if I’m not getting your point but I don’t get it. |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Feb 10, 2019 4:43:35 GMT
What am I missing? You said you wouldn’t necessarily mean it as in it’s just something to say. Apologies if I’m not getting your point but I don’t get it. Oh, I see. You skipped over the part where I was being complimentary to the person, telling him he had done well. |
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Feb 10, 2019 4:50:14 GMT
What am I missing? You said you wouldn’t necessarily mean it as in it’s just something to say. Apologies if I’m not getting your point but I don’t get it. Oh, I see. You skipped over the part where I was being complimentary to the person, telling him he had done well. No I read that part and you followed with the I might not necessarily mean it meaning your compliment wasn’t genuine. |
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