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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 5:51:22 GMT
No more Western men who fuck and run, are addicts, and/or use me for money.
My over a year of attempting to speak Russian has changed my life for the better, as it has helped me score the attention of an adorable and caring young Russian man. I met him at work and have been talking to him when I have the opportunity to at work and also through phone and text. Even though we haven't even gone on a real date yet (can't because of lockdown) he has already shown concern about my physical and mental health within weeks of my "I understand some Russian" (in Russian of course) line that I used to introduce myself.
I didn't know what I was missing out on until my little Russian boy came along. They treat their women better in some aspects compared to us.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 6:29:34 GMT
Russian men are also alcoholics, have that Orthodox male arrogance, and can be violent and abusive to women. Remember they haven't been partially castrated by Western feminists. Okay Ebony, I just wanted to shock you into sensibility. I'm sure he's a wonderful guy. But be sensible when you're dealing with any man. I've seen him on vid, he's a cutey. Last summer I went on a Tinder date with a Russian guy who drank 7 Heinekens while I couldn't finish my one drink. Hours of nice conversation but I kind of ran. And I've dealt with Canadian alcoholics so I know what to look out for. The guy I'm currently into is barely old enough to legally drink. I mean that wouldn't have stopped him from drinking while underage, but he doesn't come off as an alcoholic to me. And I've hated Western feminism for the past half decade. www.salon.com/test/2013/08/12/i_love_and_hate_dating_russian_men/I'm using this as a manual now.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 7:42:04 GMT
Last summer I went on a Tinder date with a Russian guy who drank 7 Heinekens while I couldn't finish my one drink. Hours of nice conversation but I kind of ran. And I've dealt with Canadian alcoholics so I know what to look out for. The guy I'm currently into is barely old enough to legally drink. I mean that wouldn't have stopped him from drinking while underage, but he doesn't come off as an alcoholic to me. And I've hated Western feminism for the past half decade. www.salon.com/test/2013/08/12/i_love_and_hate_dating_russian_men/I'm using this as a manual now. Okay. So you do understand that they are conservative in their views of women. I'm glad you've read up on it. I know women are attracted to macho men even if there is a conflict with their independence as a Western woman. Yeah, I was just giving you the stereotype. Everyone is an individual. But I imagine there will be some great cultural differences you'll have to work through. I listen to Russian music. It's what got me learning the language in the first place. There are song lyrics like "you wanted kids" which you seldom hear in English-language songs. And I'm not really a Westerner either as I was brought here from China, an even worse patriarchal society than Russia.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 17:37:59 GMT
I listen to Russian music. It's what got me learning the language in the first place. There are song lyrics like "you wanted kids" which you seldom hear in English-language songs. And I'm not really a Westerner either as I was brought here from China, an even worse patriarchal society than Russia. Post some good Russian music. I'm curious. Turn on the English subtitles. Nice diss track against America. This guy sings about his dick a lot.
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Post by kls on May 12, 2020 17:54:44 GMT
You can find wonderful and terrible men from any part of the world. Same would go for women too.
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Post by autumn on May 12, 2020 18:24:57 GMT
Try looking for men instead of boys.
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Post by Nora on May 12, 2020 18:27:19 GMT
No more Western men who fuck and run, are addicts, and/or use me for money. My over a year of attempting to speak Russian has changed my life for the better, as it has helped me score the attention of an adorable and caring young Russian man. I met him at work and have been talking to him when I have the opportunity to at work and also through phone and text. Even though we haven't even gone on a real date yet (can't because of lockdown) he has already shown concern about my physical and mental health within weeks of my "I understand some Russian" (in Russian of course) line that I used to introduce myself. I didn't know what I was missing out on until my little Russian boy came along. They treat their women better in some aspects compared to us. I cannot assess if this is meant to be a joke or not. Can you please elaborate?
