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Post by cupcakes on Jul 12, 2017 21:32:36 GMT
tpfkar Eva Yojimbo said:I have, and I'm saying his criteria practically, not just theoretically, encompasses vast numbers (perhaps the bulk) of 4-year olds. I don't think it implies "all" 4 year-olds at all, not that it makes any difference in the enormity of the position. Deez: "Feel the same way I do or there is something wrong with you." Meez: If you think 4 year-olds can be f!ckable, or that anything done to infants could be called "sexual relations", as you do both, then there is something very wrong with you. Deez: And yet you attempt to deny being an objectivist.
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 12, 2017 21:46:00 GMT
tpfkar Eva Yojimbo said:I have, and I'm saying his criteria practically, not just theoretically, encompasses vast numbers (perhaps the bulk) of 4-year olds. I don't think it implies "all" 4 year-olds at all, not that it makes any difference in the enormity of the position. Deez: "Feel the same way I do or there is something wrong with you." Meez: If you think 4 year-olds can be f!ckable, or that anything done to infants could be called "sexual relations", as you do both, then there is something very wrong with you. Deez: And yet you attempt to deny being an objectivist. You have what? No 4-year-olds that I know even know what sex is, so I'm not sure how his criteria could apply to the bulk of 4-year-olds. In any case, I think there are plenty of objections to be made to the consent-based approach without misrepresenting it, which I very much think "advocating for sex with 4-year-olds" is doing.
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 13, 2017 5:37:19 GMT
tpfkar Eva Yojimbo said:And that was in response to your ' "Right, and he doesn't give a minimum age where he thinks consent is possible. There's a big difference between "advocating for sex with four-year-olds" and "advocating for a consent-based approach to sex."', the most definitely baffling line that advocating criteria that opens a/likely the bulk to be able to meet his criteria for being subjected to adults for sex is somehow meaningfully distinguished from "advocating for sex with four-year-olds". Or that there is any meaningful moderation of the fact that that the criteria he advocates encompasses a/likely the bulk of 4 year-olds, whether or not by way of erroneous assumption of an irrelevant and unnecessary direct statement of "4 year-olds can consent". Or that "just an inference" somehow dents that advocates criteria + criteria opens 4 year olds, or even that "now it seems" somehow applies to something that has been stated for multiple posts now. Right, so he didn't explicitly give a minimum age that he thought could actually consent; the 4-year-old thing was an implication you reached based on his criteria. It seems we agree on that point. Where we disagree is that you think making it about that implication while excluding the consent-based basis for it isn't a misrepresentation and I very much think it is. That implication may highlight a major problem with the approach, but it is not the approach itself, and framing it as such is dishonest; and it's not like you have to be dishonest about it in order to point the problem out. But they're open to being exposed and taught by those people now and yet I'm guessing the vast majority of 4-year-olds now do not know about sex at all. If any of them knew about it when I was that age, I didn't know; and if any of my many nieces, nephews, or kids my cousin takes care of at daycare knows about it, I also don't know. So I don't know where you're getting this "bulk of 4-year-olds" thing from other than it's a hypothetical possibility based on the criteria, as opposed to an actuality where most 4-year-olds (to start with) even know about sex. Basically, yeah, I'm saying that unless a predator has already gotten to them, or unless they had rather odd parents, that a 4-year-old is extremely unlikely to even know what sex is and thus would be completely unable to consent. That's why I asked you to name a general consent approach that could avoid that step. I frankly can't conceive of one.
