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Post by ebony on Apr 21, 2021 12:50:29 GMT
ty traits
Damn
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Post by Spitfire926f on Apr 21, 2021 13:19:16 GMT
It's not the of the world, Ebony. It means the way you process your emotions isn't as regulated as it should be. It's not uncommon with people who had parents like yours. You've already done a lot of work in therapy and improved your life. This is the best known treatment: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_behavioral_therapy |
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Post by TheOriginalPinky on Apr 21, 2021 14:38:43 GMT
At least you know. Think of the poor souls out there who have no idea. And you are doing good work on yourself.
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Post by politicidal on Apr 21, 2021 18:37:28 GMT
How'd you do it?
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Post by enigma72 on Apr 21, 2021 23:19:15 GMT
Bon You are aware. See if you can work on it |
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Post by ebony on Apr 22, 2021 0:26:52 GMT
Bon You are aware. See if you can work on it I haven't had any psychiatric problems since 2019.
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Post by gameboy on Apr 22, 2021 1:59:19 GMT
Borderline to what? The whole concept is rather specious.
Personalities just are, they exist or they don't, they don't hover on a border.
Reject that over conceptualized theoretical hokum and you'll be free.
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Post by Spitfire926f on Apr 22, 2021 2:07:05 GMT
Borderline to what? The whole concept is rather specious.
Personalities just are, they exist or they don't, they don't hover on a border.
Reject that over conceptualized theoretical hokum and you'll be free. It's legit diagnosis. 
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Post by gameboy on Apr 22, 2021 2:13:52 GMT
Borderline to what? The whole concept is rather specious.
Personalities just are, they exist or they don't, they don't hover on a border.
Reject that over conceptualized theoretical hokum and you'll be free. It's legit diagnosis. Oh I'm sure the diagnosis means something to someone.
I'm just saying the term "borderline personality" is bizarre and describes nothing real. It's a way of marginalizing people. Oh, your personality is just borderline, not really here, only half real. Pffffffft. Don't buy this crap.
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Post by ebony on Apr 22, 2021 2:43:00 GMT
Oh I'm sure the diagnosis means something to someone.
I'm just saying the term "borderline personality" is bizarre and describes nothing real. It's a way of marginalizing people. Oh, your personality is just borderline, not really here, only half real. Pffffffft. Don't buy this crap. I believe some of the symptoms are cultural. Chinese professionals seem to reject the diagnosis. www.researchgate.net/publication/6550381_Should_borderline_personality_disorder_be_included_in_the_fourth_edition_of_the_Chinese_classification_of_mental_disorders"Fear of abandonment" is perhaps why easterners are more family oriented, unlike some westerners whose life goal, as far as I could tell, is to have as many sexual partners as they could. While there are some downsides to this, as seen with my parents staying together despite abusing each other, I don't see why it's so bad for me to expect a partner to stick with me instead of fucking and running like I've seen so many times before. It's why I'm happy for once now that I'm dating an immigrant with the same family values as me.
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Post by gameboy on Apr 22, 2021 3:02:36 GMT
Oh I'm sure the diagnosis means something to someone.
I'm just saying the term "borderline personality" is bizarre and describes nothing real. It's a way of marginalizing people. Oh, your personality is just borderline, not really here, only half real. Pffffffft. Don't buy this crap. I believe some of the symptoms are cultural. Chinese professionals seem to reject the diagnosis. www.researchgate.net/publication/6550381_Should_borderline_personality_disorder_be_included_in_the_fourth_edition_of_the_Chinese_classification_of_mental_disorders"Fear of abandonment" is perhaps why easterners are more family oriented, unlike some westerners whose life goal, as far as I could tell, is to have as many sexual partners as they could. While there are some downsides to this, as seen with my parents staying together despite abusing each other, I don't see why it's so bad for me to expect a partner to stick with me instead of fucking and running like I've seen so many times before. It's why I'm happy for once now that I'm dating an immigrant with the same family values as me. You see. I labeled it immediately and identically without ever reading the scientific literature. It's a theoretical "concept".
I'm saying it may describe very real traits in a person. But to dismiss it as "borderline" is very pretentious on the part of these so-called experts.
Own your personality. Don't let anyone take it from you. I can see just by reading you online that you're a very unique and interesting individual.
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Post by Spitfire926f on Apr 22, 2021 4:30:22 GMT
You see. I labeled it immediately and identically without ever reading the scientific literature. It's a theoretical "concept".
I'm saying it may describe very real traits in a person. But to dismiss it as "borderline" is very pretentious on the part of these so-called experts.
Own your personality. Don't let anyone take it from you. I can see just by reading you online that you're a very unique and interesting individual.
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature.
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Post by gameboy on Apr 22, 2021 4:55:24 GMT
You see. I labeled it immediately and identically without ever reading the scientific literature. It's a theoretical "concept".
I'm saying it may describe very real traits in a person. But to dismiss it as "borderline" is very pretentious on the part of these so-called experts.
Own your personality. Don't let anyone take it from you. I can see just by reading you online that you're a very unique and interesting individual.
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature. Yeah, we're all more or less crazy. Lol. I just object to the term "borderline personality".
