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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 30, 2019 2:22:10 GMT
never really thought of it till now, but if you're a lesbian isn't it cool that you get access to the girls changing room and you get to see all the people you're attracted to undress? Do gay people in a way get to live the straight fantasy?
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Post by someguy on Jun 30, 2019 4:10:31 GMT
It sounds cool at first, but if they know you are gay, you are probably going to do your best to avoid eye contact.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Jun 30, 2019 6:44:52 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature.
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Post by Harmless elf on Jun 30, 2019 13:14:34 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature. Yeah maybe but they're not going to be enjoying it as much. but you'll never see that shy always fully covered girl unless you're in a relationship but if you're gay you get to see that girl without clothes. |
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Jun 30, 2019 13:16:54 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature. Yeah maybe but they're not going to be enjoying it as much. but you'll never see that shy always fully covered girl unless you're in a relationship but if you're gay you get to see that girl without clothes. Well, I guess that is a privilege of being gay, you get to see more of the gender you admire.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 1, 2019 17:43:00 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature. You check out the other guys in the locker room? I don't. My friends don't. At least I've never caught them doing it or admitting that they do it. I think the consensus is that hetero men generally avert their gaze in those situations.
When we're at the urinals eyes are straight at the wall. I don't want to catch a fleeting glance much less a full on checking out! You might want to reconsider your gaze in the changing room.
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Post by Stammerhead on Jul 1, 2019 17:58:56 GMT
Unfortunately you will probably also see the ones you wish had kept their clothes on.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Jul 1, 2019 22:54:32 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature. You check out the other guys in the locker room? I don't. My friends don't. At least I've never caught them doing it or admitting that they do it. I think the consensus is that hetero men generally avert their gaze in those situations.
When we're at the urinals eyes are straight at the wall. I don't want to catch a fleeting glance much less a full on checking out! You might want to reconsider your gaze in the changing room.
Least of all someone might think you are gay lenny.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Jul 1, 2019 23:06:39 GMT
I knew a guy who was definitely stuck in the closet. He would tell me about going to the gym and all the guys who would walk around naked in the locker room, as if he found it disgusting. Yeah...sure. Disgusting. So disgusting that he kept going back every day. 😂 Sounds a bit like lenlenlen1 comment. The mind boggles....Hmmmmm!
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 17:39:15 GMT
You check out the other guys in the locker room? I don't. My friends don't. At least I've never caught them doing it or admitting that they do it. I think the consensus is that hetero men generally avert their gaze in those situations.
When we're at the urinals eyes are straight at the wall. I don't want to catch a fleeting glance much less a full on checking out! You might want to reconsider your gaze in the changing room.
Least of all someone might think you are gay lenny. I don't have anything against gay, but why would I be doing looking at other men while they're undressing unless I were gay? Its not hetero behavior.
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Post by PreachCaleb on Jul 2, 2019 19:19:03 GMT
never really thought of it till now, but if you're a lesbian isn't it cool that you get access to the girls changing room and you get to see all the people you're attracted to undress? Do gay people in a way get to live the straight fantasy? This is what happens when a 12 year old learns about homosexuality.
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Post by PreachCaleb on Jul 2, 2019 19:20:56 GMT
Do you not think though, that straight people are still checking out others of the same gender? People are still fascinated with other people's bodies and all and every aspect of them, even if not sexual in nature. You check out the other guys in the locker room? I don't. My friends don't. At least I've never caught them doing it or admitting that they do it. I think the consensus is that hetero men generally avert their gaze in those situations.
When we're at the urinals eyes are straight at the wall. I don't want to catch a fleeting glance much less a full on checking out! You might want to reconsider your gaze in the changing room.
It's still so fascinating how scared some guys are of homosexuality. Terrified that someone might even wonder if they're gay.
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Post by Stammerhead on Jul 2, 2019 19:41:07 GMT
Least of all someone might think you are gay lenny. I don't have anything against gay, but why would I be doing looking at other men while they're undressing unless I were gay? Its not hetero behavior. Fashion tips?
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 19:43:47 GMT
You check out the other guys in the locker room? I don't. My friends don't. At least I've never caught them doing it or admitting that they do it. I think the consensus is that hetero men generally avert their gaze in those situations.
When we're at the urinals eyes are straight at the wall. I don't want to catch a fleeting glance much less a full on checking out! You might want to reconsider your gaze in the changing room.
It's still so fascinating how scared some guys are of homosexuality. Terrified that someone might even wonder if they're gay. Its not about being terrified of homosexuality. Its about not BEING homosexual myself.
I'm not terrified of homosexuals at all. I have homosexual friends, and not just in passing either but people I actually hang out with, homosexual co-workers, and yes even homosexual family members both male and female; and I consider myself to be an ally of their movements. I'm all for equal rights including adoption and marriage, etc. etc.
But I personally am not homosexual so I don't behave as one. Why would I be looking at another man undressing while they're in their private moment of removing their clothes to go do some thing?
If you caught some guy checking you out while you were undressing in the locker room you'd wonder wtf? And don't deny it.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 19:45:52 GMT
I don't have anything against gay, but why would I be doing looking at other men while they're undressing unless I were gay? Its not hetero behavior. Fashion tips? But that wouldn't work since they're UN-dressing.
Now if they were dressing...
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 19:46:40 GMT
never really thought of it till now, but if you're a lesbian isn't it cool that you get access to the girls changing room and you get to see all the people you're attracted to undress? Do gay people in a way get to live the straight fantasy? This is what happens when a 12 year old learns about homosexuality. So you're... 13?
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Post by PreachCaleb on Jul 2, 2019 19:56:59 GMT
It's still so fascinating how scared some guys are of homosexuality. Terrified that someone might even wonder if they're gay. Its not about being terrified of homosexuality. Its about not BEING homosexual myself.
I'm not terrified of homosexuals at all. I have homosexual friends, and not just in passing either but people I actually hang out with, homosexual co-workers, and yes even homosexual family members both male and female; and I consider myself to be an ally of their movements. I'm all for equal rights including adoption and marriage, etc. etc.
But I personally am not homosexual so I don't behave as one. Why would I be looking at another man undressing while they're in their private moment of removing their clothes to go do some thing?
If you caught some guy checking you out while you were undressing in the locker room you'd wonder wtf? And don't deny it.
It doesn't bother me to be checked out. By any sex or gender. It's flattering.
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Post by PreachCaleb on Jul 2, 2019 19:57:30 GMT
This is what happens when a 12 year old learns about homosexuality. So you're... 13? At least I'm not terrified of people thinking I might be gay.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 19:58:57 GMT
At least I'm not terrified of people thinking I might be gay. So you ignored my previous response. I see.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Jul 2, 2019 20:00:20 GMT
Its not about being terrified of homosexuality. Its about not BEING homosexual myself.
I'm not terrified of homosexuals at all. I have homosexual friends, and not just in passing either but people I actually hang out with, homosexual co-workers, and yes even homosexual family members both male and female; and I consider myself to be an ally of their movements. I'm all for equal rights including adoption and marriage, etc. etc.
But I personally am not homosexual so I don't behave as one. Why would I be looking at another man undressing while they're in their private moment of removing their clothes to go do some thing?
If you caught some guy checking you out while you were undressing in the locker room you'd wonder wtf? And don't deny it.
It doesn't bother me to be checked out. By any sex or gender. It's flattering. 
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