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Post by cupcakes on Jul 13, 2017 6:21:12 GMT
tpfkar Topline: none of the surrounding wankery escapes the advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Nor the community service for rape thing. Eva Yojimbo said:Well 1, it's irrelevant that it's "implication" from his direct criteria, and 2, as noted he's been bandying the "4 year olds" in his posts since the last board. Bafflement indeed. Advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Ain't no dodging that one.  The suggestion of dishonesty is either dishonest in and of itself or is profoundly misguided. His directly posted criteria open a/the bulk of 4 year olds to use for sex, and no talking around it will make it any less reprehensible of an idea. Again, irrelevant in order to explain enough to them to meet his directly specified criteria. Using the fact that their guardians have not yet educated them to the point of the very straightforward requirements of his criteria, or that they haven't been groomed yet I can only deem as bizarre. The serious posing that they are discounted by way of the very basic instruction needed, again, I don't really know how to characterize. Sure, I really can't grasp how someone who's had any real time with children or really any idea would seriously pose this as discounting.   A general "consent approach" doesn't take that step because it would require a specific approach or implementation with specific criteria to take that step at all. Not conceiving any particular implementation of a consent approach doesn't in any way rehabilitate his criteria that sanction adult use and abuse of kids. I've never suggested that there may be one that solves any particular issue; in fact I stated outright several times that I thought consent-based approaches were fatally impractical. Deez: "Feel the same way I do or there is something wrong with you." Meez: If you think 4 year-olds can be f!ckable, or that anything done to infants could be called "sexual relations", as you do both, then there is something very wrong with you. Deez: And yet you attempt to deny being an objectivist.
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 16, 2017 9:09:43 GMT
I am pretty sure I remember you saying on the olD board that you diDnt know if peDophilia harmed children and that you had no opinion on it so you were certainly not in the "fuck the peDos" camp for a while. I don't know if I ever said all of this in in one post, but the overall gist of my opinion was: from what I knew of the research, which wasn't much, all suggested it was harmful; but that research had not met the criteria that Eddie had advocated for determining what the source of the supposed harm was (eg, if it was socially motivated/stigmatized), and I admitted that if we changed/removed certain variables, like the stigma factor, then I didn't know if it was be as harmful. Of the anecdotes I knew about it, likewise, the vast majority spoke of it as something extremely negative, and the neutral/positives were pretty rare by comparison (the Takei/Milo storeis). But I also remember supporting Cine's statements about certain physical sexual acts being pretty innately harmful to children just through the sheer bio-physics of it (prepubescent vaginas don't lubricate; anal sex can be painful for adults in the best of situations; etc.), so I also thought it likely harmful from that perspective. I've also been pretty consistently in the "this is a situation where I'd rather be safe than sorry" camp. It just seems to me that the value in fulfilling a sexual desire couldn't outweigh the very likely potential harm done to the children, and it's not something I'd want to risk to find out. Plus, and I think this is a point I never really got around to making, I do very much disagree with Eddie over the idea that children aren't more pliable than teenagers and adults. I still basically resent the fact that I felt "brainwashed" by my parents into believing in God throughout my childhood based on nothing more than my blind faith in them. Stuff like that and kids' tendencies to believe in things like Santa Clause pretty much prove how easily manipulated children are into believing and doing stuff. Do I think many adults are naive and easily manipulated too? Sure. But not to the degree that you can just tell most of them "there's a fat guy in a red suit that delivers presents to every child in the world over the course of one night" and they believe it just because you said it. So given that, I'm very leery of the notion of children being able to consent to sex, especially since sex between people is generally something people only have interest in past puberty because of hormonal/sexual urges. The kind of sex children experience (that I've mentioned throughout this thread) is more of the non-fantasy, non-sex-hormonal, self-pleasing variety. The "i rub my penis/clitoris because it feels good" not "I rub my penis/clitoris because I wish I was fucking Scarlett Johansson/Brad Pitt... and it feel good." When kids imitate more interpersonal sexual activities (kissing, playing house, etc.) it's more out of curiosity and a desire to imitate adults ("monkey see, monkey do") and also not due to sexual urges. It doesn't feel right to me that any supposed "consent" would likely be out of a desire to blindly please an adult, or imitate adult behaviors without the adult urges, while in all likelihood the adult would undoubtedly have much more power in manipulating this consent than you would see in most any adult/adult consent situation. EDIT: I might add that I have a lot of reservations and misgivings about how sex is viewed in the west in general. Basically, I think there's still far too much of the Puritanical and Christian "morality" that rears its ugly head in a variety of ways, even among those that claim to be liberal and progressive when it comes to such matters. I also think that part of that mentality that I dislike crops up in these pedophile debates, and it's often that I find myself reacting to. Like, I find it odd that these sexual subjects--and we saw the same thing with homosexuality when it was even more controversial--seem to elicit a kind of reactionary moral outrage in a way that other subjects don't. While I disagree with scienceisgod on just about everything, I can't help but agree that it's weird that there's this almost universal outrage over pedophilia, but comparatively little over circumcision. And, yeah, if you think about it: "cut my penis without my permission = OK, but stroke my penis with or without my permission = most horrible thing in the world" seems like a strange mentality. Similarly, I rarely even see murder cases yield the same kind of outrage. Even on a completely different level, there seems to be less outrage over Global Warming--something that can literally destroy the entire planet and life as we know it--and those that are denying than on these sexual subjects. I... just don't get it. None of that equals out to me supporting pedophilia in the end, but it is a pretty good explanation of what my various concerns are.