It's pretentious and dismissive of people with very whole and unique personalities.
I look forward to the day when it's considered politically incorrect like "retarded" or "moron" or other ill-conceived terms for people with mental disabilities.
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Post by ebony on Apr 22, 2021 5:27:07 GMT
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature. Yeah, we're all more or less crazy. Lol. I just object to the term "borderline personality".
It's pretentious and dismissive of people with very whole and unique personalities.
I look forward to the day when it's considered politically incorrect like "retarded" or "moron" or other ill-conceived terms for people with mental disabilities. I got locked up for 5 days in October-November 2019 for supposedly being a danger to myself. The reasons the power tripping doctor gave me were that I "wasn't showing emotion" and that I didn't talk to family. Bitch.
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Post by gameboy on Apr 22, 2021 8:04:04 GMT
Yeah, we're all more or less crazy. Lol. I just object to the term "borderline personality".
It's pretentious and dismissive of people with very whole and unique personalities.
I look forward to the day when it's considered politically incorrect like "retarded" or "moron" or other ill-conceived terms for people with mental disabilities. I got locked up for 5 days in October-November 2019 for supposedly being a danger to myself. The reasons the power tripping doctor gave me were that I "wasn't showing emotion" and that I didn't talk to family. Bitch. I believe that often "mental illness" is used as an excuse to lock up nonconformists. It's a bit like a Chinese or old Soviet "reeducation" camp.
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Post by ebony on Apr 22, 2021 8:16:40 GMT
I got locked up for 5 days in October-November 2019 for supposedly being a danger to myself. The reasons the power tripping doctor gave me were that I "wasn't showing emotion" and that I didn't talk to family. Bitch. I believe that often "mental illness" is used as an excuse to lock up nonconformists. It's a bit like a Chinese or old Soviet "reeducation" camp. I haven't felt the need to take psychiatric medication since I finished taking the pills I was prescribed by the doctor who locked me up. Now I get my dopamine supply from a very loving Russian man.
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 22, 2021 9:23:37 GMT
You see. I labeled it immediately and identically without ever reading the scientific literature. It's a theoretical "concept".
I'm saying it may describe very real traits in a person. But to dismiss it as "borderline" is very pretentious on the part of these so-called experts.
Own your personality. Don't let anyone take it from you. I can see just by reading you online that you're a very unique and interesting individual.
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature. Some people don’t like spectrums and prefer it if something either is or isn’t. One of the interesting things about speech impediments is that we all have them to a certain degree but it’s only noticeable when it has a negative effect on the person’s ability to communicate. In the same way we all have personal quirks but they only become an issue if they have serious effects on their lives or the lives of other.
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Post by Nora on Apr 22, 2021 9:49:30 GMT
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature. Some people don’t like spectrums and prefer it if some either is or isn’t. One of the interesting things about speech impediments is that we all have them to a certain degree but it’s only noticeable when it has a negative effect on the person’s ability to communicate. In the same way we all have personal quirks but they only become an issue if they have serious effects on their lives or the lives of other. have you ever experienced that your impediment gets Stronger when someone a) knows about you having it and b) is trying to be Super patient and leans in/listens more intently? That happens to me all the time. The more I see on someone they are struggling to understand me AND are trying to quietly do their best to understand me (usually I can tell because they lean in and stare at my mouth) the worse I speak. I speak better with strangers who dont know about my impediment or friends who dont try so visibly to understand me. Wondering if anyone has a similar experience. |
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Post by Stammerhead on Apr 22, 2021 12:59:05 GMT
Some people don’t like spectrums and prefer it if some either is or isn’t. One of the interesting things about speech impediments is that we all have them to a certain degree but it’s only noticeable when it has a negative effect on the person’s ability to communicate. In the same way we all have personal quirks but they only become an issue if they have serious effects on their lives or the lives of other. have you ever experienced that your impediment gets Stronger when someone a) knows about you having it and b) is trying to be Super patient and leans in/listens more intently? That happens to me all the time. The more I see on someone they are struggling to understand me AND are trying to quietly do their best to understand me (usually I can tell because they lean in and stare at my mouth) the worse I speak. I speak better with strangers who dont know about my impediment or friends who dont try so visibly to understand me. Wondering if anyone has a similar experience. It can get out of control if people pay too much attention or look uneasy but I’ve also had occasions when I’ve spoken in front of a group of people it is barely noticeable. By the way, how about a game show where both team captains have a speech impediment?
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Post by Spitfire926f on Apr 22, 2021 13:44:34 GMT
Some of the smartest and most talented people I've met were borderline. The term "borderline" means where they fall on the disorder spectrum. And no one is the picture of mental health. Everyone has disordered traits to some degree or another. Marilyn Monroe was thought to have had it, as well as Princess Diana. How true that is, I don't know, but they get mentioned in some literature. Some people don’t like spectrums and prefer it if some either is or isn’t. One of the interesting things about speech impediments is that we all have them to a certain degree but it’s only noticeable when it has a negative effect on the person’s ability to communicate. In the same way we all have personal quirks but they only become an issue if they have serious effects on their lives or the lives of other. My Dad was a stutterer as a child. As an adult, it was barely noticeable unless you knew his history. |
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