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Post by gameboy on Sept 15, 2020 6:46:47 GMT
A person who uses this term is saying they can identify a gay person based on their stereotypes of how a gay person is supposed to behave. "Supposed" to behave. Lets not step out of character.
First, I ain't supposed to behave any particular way. Second, why don't you reel in your little antennas and mind your own business?
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Post by Schwarzwald Magnus on Sept 15, 2020 7:21:08 GMT
After work drama?
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 8:05:28 GMT
A person who uses this term is saying they can identify a gay person based on their stereotypes of how a gay person is supposed to behave. "Supposed" to behave. Lets not step out of character.
First, I ain't supposed to behave any particular way. Second, why don't you reel in your little antennas and mind your own business? I use the term myself, but I get your point if you are referring to straight dudes doing it. It is really about wanting to suss out the dude and as much, or as little, a gay guy may not want to admit it, there can be and are certain attributes that a gay guy can posses over a breeder douchebag.
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Post by gameboy on Sept 15, 2020 8:36:34 GMT
The Nazis had a whole list of attributes they used to identify Jews.
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Post by Stammerhead on Sept 15, 2020 8:37:13 GMT
Nah, it’s just gay folk thinking they’re something special. ::  |
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 8:52:03 GMT
Nah, it’s just gay folk thinking they’re something special. ::
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 8:54:02 GMT
The Nazis had a whole list of attributes they used to identify Jews.
They would have also had a list of attributes to identify homos, who were persecuted along with the Jews.
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Post by gameboy on Sept 15, 2020 15:26:54 GMT
The Nazis had a whole list of attributes they used to identify Jews.
They would have also had a list of attributes to identify homos, who were persecuted along with the Jews. Did you look at the article? The Nazis said effeminacy was a sign of Jewishness. They also said Jews talk fast and pronounce their words differently.
This is my point about straight people and "gaydar". A limpwristed guy with a lisp is gay!!! Dude, that's "gaydar". It's nothing but old fashioned homophobia dressed up to look hip.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2020 15:41:14 GMT
I remember when "gay" was used as a general-purpose insult. I messed around with a guy with a modest YouTube following back in the day and he got called "gay" all the time even though only one man has hit on him vs. a lot of women.
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Post by TheOriginalPinky on Sept 15, 2020 16:02:16 GMT
A person who uses this term is saying they can identify a gay person based on their stereotypes of how a gay person is supposed to behave. "Supposed" to behave. Lets not step out of character. First, I ain't supposed to behave any particular way. Second, why don't you reel in your little antennas and mind your own business? I consider "breeder" a heterophobic slur.
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Post by gameboy on Sept 15, 2020 16:12:15 GMT
I remember when "gay" was used as a general-purpose insult. I messed around with a guy with a modest YouTube following back in the day and he got called "gay" all the time even though only one man has hit on him vs. a lot of women. It's still used as a general purpose insult. "That's so gay" to refer to something as silly or inferior is definitely a slur.
What if I was to say "that's so black" to refer to something ignorant? Or what if I said "that's so Asian" to refer to something dirty and disease-ridden?
My point here is that gay people are the last minority left whom people can still insult and demean in public and not be called out on their bigotry when they do it.
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Post by gameboy on Sept 15, 2020 16:13:55 GMT
A person who uses this term is saying they can identify a gay person based on their stereotypes of how a gay person is supposed to behave. "Supposed" to behave. Lets not step out of character. First, I ain't supposed to behave any particular way. Second, why don't you reel in your little antennas and mind your own business? I consider "breeder" a heterophobic slur. Yes, heterosexuals have endured centuries of oppression and discrimination and I'm sick and tired of it!!!
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Post by TheOriginalPinky on Sept 15, 2020 16:16:19 GMT
I consider "breeder" a heterophobic slur. Yes, heterosexuals have endured centuries of oppression and discrimination and I'm sick and tired of it!!! Yeah, they seem to be the whipping boy for society's ills. Or should I phrase that as whipping PERSON. 
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Post by The Herald Erjen on Sept 15, 2020 16:21:31 GMT
That's sad, doc.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 16:21:55 GMT
I consider "breeder" a heterophobic slur. Yes, heterosexuals have endured centuries of oppression and discrimination and I'm sick and tired of it!!! Breeders are largely responsible for the prejudices and bigotry in society. They create society with their promotion of procreation and then set rules and boundaries for what is right and wrong for how their kids are supposed to act and be.
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Post by TheOriginalPinky on Sept 15, 2020 16:22:41 GMT
Yes, heterosexuals have endured centuries of oppression and discrimination and I'm sick and tired of it!!! Breeders are largely responsible for the prejudices and bigotry in society. They create society with their promotion of procreation and then set rules and boundaries for what is right and wrong for how their kids are supposed to act and be. My gaydar just went off. I suspect someone. 
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Post by someguy on Sept 15, 2020 16:24:21 GMT
What do you think about straight people using their gaydar incorrectly? I’ve had people suspect me of being gay before, at which point I have to tell them I’m straight while still clarifying that I have nothing against gays.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 16:24:35 GMT
They would have also had a list of attributes to identify homos, who were persecuted along with the Jews. Did you look at the article? The Nazis said effeminacy was a sign of Jewishness. They also said Jews talk fast and pronounce their words differently.
This is my point about straight people and "gaydar". A limpwristed guy with a lisp is gay!!! Dude, that's "gaydar". It's nothing but old fashioned homophobia dressed up to look hip. I’d say any straighty who has a fine honed gaydar, is not much of a straighty. Anyone can detect feminine attributes in a gay guy.
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Post by TheOriginalPinky on Sept 15, 2020 16:25:33 GMT
Did you look at the article? The Nazis said effeminacy was a sign of Jewishness. They also said Jews talk fast and pronounce their words differently. This is my point about straight people and "gaydar". A limpwristed guy with a lisp is gay!!! Dude, that's "gaydar". It's nothing but old fashioned homophobia dressed up to look hip. I’d say any straighty who has a fine honed gaydar, is not much of a straighty. Anyone can detect feminine attributes in a gay guy. There are straight guys who exhibit feminine characteristics . . . I'm guessing you have a point?
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Sept 15, 2020 16:26:30 GMT
What do you think about straight people using their gaydar incorrectly? I’ve had people suspect me of being gay before, at which point I have to tell them I’m straight while still clarifying that I have nothing against gays. Why would you have the need to suddenly defend yourself that you have nothing against gays, to prove that you are a tolerant straight?
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