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Post by cupcakes on Jul 16, 2017 9:39:05 GMT
tpfkar Topline: none of the surrounding wankery escapes the advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Nor the community service for rape thing. Eva Yojimbo said:Yeah, that emotional puritanical rejection of child use for sex by adults. It's like the 1600s all over again. Speaking of scienceisgod chat.  Maybe it's a good thing for the kids after all. It's not like circumcision at least.  We know the vast majority of those cases react so much worse than those diddled as a kids. So many worse things to worry about for all the misplaced outrage. But at least we know the "moral outrage" is akin to the misplaced venom once held for homosexuality. but from what I remember it was journalofeddi who advocated for sex with children as young as 4 years old
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 16, 2017 9:55:45 GMT
tpfkar Topline: none of the surrounding wankery escapes the advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Nor the community service for rape thing. Eva Yojimbo said:Yeah, the that emotional puritanical rejection of child use for sex by adults. It's like the 1600s all over again. Speaking of scienceisgod chat.  Maybe it's a good thing for the kids after all. It's not like circumcision at least.  We know the vast majority of those cases react so much worse than those diddled as a kids. The "emotional/puritanical" seems to crop up in a lot of sex-related subjects and the form it takes with pedophilia is basically identical to the form it takes (or took) with homosexuality. This in no way suggests that they are both right, both wrong, or that one was right and the other was wrong; what I find so disturbing about the whole "emotional puritanical outrage" stance is precisely that it doesn't distinguish between differences. The appearance is identical. The roadblocks it puts up towards productive rational arguments is identical. The blatant irrationality it fosters is identical. You're a perfect example, as pretty much everyone who's commented on this thread recognizes (of course we're all "friends:" which is the Erjen "you're all against me and my campaign of righteousness!" mentality). For more evidence of that, just look at your flippant reaction to the circumcision comparison: after all your responses to Bryce about the morality of taking advantage of the naive, immature, and vulnerable... and then to act like the the only moral consideration is the harm done. Apparently, taking advantage of the vulnerable is bad, but taking advantage of the completely defenseless without any kind of consent is OK, as long as it doesn't harm them. Which, by that logic, if you hypothetically had sex with an infant in a way that didn't physically harm them, then you wouldn't have harmed them (because they certainly wouldn't remember it and carry any emotional scars). Rabbitlogic.
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 17, 2017 18:45:55 GMT
Jesus Christ, isn't it about time you guys started a new thread? It's 24 pages in and it's been 2 guys having a conversation about other universes on a thread that was about "child sex robots". Err, Bryce, there's only been a handful of replies on this multiverse tangent. The vast majority of the discussion has been between rabbit and I over the child sex robots and related pedophilia issues (and a lot of semantic/grammar confusion).
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Post by cupcakes on Jul 17, 2017 19:09:58 GMT
tpfkar Topline: none of the surrounding wankery escapes the advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Nor the community service for rape thing. Eva Yojimbo said:The bulk of it evagal pursuing obfuscatory firehouses of irrelevancy. But watch out as that second sentence may confuse the hell out of Bryce. Lunch time. but from what I remember it was journalofeddi who advocated for sex with children as young as 4 years old
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 17, 2017 19:12:34 GMT
tpfkar Topline: none of the surrounding wankery escapes the advocates criteria + criteria subject 4 year-olds to sexual use by adults. Nor the community service for rape thing. Eva Yojimbo said:The bulk of it rabbitguy refusing to admit gradeschool grammar/semantic mistakes and why they illustrate the near-impossibility of fruitful discussion with him. FIFY
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Post by captainbryce on Jul 17, 2017 20:37:07 GMT
Jesus Christ, isn't it about time you guys started a new thread? It's 24 pages in and it's been 2 guys having a conversation about other universes on a thread that was about "child sex robots". Err, Bryce, there's only been a handful of replies on this multiverse tangent. The vast majority of the discussion has been between rabbit and I over the child sex robots and related pedophilia issues (and a lot of semantic/grammar confusion). I didn't realize cupcakes was rabbit. I'll have to put him back on ignore now. Thanks! 