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Post by Jayman on May 12, 2020 18:52:13 GMT
No more Western men who fuck and run, are addicts, and/or use me for money. My over a year of attempting to speak Russian has changed my life for the better, as it has helped me score the attention of an adorable and caring young Russian man. I met him at work and have been talking to him when I have the opportunity to at work and also through phone and text. Even though we haven't even gone on a real date yet (can't because of lockdown) he has already shown concern about my physical and mental health within weeks of my "I understand some Russian" (in Russian of course) line that I used to introduce myself. I didn't know what I was missing out on until my little Russian boy came along. They treat their women better in some aspects compared to us. I cannot assess if this is meant to be a joke or not. Can you please elaborate? Not to speak for her, but she is serious
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 19:04:45 GMT
No more Western men who fuck and run, are addicts, and/or use me for money. My over a year of attempting to speak Russian has changed my life for the better, as it has helped me score the attention of an adorable and caring young Russian man. I met him at work and have been talking to him when I have the opportunity to at work and also through phone and text. Even though we haven't even gone on a real date yet (can't because of lockdown) he has already shown concern about my physical and mental health within weeks of my "I understand some Russian" (in Russian of course) line that I used to introduce myself. I didn't know what I was missing out on until my little Russian boy came along. They treat their women better in some aspects compared to us. I cannot assess if this is meant to be a joke or not. Can you please elaborate? The 2 men I've been involved with for the longest talk shit about white women and how Asian women are so much better. I'm playing their game back at them.
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Post by Nora on May 12, 2020 19:37:33 GMT
I cannot assess if this is meant to be a joke or not. Can you please elaborate? Not to speak for her, but she is serious I have never seen anyone praise Russian boys/men as a whole, when it comes to their treatment of women. Or hoping they will not be addicts/ after money or do fun and run. I am sure there are Plenty Russian men who are simply amazing, and just like mslo79 says, there is good and bad in every nation (or race, ethnicity, gender, whatever) But the (stereo)typical Russian nature is usually described as one of proneness to liking alcohol a bit too much, crudeness, cynicism, attachment to assets, focus on display of wealth (more than your average American). This is not to say Each Russian is like that, but if we are generalizing and saying something about nationals as a whole, I am just shocked someone would pick Russian men as an example of not going after money or becoming addicts etc. Now this is from someone who speaks Russian, knows and likes many Russians and spent time in Russia both for fun and work at one point. I wish her the best, I am just surprised to see the praising of "Russian boys" as a whole. but there is also Russians in Russia and Russians in other countries…
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Post by Nora on May 12, 2020 19:40:45 GMT
I cannot assess if this is meant to be a joke or not. Can you please elaborate? The 2 men I've been involved with for the longest talk shit about white women and how Asian women are so much better. I'm playing their game back at them. oh yeah, THIS one i have heard a lot. And … there might be something to it, dont you think? not necessarily "better" but different, which some might like better.
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 19:56:41 GMT
Not to speak for her, but she is serious I have never seen anyone praise Russian boys/men as a whole, when it comes to their treatment of women. Or hoping they will not be addicts/ after money or do fun and run. I am sure there are Plenty Russian men who are simply amazing, and just like mslo79 says, there is good and bad in every nation (or race, ethnicity, gender, whatever) But the (stereo)typical Russian nature is usually described as one of proneness to liking alcohol a bit too much, crudeness, cynicism, attachment to assets, focus on display of wealth (more than your average American). This is not to say Each Russian is like that, but if we are generalizing and saying something about nationals as a whole, I am just shocked someone would pick Russian men as an example of not going after money or becoming addicts etc. Now this is from someone who speaks Russian, knows and likes many Russians and spent time in Russia both for fun and work at one point. I wish her the best, I am just surprised to see the praising of "Russian boys" as a whole. but there is also Russians in Russia and Russians in other countries… My mother's reaction to me speaking Russian is to tell me that all Russian men are alcoholics who abuse women and to never date one. I'm trying to get back at her too. The ones who immigrate to the West have to be on their best behaviour or else they risk being deported so I think they have less of a chance of being substance abusers than the ones back home in the Motherland. The West has a huge substance abuse problem and fentanyl is proof. I know someone who died from a fentanyl overdose and I've known dozens of cokeheads, alcoholics, etc. when I was with my addict ex.
