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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 18:10:41 GMT
Or is it more simplistic in the movies?
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Post by teleadm on Aug 3, 2018 18:14:45 GMT
No !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
After Happy endings! LOL
Then starts the battle of wills!!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 18:28:22 GMT
No, I see few things in the movies that seem like an accurate representation of love.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 21:06:19 GMT
No
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Post by amyghost on Aug 3, 2018 22:13:45 GMT
Or is it more simplistic in the movies? It's way more complicated than in the movies...and one reason relationships seem to be dissolving quicker these days just might be because people are so soaked in entertainment-culture fantasy that they actually expect it to be as simplistic as movies depict it.
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Post by Harmless elf on Aug 3, 2018 22:32:34 GMT
Or is it more simplistic in the movies? It's way more complicated than in the movies...and one reason relationships seem to be dissolving quicker these days just might be because people are so soaked in entertainment-culture fantasy that they actually expect it to be as simplistic as movies depict it. Really? I think movies make it more complicated than real life. I've never had to run to an airport to stop the love of my life from leaving. what's Up with romantic movies obsession with airports and airplanes at the end of movies anyway?
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Aug 3, 2018 22:39:18 GMT
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 22:39:37 GMT
Yea, pretty mindless. Lol.
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Post by Sulla on Aug 3, 2018 22:39:50 GMT
Movies only depict a pale imitation of love. It's form without substance.
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Post by Doghouse6 on Aug 3, 2018 23:05:24 GMT
I'd go as far as to say that nothing is much like it's depicted in movies, from big business, police work, espionage or science, right down to the most mundane matters of finding a parking place or getting served in a restaurant.
When it comes to love and romance, like some of those other things, a great deal of dramatic telescoping becomes necessary, unless you want to watch films that are days, weeks or months long. So if Ingrid Bergman and Cary Grant are in love after only ten minutes of screen time, the seeming simplicity is merely an effect of that telescoping, and comprises maybe only a tenth of a film's running time, so the other 90% can concentrate on whatever complications play out to make their relationship interesting. Like the old cliche: boy meets girl; boy loses girl; boy wins girl back.
Alfred Hitchcock summed it all up pretty well: "Movies are like life with the dull bits cut out."
In screwball comedies or rom-coms, however, those complications have just the opposite effect. The misunderstandings in most of those films could be circumvented if the couple involved would just sit down for five minutes and talk sensibly and honestly to each other...but then, where's your movie? The whole point of films like that is to complicate things that can be simple in real life.
In the end, not many people would pay money to see movies that are just like real life.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Aug 3, 2018 23:18:29 GMT
I'd go as far as to say that nothing is much like it's depicted in movies, from big business, police work, espionage or science, right down to the most mundane matters of finding a parking place or getting served in a restaurant. When it comes to love and romance, like some of those other things, a great deal of dramatic telescoping becomes necessary, unless you want to watch films that are days, weeks or months long. So if Ingrid Bergman and Cary Grant are in love after only ten minutes of screen time, the seeming simplicity is merely an effect of that telescoping, and comprises maybe only a tenth of a film's running time, so the other 90% can concentrate on whatever complications play out to make their relationship interesting. Like the old cliche: boy meets girl; boy loses girl; boy wins girl back. Alfred Hitchcock summed it all up pretty well: "Movies are like life with the dull bits cut out." In screwball comedies or rom-coms, however, those complications have just the opposite effect. The misunderstandings in most of those films could be circumvented if the couple involved would just sit down for five minutes and talk sensibly and honestly to each other...but then, where's your movie? The whole point of films like that is to complicate things that can be simple in real life. In the end, not many people would pay money to see movies that are just like real life. In the end, some people like to see movies they can relate to. When I saw the original Heartbreak Kid, myself and several of my friends said 'That's my story'.
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Post by Doghouse6 on Aug 3, 2018 23:51:25 GMT
In the end, some people like to see movies they can relate to. When I saw the original Heartbreak Kid, myself and several of my friends said 'That's my story'. The Heartbreak Kid is a film that, in its time, anyway, came from no established mold, courtesy of the askance comic sensibilities of the unique Elaine May and uncharacteristic envelope-pushing of screenwriter Neil Simon, who normally lightened recognizable human dilemmas with wisecracks. As much as it touches on frustrations and yearnings that anyone, as you say, "can relate to," it's daring in providing access to those feelings by way of a helplessly fixated yet oddly charming swine.
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Post by ant-mac on Aug 4, 2018 0:39:43 GMT
Very, very rarely. Once or twice I've glimpsed it, or a vague semblance of it, in a TV series.
Those rare images of love have haunted me almost as much as the rarely glimpsed images from my own love life.
And somehow, those images of fictional love were far more satisfying than the real ones in my memory.
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Post by bondfan90 on Aug 4, 2018 0:48:24 GMT
Movies make it easier for disabled characters to find love. But the catch is that the disabled person has to be handsome or beautiful. IRL because of the stigma and stereotypes surrounding disabled people and dating, it's harder and it doesn't matter if the disabled person is attractive. Not saying disabled people can't have relationships, just that it takes longer.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Aug 4, 2018 5:03:35 GMT
In the end, some people like to see movies they can relate to. When I saw the original Heartbreak Kid, myself and several of my friends said 'That's my story'. The Heartbreak Kid is a film that, in its time, anyway, came from no established mold, courtesy of the askance comic sensibilities of the unique Elaine May and uncharacteristic envelope-pushing of screenwriter Neil Simon, who normally lightened recognizable human dilemmas with wisecracks. As much as it touches on frustrations and yearnings that anyone, as you say, "can relate to," it's daring in providing access to those feelings by way of a helplessly fixated yet oddly charming swine. I didn't put much thought into it. I just watched the movie
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Post by Roberto on Aug 4, 2018 11:36:00 GMT
Don't know.
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Post by amyghost on Aug 4, 2018 11:38:14 GMT
It's way more complicated than in the movies...and one reason relationships seem to be dissolving quicker these days just might be because people are so soaked in entertainment-culture fantasy that they actually expect it to be as simplistic as movies depict it. Really? I think movies make it more complicated than real life. I've never had to run to an airport to stop the love of my life from leaving. what's Up with romantic movies obsession with airports and airplanes at the end of movies anyway? They'll add those sorts of complications for comedic or suspense value; but the actual human processes of love between two people are pretty much grossly simplified in film as a rule. I'm with you on that particular storytelling trope--how many years has this been used? Practically since commercial air travel became an everyday reality...that's a whole thread topic itself, naming all the films you can think of where the climax is somebody racing to/through the airport because the love of their life is about to fly off and leave them forever.
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