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Post by Eva Yojimbo on Jul 21, 2017 17:47:26 GMT
Eva Yojimbo said:By what basis do you ascribe a firmly-held belief to be a "frame"? Framing the argument is any attempt made at saying "this is what the argument is about." Someone advocating a consent-only approach is arguing that "anyone who can and does consent should be allowed to have sex;" so trying to frame their argument as "4-year-olds should be abused by predators" is just very dishonest because that's not their argument; it's just one consequence of what could happen with a consent-only approach, and it completely ignores the virtues they see in the freedom/liberty to do what one is capable of and consents to doing. It's very analogous to the attempt at framing pro-choice as "people who advocate killing fetuses" without understanding the choice aspect and the various situations where abortion might be the best thing for everyone involved. Research accepted by the professional consensus? I don't know if the professional consensus has seen/read it and weighed in on it. Still, there's no denying that the research exists and that its very existence counts as some evidence for the "not harmful" group (we could certainly debate how strong/weak evidence it is; but it wouldn't be honest to pretend as if it's not evidence at all). One can be ambivalent about pedophilia without accusing one of being dishonest and "framing" at the very start of a conversation. And what is your basis for asserting that it is "predicated" on "moral outrage" as opposed to having derived from professional consensus, extensive personal experience, reason? I don't think I accused anyone of dishonesty at the "very start," but it was certainly "framing" to try to discuss a consent-only approach as an "advocates sex with 4-year-olds" approach. The basis for asserting that it's predicated on moral outrage are precisely that some of the arguments, including how it was framed from the start, would only be made by someone who was morally outraged; not someone who was trying to accurately describe what the argument was and counter it. Plus, as I've said, the same/similar tactics were used by those morally outraged at things like homosexuality; eg, the "slippery slope" argument against gay marriage is one predicated on moral outrage, and it's not all that dissimilar to the notion that there would necessarily be rampant child sex-abuse under a consent-only approach to sex. What's your basis for asserting that it tends to come from "xenophobia" or fear of the "unknown" instead of from seeing just how vulnerable and delicate they are first hand, both physically and mentally, supported by the opinions of the accepted professionals? And even if such hypothetical were true, how is it in any way superior to "support of legalizing sexual interaction between adults and prepubescents tends to come from pedophiles", or even "insisting that proposals legalizing sexual interaction between adults and prepubescents should be debated on no rational basis and not dismissed - tends to come from pedophiles" The xenophobia is in the desire to protect the vulnerable from the unknown that's perceived as potentially dangerous. We see that at work all the time in over-protective parents who try to protect their kids from anything and everything. As good examples from recent history, parents trying to protect their children from the "evil" influences of rock (or rap) music, or protect them from the influence of violent video games. Parents "feared" these things long before there was any research suggesting they were harmful at all. Even beyond kids you could see it at work in the fear-based propaganda against marijuana long before there was any research to suggest if it was harmful. Like I said earlier, when it comes to sex in general I think you still see a lot of Puritanical/Christian xenophobic attitude towards it, the notion that it's something innately sinful, dirty, harmful, etc. I can see it (in part) in how completely ignorant most adults are when it comes to facts about how sexual children are at all (many are shocked when/if they find out that children, even as young as 2, masturbate); and that ignorance seems to stem from this false notion of "innocent children" where "innocence" is tied in with sexuality (if children are innocent, they can't be sexual). The reason why I suspect it's more xenophobic-related than based on the "opinions of the accepted experts" is because I can almost guarantee you that no parent researches the opinions of accepted experts before deciding whether pedophilia is bad. Most people, in general, don't deeply question most social mores and ethical positions, and even fewer do so to the point that they consult research of experts' consensus. Ask yourself why so many people in Germany in WW2 didn't resist the Nazis; the simple answer is that people's instincts about morality is shaped far more by the influences of evolution and social mores than on any scientific or rational investigation of their legitimacy. If you're raised in an environment where Jews are considered inferior, then it's very easy to just blindly accept that without ever questioning it. I