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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Apr 1, 2018 3:27:55 GMT
I'm not sure how many marriage proposals Ted Bundy got, but he was a serial killer of innocent woman (although he was obviously afraid of his girlfriend, which is a trait of pussy serial killers), but he was also a pedophile and necrophiliac, but that wouldn't dare try to make a male his victim, because again, he was a pussy. Yet some wonan married him at his last trial. When he started confessing to the murders, as any pussy would to stay alive, his wife was shocked. SHOCKED.
But please women, tell us what great judges of male personalaties you are again when advising other wonen.
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Post by dirtypillows on Apr 1, 2018 3:53:24 GMT
this is hilarious. dont call yourself sugarbiscuits says dirtypillows. thanks guys. i needed that. as far as what women like - who knows and more importantly: who cares. find out who you like, dont worry about what others may or may not like. but i would say that tough/hard guys are kinda going out of fashion. finally.  dirtypillows , is a card like you Nora. He is da bomb too!
Yes, who cares what others want. We can all spend too much time thinking about what others do or like or want, instead of focusing on our own lives. I would say though, there is nothing wrong with being tough or resilient, it's just becoming hard that can create personality\attitude problems.
And then the self-confidence falters and suffers. I think maybe the OP is getting those two things confused. Because hard and tough doesn't sound like all that much. Self-confidence (sans outright arrogance) is the quality that is really so attractive in men. If I were a card, TC, I would maybe want be the Jack of Diamonds. I don't have near the chutzpah to be the Queen of Spades, the most intriguing card out of the deck. |
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Post by Toasted Cheese on Apr 1, 2018 4:07:06 GMT
dirtypillows , is a card like you Nora. He is da bomb too!
Yes, who cares what others want. We can all spend too much time thinking about what others do or like or want, instead of focusing on our own lives. I would say though, there is nothing wrong with being tough or resilient, it's just becoming hard that can create personality\attitude problems.
And then the self-confidence falters and suffers. I think maybe the OP is getting those two things confused. Because hard and tough doesn't sound like all that much. Self-confidence (sans outright arrogance) is the quality that is really so attractive in men. If I were a card, TC, I would maybe want be the Jack of Diamonds. I don't have near the chutzpah to be the Queen of Spades, the most intriguing card out of the deck.Wouldn't you rather be the queen of  's Mr. Dirty. 
Yes, self-confidence and self-assuredness in knowing what one is doing, is a very appealing and inspiring quality in many males.
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Post by dirtypillows on Apr 1, 2018 4:12:14 GMT
And then the self-confidence falters and suffers. I think maybe the OP is getting those two things confused. Because hard and tough doesn't sound like all that much. Self-confidence (sans outright arrogance) is the quality that is really so attractive in men. If I were a card, TC, I would maybe want be the Jack of Diamonds. I don't have near the chutzpah to be the Queen of Spades, the most intriguing card out of the deck.Wouldn't you rather be the queen of 's Mr. Dirty.
Yes, self-confidence and self-assuredness in knowing what one is doing, is a very appealing and inspiring quality in many males.