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Post by Nora on May 12, 2020 20:09:02 GMT
I have never seen anyone praise Russian boys/men as a whole... My mother's reaction to me speaking Russian is to tell me that all Russian men are alcoholics who abuse women and to never date one. I'm trying to get back at her too. The ones who immigrate to the West have to be on their best behaviour or else they risk being deported so I think they have less of a chance of being substance abusers than the ones back home in the Motherland. The West has a huge substance abuse problem and fentanyl is proof. I know someone who died from a fentanyl overdose and I've known dozens of cokeheads, alcoholics, etc. when I was with my addict ex. I still dont know if you are joking or not, but on the off chance you are not: it might not be the best idea to pick men "to get back at" (anyone, but especially not mothers) The substance abuse problem exists in other countries too, Russia included, its just not as prominently in your news maybe. Anyhow, its awesome you are learning a new language. How are you finding Russian? Are you also learning to read and write it? I can read it but my writing still sucks. I started learning it fairly late at life and got lazy and then just settled for speaking and reading. I think its a lovely language and has so much culture and history behind it. Have you ever been to Russia?
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Post by Deleted on May 12, 2020 20:22:45 GMT
My mother's reaction to me speaking Russian is to tell me that all Russian men are alcoholics who abuse women and to never date one. I'm trying to get back at her too. The ones who immigrate to the West have to be on their best behaviour or else they risk being deported so I think they have less of a chance of being substance abusers than the ones back home in the Motherland. The West has a huge substance abuse problem and fentanyl is proof. I know someone who died from a fentanyl overdose and I've known dozens of cokeheads, alcoholics, etc. when I was with my addict ex. I still dont know if you are joking or not, but on the off chance you are not: it might not be the best idea to pick men "to get back at" (anyone, but especially not mothers) The substance abuse problem exists in other countries too, Russia included, its just not as prominently in your news maybe. Anyhow, its awesome you are learning a new language. How are you finding Russian? Are you also learning to read and write it? I can read it but my writing still sucks. I started learning it fairly late at life and got lazy and then just settled for speaking and reading. I think its a lovely languages and has so much culture and history behind it. Have you ever been to Russia? I didn't pick my current interest to get back at anyone. I genuinely like him. Though in the past I acted like a slut just so I could be the opposite of my mother's plan for me to be a virgin bride sold off in an arranged marriage. My mother only wants me to be with (and she makes detailed lists of ethnicities/nationalities I can and can't date) Chinese, Japanese, Korean, and Taiwanese men and I am mostly attracted to white men. If anything, I might be better at reading Russian than aurally comprehending it. My parents sent me to 6 years of Chinese school to learn thousands of Hanzi characters so I don't understand why English speakers have such a hard time with the Cyrillic alphabet. I started learning at 25 and it's been about a year and a half. Nope, never been to Russia.
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Post by Fox in the Snow on May 13, 2020 3:30:23 GMT
You catching up on your Tarkovsky?
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Post by Ass_E9 on May 13, 2020 3:39:36 GMT
Take time to think it over. You may be Russian to judgment.
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Post by Schwarzwald Magnus on May 13, 2020 4:02:53 GMT
You catching up on your Tarkovsky?
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Post by mslo79 on May 13, 2020 6:53:22 GMT
Some advice... try scaling back the sex outside of marriage. because if you act like a slut, your probably going to be treated like one by most guys. plus, holding off on sex before marriage (besides being the moral thing to do) can help weed out the guys who are only trying to get in your pants vs those who actually give a damn about you That stuff in general is largely poison to society because it ends up being anti-male more often than not and has more of a rebellious spirit behind it which is anti-family etc. because by nature the male is the head of the family but feminism tries to reverse the roles that God put into place where females are acting more like males. it's not going to end well opposing the natural order of things.
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Post by moviebuffbrad on May 13, 2020 9:33:15 GMT
Proshchay, comrade.
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Post by Nora on May 13, 2020 16:08:32 GMT
oh yeah, THIS one i have heard a lot. And … there might be something to it, dont you think? not necessarily "better" but different, which some might like better. She said 'better'. I don't know what they told her, but Asian females are mostly better educated, hard-working, healthier and they live longer, so they are and do have it better, not 'different'. all asian women are like that, or which ones or which nationals, better educated? better educated than who? by healthier you mean they weight less on average? this one is probably true, I cant remember another country with such a visible lack or smaller number of fat people like it was in China, Macao, Hongkong, Singapor, Korea, Thailand or Cambodia... same goes for Japan. BUT in Malaysia, that was no longer tru.
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