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Post by DSDSquared on Apr 6, 2018 14:39:03 GMT
Most guys would not admit that sex scenes between guys are their favorite because most guys are straight. There is no hypocrisy involved. Straight guys get turned on by women doing sexual things but not men doing the same unless they are doing it with women. I think in the later case they project themselves into the scene in place of the guy who is there. I find it a bit amusing that straight men find lesbian scenes a turn on, but then again these usually involve nude women doing sexual things that straight men would enjoy if this was being done to them, I think they project themselves into these scenes as well. Straight men do not enjoy watching men having sex with each other. There is no turn on value. Some a repulsed by it, some are threatened by it, and others just have no interest in it or find it boring. Most guys won't admit it, because they are scared to admit it. That is what homophobia is. Somebody might find out.  Most guys are "bisexual" and this straight thing is just a societal construct\convention. It is a conditioning. Any guy that is repulsed by male on male sexuality, and just plain male, masculine sexuality in general, must have some serious self-loathing issues regarding their own manliness. This is hilariously not true. Most males do not list male on male sex scenes because they do not find them sexually arousing. I would not post one because I would not enjoy watching it, period. I do not get repulsed by gays nor am I even slightly offended or insecure about it. If there was a lesbian sex scene between Roseanne Barr and John Goodman in some X-Rated Roseanne episode, I would not want to see that either.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 6, 2018 21:12:11 GMT
Most guys won't admit it, because they are scared to admit it. That is what homophobia is. Somebody might find out.  Most guys are "bisexual" and this straight thing is just a societal construct\convention. It is a conditioning. Any guy that is repulsed by male on male sexuality, and just plain male, masculine sexuality in general, must have some serious self-loathing issues regarding their own manliness. This is hilariously not true. Most males do not list male on male sex scenes because they do not find them sexually arousing. I would not post one because I would not enjoy watching it, period. I do not get repulsed by gays nor am I even slightly offended or insecure about it. If there was a lesbian sex scene between Roseanne Barr and John Goodman in some X-Rated Roseanne episode, I would not want to see that either. Most guys don't like them, because it makes them uncomfortable to admit it. Pronto! If a gay guy can watch gay or straight scenes— and I have listed both gay and lesbian sex scenes—then there is no reason why a purportedly straight guy can't see the hotness and passion of two dudes together. You don't need to feel aroused to enjoy a well done sex scene. That was my point, males are watching 2 women getting it on to get off. I don't think I would want to watch Barr and Goodman getting it on though, with or without a lesbian or another male.
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Post by DSDSquared on Apr 9, 2018 12:58:37 GMT
This is hilariously not true. Most males do not list male on male sex scenes because they do not find them sexually arousing. I would not post one because I would not enjoy watching it, period. I do not get repulsed by gays nor am I even slightly offended or insecure about it. If there was a lesbian sex scene between Roseanne Barr and John Goodman in some X-Rated Roseanne episode, I would not want to see that either. Most guys don't like them, because it makes them uncomfortable to admit it. Pronto! If a gay guy can watch gay or straight scenes— and I have listed both gay and lesbian sex scenes—then there is no reason why a purportedly straight guy can't see the hotness and passion of two dudes together. You don't need to feel aroused to enjoy a well done sex scene. That was my point, males are watching 2 women getting it on to get off. I don't think I would want to watch Barr and Goodman getting it on though, with or without a lesbian or another male. This is your assumption and not true. I was in the military and I am a Medical Professional now. I have seen thousands of dongs up close and personal in my life. They do not bother me at all nor make me feel uncomfortable. I still do not ever see the 'hotness' of two dude having sex with each other. It has nothing to do with being insecure in my sexuality and has everything to do with me just not finding two dudes making out hot.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 9, 2018 13:46:44 GMT
Most guys don't like them, because it makes them uncomfortable to admit it. Pronto! If a gay guy can watch gay or straight scenes— and I have listed both gay and lesbian sex scenes—then there is no reason why a purportedly straight guy can't see the hotness and passion of two dudes together. You don't need to feel aroused to enjoy a well done sex scene. That was my point, males are watching 2 women getting it on to get off. I don't think I would want to watch Barr and Goodman getting it on though, with or without a lesbian or another male. This is your assumption and not true. I was in the military and I am a Medical Professional now. I have seen thousands of dongs up close and personal in my life. They do not bother me at all nor make me feel uncomfortable. I still do not ever see the 'hotness' of two dude having sex with each other. It has nothing to do with being insecure in my sexuality and has everything to do with me just not finding two dudes making out hot. So it is dongs that are supposed to make another guy hot for another guy. I would say that is a very base assumption of what makes male on male sexual attraction for each other supposedly hot. The "base" sexual mentality of many males who can only appreciate the feminine form sexually is a forgone conclusion of a "truism" I have stated. Yes, males can be extremely hot and sexy and if another male can't acknowledge this, straight or not, then they are just buying into a societal construct and perhaps even a brainwashed conditioning.