I like the idea of being the "queen of hearts" and what that may imply. But I think the jack gets just as much "fun" time and can be more discreet to boot. Like the Queen of Clubs always seemed so frigid to me, so maybe Jack of Diamonds can visit the King of Clubs from time to time, and when word gets out to the other Kings, Jack could have his pickings right then and there. |
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Post by ghostintheshell on Apr 1, 2018 4:18:02 GMT
Just hang in there you'll find someone who likes you
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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 1, 2018 6:26:11 GMT
Just hang in there you'll find someone who likes you never!! women hate me they laugh at me
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Post by itsmagic on Apr 1, 2018 7:37:50 GMT
Just hang in there you'll find someone who likes you never!! women hate me they laugh at me
who treats you this way ? a few mean drunks ? you need to stay away from people like that. i know you are hurting. find another place to go where it's not such an abusive atmosphere. i bet some other girls were being nice to you somewhere |
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Post by someguy on Apr 1, 2018 7:46:33 GMT
Just hang in there you'll find someone who likes you never!! women hate me they laugh at me
My advice, take it or leave it, is to stop caring about attracting women. Don't just ACT like you don't care as a dishonest way of trying to attract them, but get yourself to a point where you TRULY don't care. Embrace solitude and life will be a lot better. I don't know you well enough to know if it worked for you, but it worked for me. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 1, 2018 10:45:29 GMT
this is obviously a joke lol
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Post by Nora on Apr 1, 2018 12:55:56 GMT
this is hilarious. dont call yourself sugarbiscuits says dirtypillows. thanks guys. i needed that. as far as what women like - who knows and more importantly: who cares. find out who you like, dont worry about what others may or may not like. but i would say that tough/hard guys are kinda going out of fashion. finally. dirtypillows , is a card like you Nora. He is da bomb too!
Yes, who cares what others want. We can all spend too much time thinking about what others do or like or want, instead of focusing on our own lives. I would say though, there is nothing wrong with being tough or resilient, it's just becoming hard that can create personality\attitude problems.
sure being resilient can be a good thing but i feel like every time a change occurs because others want it from you (or you think they do) it either doesn't last or its not done right (usually it goes too far or compensate for it elsewhere). whereas if it comes from your own desires its different (better, healthier, long lasting). now thats off my chest i can go back to eating less than 10 g of carbs a day because i wanna ride those beach ponies in the Bahamas! |
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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 1, 2018 16:03:30 GMT
never!! women hate me they laugh at me
who treats you this way ? a few mean drunks ? you need to stay away from people like that. i know you are hurting. find another place to go where it's not such an abusive atmosphere. i bet some other girls were being nice to you somewhere women have never had an interest in me. they don't like me. |
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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 1, 2018 16:04:38 GMT
this is obviously a joke lol I am a very boring person. |
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Post by itsmagic on Apr 1, 2018 17:07:01 GMT
who treats you this way ? a few mean drunks ? you need to stay away from people like that. i know you are hurting. find another place to go where it's not such an abusive atmosphere. i bet some other girls were being nice to you somewhere women have never had an interest in me. they don't like me. what is it you like to do ? hobbies or special interests. sports. reading. whatever gets you going. spend some time with that and seek others who share your interests. work on yourself a bit too. the local library reference desk can help you find the self help books in the 600's. learn about yourself and the things that have hurt you. it will help you understand yourself better. learn how to comfort yourself and heal your hurts. take care of yourself first. seek counseling if you are able |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 1, 2018 22:24:14 GMT
Let me give you some unsolicited advice. Confidence is key. It doesnt matter who you are or what you do, that is the most important characteristic in my opinion. 'Bad/tough/hard' guys have this. Thats why some women cant help and be attracted to them, also the fact that some have that criminal thing going for them, that they are willing to be abused. Although some girls obviously have daddy issues, a tough upbringing but thats another ball game. However for any woman, you need confidence and some kind of redeeming quality. They will fix the rest of you, a decent woman does this.
What do I mean by confidence? Well it is your general behaviour. Do you stand your ground when things get uncomfortable or confrontational? Do you bend over backwards for people (nice guys)? Are you just a follower? Are you nervous around girls? Girls want a strong (mentally) confident man just like us guys want a pretty, kind girl.
Finally, girls will always test you. They arent stupid when they want a confident man. will always test you, they just will never admit it in that great game between him and her. Stay frosty ;-)
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Post by brownstones on Apr 1, 2018 22:29:16 GMT
I wouldn't necessarily say that, women like confidence (everyone kind of does) however it's the hard tough men who are able to display that confidence physically which in turns garners them more positive attention which boosts their confidence....while meeker people might have to work a bit harder to gather that same or similar immediately attention, meaning this confidence might have to come internally.
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