mean, did YOU do any research into what the experts thought about pedophilia before arguing in these threads? I know I didn't. But again, the professional consensus is that it is highly harmful. Are they as a whole driven by xenophobia or "fear of the unknown"? Like I said, it would depend on what experts you mean. Experts can be biased by their own experience as I explained above. It's easy for them to only see effects as opposed to causes. The causal aspect is what research is for. I don't know how much research there is and how it balances on the harmful/not harmful scale, nor if they discern causes. Let me give an example: back on IMDb 1, Blade made a thread about how children of homosexual parents are more likely to be fat and depressed. The research he offered was solid enough to where we all more-or-less accepted that the statement was true. However, stating this effect didn't argue for any cause. Most of us (by "us" I mean myself, Cash, DA, et al.) that the "cause" was most likely the stigma these children faced having homosexual parents. That seemed (to us) far more likely than the notion that homosexuals were somehow innately bad at parenting. The analogy with pedophilia and experts would be this: even if some experts see the negative effects, this doesn't really address what the cause is, nor does it mean that the causes they see are universal, or even perhaps in the majority. So it would be very easy for experts to be biased in such a way. Again, research could help remedy this, and I simply don't know what the "consensus" of the research is. And once analyzed rationally, and even if the urge is prior, what's your basis for considering any evolutionary urges against adult/child as being erroneous without evidence to support it? Haven't urges brought about by evolution been overwhelmingly beneficial overall? That the neutral and deleterious ones are outliers many times spurred by changes in lifestyle? The key thing to remember about evolution is that it's tuned us for survival and reproduction, not for finding truths, and there are many instances where in tuning us for survival is probably did so in a way that made us wrong the vast majority of the time. To take an example, human's tendency to ascribe agency to effects makes sense from a survival perspective: if you assume that rustle in the bush is a hungry predator, you're more likely to survive if it is as opposed to the guy that doesn't assume that. Now, it might only be a predator 1/100 times. This would mean the "assume it's a predator" guy is wrong 99/100 times, but each time he's wrong he still survives, and the one time he's right he also has a better chance at surviving. So in tuning us to fear the unknown, evolution didn't care that most of the time the unknown wasn't anything genuinely threatening to us. Now, just like with the "agency" example, it's obvious that sometimes our fears are warranted, that sometimes what we instinctual consider immoral/wrong we do so because it IS genuinely dangerous to our survival and the well-being of others. But my point in general has been that you need more than the "moral outrage" reaction to prove that, that the reaction by itself is an extremely unreliable gauge for whether something is genuinely wrong and/or harmful. And what's your basis for concluding it's from a general "better safe than sorry" reaction as opposed to a more direct effect of prepubescent sex reducing a child's chances of making it to the the point of successfully raising offspring it's own in families that practiced it? I'm not sure why you think prepubescent sex would reduce a child's chances of making it to the point of successfully raising offspring of their own... Are there any respected professionals recommending adult/prepubescent sex? If so, by what proportion to the ones who recommend against? None that I know of; but I would again make the distinction between "recommending it" (which would imply there's something good about it), and simply saying "it's OK" (which would only imply there's nothing harmful about it). What's your basis for this, as in your own words above you said - "I have no way of knowing, and I'm not going to pretend as if I do"? The basis is in the fact that different fields would/could cover the issue from different angles. The sociologists wouldn't study it in the same way that psychologists or philosophers or neuroscientists might. This isn't the case for "climate science" where it was mostly just climatologists studying it. Why wouldn't a "consensuses among experts in different fields" be superior to a single "expert consensus"? The former might be superior if the experts in a given field had diligently studied all the available research. My whole point is that in just saying "expert consensus" you aren't really making the distinction between the experts that have studied all available research and those that haven't. As there's no reasonable way for a layperson to conclude otherwise, how would 'tentatively" going with the "expert consensus" be smarter or more honest than just going with the "expert consensus"? And how would "tentatively going with" be distinguished from "going with"? The "tentatively" contains a healthy dose