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Post by DSDSquared on Apr 9, 2018 14:51:39 GMT
This is your assumption and not true. I was in the military and I am a Medical Professional now. I have seen thousands of dongs up close and personal in my life. They do not bother me at all nor make me feel uncomfortable. I still do not ever see the 'hotness' of two dude having sex with each other. It has nothing to do with being insecure in my sexuality and has everything to do with me just not finding two dudes making out hot. So it is dongs that are supposed to make another guy hot for another guy. I would say that is a very base assumption of what makes male on male sexual attraction for each other supposedly hot. The "base" sexual mentality of many males who can only appreciate the feminine form sexually is a forgone conclusion of a "truism" I have stated. Yes, males can be extremely hot and sexy and if another male can't acknowledge this, straight or not, then they are just buying into a societal construct and perhaps even a brainwashed conditioning. You are continually putting your opinions out there as fact when they are anything but. I can look at a guy and tell whether he is attractive or not. That Latino dude from Sense8 is hot enough to make me turn gay, for instance, but, for the life of me, when I see two guys making out, it does the opposite of turn me on. There is nothing hidden in there, that is just the way it is for me.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 9, 2018 22:28:20 GMT
So it is dongs that are supposed to make another guy hot for another guy. I would say that is a very base assumption of what makes male on male sexual attraction for each other supposedly hot. The "base" sexual mentality of many males who can only appreciate the feminine form sexually is a forgone conclusion of a "truism" I have stated. Yes, males can be extremely hot and sexy and if another male can't acknowledge this, straight or not, then they are just buying into a societal construct and perhaps even a brainwashed conditioning. You are continually putting your opinions out there as fact when they are anything but. I can look at a guy and tell whether he is attractive or not. That Latino dude from Sense8 is hot enough to make me turn gay, for instance, but, for the life of me, when I see two guys making out, it does the opposite of turn me on. There is nothing hidden in there, that is just the way it is for me. So you admit that a dude is hot enough to make you gay, but seeing two guys making out turns you off. What if it was the hot Latin dude that you saw making out with another guy?
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Post by DSDSquared on Apr 10, 2018 13:05:19 GMT
You are continually putting your opinions out there as fact when they are anything but. I can look at a guy and tell whether he is attractive or not. That Latino dude from Sense8 is hot enough to make me turn gay, for instance, but, for the life of me, when I see two guys making out, it does the opposite of turn me on. There is nothing hidden in there, that is just the way it is for me. So you admit that a dude is hot enough to make you gay, but seeing two guys making out turns you off. What if it was the hot Latin dude that you saw making out with another guy? I mean that I can tell if another dude is attractive, I just do not want to see two dude making out. It turns me off a lot. Sorry to say it. I do not know why. It is just the way I am made. There is nothing wrong with it, it just does not do it for me. My wife gets disgusted by two women making out. She really does. She thinks it is straight up disgusting. Everyone is not bi. This seems to be a common belief among gay men especially.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 10, 2018 14:25:19 GMT
So you admit that a dude is hot enough to make you gay, but seeing two guys making out turns you off. What if it was the hot Latin dude that you saw making out with another guy? I mean that I can tell if another dude is attractive, I just do not want to see two dude making out. It turns me off a lot. Sorry to say it. I do not know why. It is just the way I am made. There is nothing wrong with it, it just does not do it for me. My wife gets disgusted by two women making out. She really does. She thinks it is straight up disgusting. Everyone is not bi. This seems to be a common belief among gay men especially. I don't understand the disgusting comment. Why would your wife find 2 women making out disgusting? It's just sex between 2 consenting adults. Is she implying then that homosexuality is disgusting perhaps. Quite frankly, I think that heterosexual sex is feeble in comparison to homosexual sex, be it gay or lesbian. The masculine and feminine are not so much perceived as an external aspect, but is more adjusted and balanced within. Guys who see other guys making out, are afraid of any stirring in their loins that it could provoke. That is my point and they are afraid that it might mean they are gay. This is the societal construct and conditioning I am talking about and that homophobia is still rampant in our society, no matter how it is masked, veiled or argued.
