Do you like to be touched?

There are other reasons you are overlooking, the main one is someone who was molested or abused in the past. Anti-social people probably will dislike people touching them because they dislike people in general and people with OCD will have issues with being touched too, especially germaphobes. 

Then there is just some stuff that makes people uncomfortable for no clear reason. 

Also, someone who is unable to experience love will not get anything from it. That is more a response to you liking affection because it has to do with care and love.

How these things are formed in the brain is a question that fascinates me. It can never be figured out to a high degree in many cases, because many times it is the series of events in your life that form your likes and dislikes.

Your mother didn't raise you very well.  You and men like you who think you not only have a right, but an obligation to, to objectify and dissect young women's bodies and feel a "duty" to tell them.

The fact that you're a middle aged man commenting on what's supposed to be a teenager's body is creepy, no matter how you try to spin it.  

I can't imagine raising my son to think it's their "duty" to speak about women with such a crass and disrespectful attitude.  

There are ways to make women feel attractive.  You feeling the right to access other women's bodies and discuss them is what leads (I'm telling you, not that you give a fuck, because you don't) to young women growing up with eating disorders, anorexia, bulimia, addiction to plastic surgery, promiscuity, lack of self-esteem,...  Because men feel entitled dissect our bodies and tell us what's sexually appealing or ugly, attractive or not, good or bad, bangable or not.  Like I said, your mother done fucked up with you, boy.  You have no respect for women.




 

I'm not doing this with you.

I am speaking from the position of what attitudes and actions like yours do to young, developing girls down the road.  Actions like yours have consequences on girls as they're growing up.  Not all, but on many.  You thinking it's no big deal that SOME women are going to grow up and be affected and develop severe mental and physical health problems is what's sick and disturbing.

Talking with women you're dating is an entirely different matter, especially if you've mutually figured out what appeals to you both.  But talking about the bodies of young women who are total strangers, and picking them apart is not your business.  

Anyone who has worked with women who have developed these issues know that they often started because of either personal trauma at home, and also from the constant objectification of women's bodies, be it by people like you or in the media.

Don't pretend to know me or my feelings because you haven't the faintest idea who I am.  

Sometimes, we're our own worse enemies.

Do you talk to all of them about their bodies, and tell them if they have attractive bodies, and offer unsolicited information?

I'm speaking within the specific context of your movie review.

You brought up objectifying the body of what was to be a teenager's body, when it was irrelevant to the premise of a movie about a traumatized orphan who was a savant growing up to discover the game of chess during the cold war.  Her sexual appeal and body is of no consequence, which is what makes your comments bizarre.

It's the context of that specifically.  

The conversation kept evolving because I'm trying to explain to you that you, men who behave like you and feel like you have a right and duty to verbalize your judgement about women's bodies, has far-reaching effects.  The fact that you have no empathy for the women whose lives are impacted is sickening.

I'm trying to explain that a man with class wouldn't be delving into describing a would-be teenager's body in a movie review about chess.  As our conversation continued (and and is exhaustingly going on in sufferance as you fail to grasp a sense of human decency) it evolved into me trying to explain what happens when men talk like you do to women.  It has an affect, but you're just not aware or don't care.  No empathy.

I'm glad I could help.

Are you the Nora who had a lama as your avatar?

It's back now.

you simply cannot speak on behalf of all women and thus know that None of them could be negatively impacted by what you say.

Here is an example: a young adult reading your comments about a HOLLYWOOD actress (where the standars of beauty and atractivness are much higher than anywhere else) where u say the body is “not the best” could feel more pressure to attain not only the beauty / shape Anya already posesses but something Even better. And if they dont compare, not only their bodies will be seen as “not the best” but maybe much worse.

And each comment like that teaches women and people overall that women will always be primarily judged based on attractivity. Even where they have more to offer or where atttactiveness is not the key requirement. (such as for a chess player). Fight for equality aside, I am simply not sure this is the best approach to furthering human kindness and well being.