of "I could be wrong about this." Further, it contains a dose of "I can understand how/why the 'expert consensus' could be wrong." Let me offer another example of the latter. I know we got into about quantum physics once upon a time to and you also appealed to expert consensus. The major thing I tried to explain to you is that within quantum physics there were two very different kinds of experts: experimental physicists, who used the basic formulations for pragmatic purposes (like engineering); and theoretical physicists, who were still trying to "explain" what quantum physics really meant and if there was some more general theory that could explain it better. When it came to the former, the vast majority were not even informed of much theoretical work, and were not even taught ideas like "many-worlds" or "Schrodinger's Cat" because, to paraphrase physicist Matthew Rave, those were philosophical concepts and not relevant to the work of a practicing physicist. So even though you could consider both experimental and theoretical physicists experts on quantum mechanics, they had very different kinds of expertise, and the former were often quite ignorant when it came to the philosophy behind the concept of something like many-worlds. Given that, it wouldn't really be fair to speak of a generalized "expert consensus" on many-worlds, because some quantum physicists would've been entirely ignorant of the relevant information about it. To make the analogy with pedophilia, a psychologist might regularly deal with people who've been victims of pedophilia; but the very nature of their job would mean that they've probably ONLY seen those who thought the experience was negative (thus biasing the psychologist's conclusions), and even in coming to the conclusion that it is harmful the psychologist wouldn't have been able to discern a direct cause for the harm. So what you really need, then, are "experts" engaged in the research side of things, in reviewing as many cases as possible, preferably cross-cultural, and noting all those that were harmful VS not-harmful, and trying to find causal connections between the situations concerning each. If there's a consensus just among THOSE experts, I don't know what it is. And that still leaves us with "why should a lay debater consider an opinion from another lay debater that contradicts the "expert consensus", especially in the case of radical differences? Like I said, it depends on what you mean by "consider;" you almost certainly shouldn't "consider it" to the point of rejecting the expert consensus, but you may consider it to the point of questioning/investigating the expert consensus to better educate yourself on the issue while being more tentative in your own opinions on the matter.
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Post by cupcakes on Jul 27, 2017 21:41:24 GMT
Let me offer another example of the latter. I know we got into about quantum physics once upon a time to and you also appealed to expert consensus. The major thing I tried to explain to you is that within quantum physics there were two very different kinds of experts: experimental physicists, who used the basic formulations for pragmatic purposes (like engineering); and theoretical physicists, who were still trying to "explain" what quantum physics really meant and if there was some more general theory that could explain it better. When it came to the former, the vast majority were not even informed of much theoretical work, and were not even taught ideas like "many-worlds" or "Schrodinger's Cat" because, to paraphrase physicist Matthew Rave, those were philosophical concepts and not relevant to the work of a practicing physicist. So even though you could consider both experimental and theoretical physicists experts on quantum mechanics, they had very different kinds of expertise, and the former were often quite ignorant when it came to the philosophy behind the concept of something like many-worlds. Given that, it wouldn't really be fair to speak of a generalized "expert consensus" on many-worlds, because some quantum physicists would've been entirely ignorant of the relevant information about it. I think you are remembering inaccurately, as the only thing you and I really "got into" over quantum physics was your statement that you believed in many worlds and the multiverse with Occam's Razor as the best evidence for it. And perhaps your overstatement of consensus among theoretical physicists regarding MWI. Not all fields are in the same state, with theoretical physics regarding QM interpretations currently being particularly tumultuous. I've never been one to guess on the theoretical edges of QM where heavy research is still ongoing and verification lags far behind even where it is practical/possible. I will however accept their consensus conclusions as they happen. But then this situation does not translate well to many, if any other fields. In any case, I don't believe physicists, theoretical or otherwise, have promulgated information on MWI that we should apply directly in our lives. If you think you understand quantum mechanics, you don't understand quantum mechanics.
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