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Post by DSDSquared on Apr 10, 2018 16:32:49 GMT
I mean that I can tell if another dude is attractive, I just do not want to see two dude making out. It turns me off a lot. Sorry to say it. I do not know why. It is just the way I am made. There is nothing wrong with it, it just does not do it for me. My wife gets disgusted by two women making out. She really does. She thinks it is straight up disgusting. Everyone is not bi. This seems to be a common belief among gay men especially. I don't understand the disgusting comment. Why would your wife find 2 women making out disgusting? It's just sex between 2 consenting adults. Is she implying then that homosexuality is disgusting perhaps. Quite frankly, I think that heterosexual sex is feeble in comparison to homosexual sex, be it gay or lesbian. The masculine and feminine are not so much perceived as an external aspect, but is more adjusted and balanced within. Guys who see other guys making out, are afraid of any stirring in their loins that it could provoke. That is my point and they are afraid that it might mean they are gay. This is the societal construct and conditioning I am talking about and that homophobia is still rampant in our society, no matter how it is masked, veiled or argued. That is just 100% false, no matter how you swing it. To assume that the only way people couldn't like same sex making out is that they must have some closet insecurities about their own sexuality is asinine.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 10, 2018 23:54:40 GMT
I don't understand the disgusting comment. Why would your wife find 2 women making out disgusting? It's just sex between 2 consenting adults. Is she implying then that homosexuality is disgusting perhaps. Quite frankly, I think that heterosexual sex is feeble in comparison to homosexual sex, be it gay or lesbian. The masculine and feminine are not so much perceived as an external aspect, but is more adjusted and balanced within. Guys who see other guys making out, are afraid of any stirring in their loins that it could provoke. That is my point and they are afraid that it might mean they are gay. This is the societal construct and conditioning I am talking about and that homophobia is still rampant in our society, no matter how it is masked, veiled or argued. That is just 100% false, no matter how you swing it. To assume that the only way people couldn't like same sex making out is that they must have some closet insecurities about their own sexuality is asinine. Perhaps that is the paradox then, due to fear and ignorance. Isn't that what phobias are about at the end of the day.
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Post by dirtypillows on Apr 13, 2018 10:25:59 GMT
I just don't like the overriding "Softness" of the female, either in her physical quality of her body or a certain kind of "Uncertainty". I like my kisses to be moderately forceful, come straight at me and to emit oodles of testosterone my way (because that's what happens during the intense french kissing sessions.)
Sex and aggression originate in the pituitary gland, and that kind of thing always makes me think about young male wrestlers. All those contorted grabbings, all those scrotums smashed up against the competitor's face, and all that musky, masculine smells, not to mention lots and lots of inevitable boners. It is at times like these, where the two guys would probably love nothing more than to claim an undying love (If it weren't for that macho need to always WIN) for the other and then just allow the session to end in a long, loving, sweet and truly felt big ole sloppy kiss, the likes of which would make Romeo and Juliet pea green with envy.
I know not all men are gay, or even bisexual, but for those who are, lucky, lucky them. No two people can express the anguish and terrible needs of physical companionship and affection and delayed expressions of violence than two men. And, really, they don't even have to be homosexual; however if they are wrestling around on the ground, then they have almost automatically claimed man love for themselves. Good for them!
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 14, 2018 9:11:05 GMT
I just don't like the overriding "Softness" of the female, either in her physical quality of her body or a certain kind of "Uncertainty". I like my kisses to be moderately forceful, come straight at me and to emit oodles of testosterone my way (because that's what happens during the intense french kissing sessions.) Sex and aggression originate in the pituitary gland, and that kind of thing always makes me think about young male wrestlers. All those contorted grabbings, all those scrotums smashed up against the competitor's face, and all that musky, masculine smells, not to mention lots and lots of inevitable boners. It is at times like these, where the two guys would probably love nothing more than to claim an undying love (If it weren't for that macho need to always WIN) for the other and then just allow the session to end in a long, loving, sweet and truly felt big ole sloppy kiss, the likes of which would make Romeo and Juliet pea green with envy. I know not all men are gay, or even bisexual, but for those who are, lucky, lucky them. No two people can express the anguish and terrible needs of physical companionship and affection and delayed expressions of violence than two men. And, really, they don't even have to be homosexual; however if they are wrestling around on the ground, then they have almost automatically claimed man love for themselves. Good for them! How much "straight" men miss out on. But then again, if it is softness that they want, then perhaps they are the pussies.
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Post by Primemovermithrax Pejorative on Apr 22, 2018 7:55:41 GMT
Josh O'Connor and Alec Seacareanu in GOD'S OWN COUNTRY-17' Susannah York and Coral Browne in THE KILLING OF SISTER GEORGE-68' Helen Shaver and Patricia Charbonneau in DESERT HEARTS-85' James Spader and Elias Koteas in CRASH-96' The dude who is infatuated with this other dude while in prison, in Todd Haynes POISON-91' Coral Browne? The 3rd(?) wife of Vincent Price? That Coral Browne??? Yikes.
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 22, 2018 9:13:29 GMT
Josh O'Connor and Alec Seacareanu in GOD'S OWN COUNTRY-17' Susannah York and Coral Browne in THE KILLING OF SISTER GEORGE-68' Helen Shaver and Patricia Charbonneau in DESERT HEARTS-85' James Spader and Elias Koteas in CRASH-96' The dude who is infatuated with this other dude while in prison, in Todd Haynes POISON-91' Coral Browne? The 3rd(?) wife of Vincent Price? That Coral Browne??? Yikes. It is filmed in a pernicious manner, making Browne appear quite sinister. The older woman, who has her own self-serving agenda and the passive villain of the piece, who gets what she wanted all along. It was also a very daring and even provocative scene and raised many eyebrows for it's time. Today, it is still a potent scene.
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Post by anthonyrocks on Apr 28, 2018 5:23:29 GMT
anybody else ?
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Post by geode on Jul 13, 2018 17:12:38 GMT
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