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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2019 7:25:41 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2019 7:30:04 GMT
It would have been nice to have had the choice to save ourselves before marriage but little Johnny Howard and his bible bashing stooges stopped many of us from having a choice in that decision for a long time in Australia so we sinned and damn we liked it so much we sinned again. My Mum and Dad told me I would go to hell and hell’s never felt so good. Yes. It would have been and we wouldn't have had to go to another country to get married either and not have our marriage acknowledged here for so long but things have finally changed here now and we have the same rights as heterosexual people do and best of all, younger LGBT couples won't ever be told they can't marry the person they love 'cause they are the same gender.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2019 7:36:29 GMT
You are well and truly intune and connected with females and more so than any straight guy could be, because they are not in feminine form.
Like you have commented, you didn't mind having sex with your males exes, because it was in fun and nice to be desired. You also liked the way they looked at you, which is their own longing for something feminine that is innate within them, but unlike gay or bi guys, they are not as in tune with their feminine side as an internal and it becomes about the external aspects of femininity.
Sex is the main draw card for male to female relationships, not the 'emotional' connection, that only a female would understand. Take sex out of the equation, and most guys wouldn't give most girls the time of day, unless they had to interact with them on a professional or recreational level just because they are there.
Yes. I am which made it impossible for me to fight my attraction when I was young. I spent a lot of my childhood feeling ashamed of myself and like there was something wrong with me 'cause of the way my Father used to talk about homosexuals and I was afraid somebody would find out about it and my parents would do something to me or send me to a psychiatrist. From the day I met Beccy she was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and as we got closer my feelings grew stronger for her and I knew I was in love with her and I tried to fight it and not think about it but a part of me knew deep down I couldn't. We were really close when we were kids and looking back I should have known there was something more between us 'cause we were closer than most best friends were and we were always cuddling and wrestling each other. I got bullied in Primary School by other girls 'cause I was ahead in the classes and Beccy was very protective of me and she beat up a girl once 'cause she pushed me on the ground a few times when I was standing up to her for bullying one of my friends and we never talked about guys and when we discussed our future we were always together but I was afraid to tell her how I felt too 'cause I was worried she would think I was a freak and wouldn't talk to me anymore.
Sometimes when Beccy would sleep over I would pretend I was scared of something like a storm or a movie we watched and she would hold me until I went to sleep and it was the closest thing to a relationship I thought we would get to have and I would dream of kissing her and telling her how I felt and I would wake up next to her and cry 'cause I didn't think we could ever be together and I loved her so much. Having my parents abandon me was hard and I was lucky I had my older sister who took me in and provided for me and she knew I was in love with Beccy and she told me there was nothing wrong with me and it was normal but she didn't think our parents would understand and some part of me was hoping they would 'cause they were my Mum and Dad but they didn't and I never talked to them again after that and I don't regret it. I hated them for a long time (I don't feel anything for them anymore) but I hated Beccy's parents even more for stopping us from seeing each other 'cause they thought there was something going on between us which there wasn't really at the time and I was a mess after that and it was lucky my Sister was there 'cause it was too much to handle and I didn't want to live anymore.
I would spend a lot of time crying and keeping to myself and I pushed a lot of my other friends away for a while and I realised I could keep doing that or I could try to move on with my life. Drinking, partying and having sex with guys was an escape from me and it was everything I knew my parents wouldn't have wanted me to do and I felt sexy, strong and desired but I never stopped loving Beccy and I would think about her every day and right before her parents stopped us from being together we were playing around and she nearly kissed me and I thought about that all the time and it was one of the things that made me not give up on us. I was worried she would get married to some guy and have kids like her parents wanted her to but unlike me Beccy had no attraction for guys at all and she dated some for cover including one of her gay male friends. A part of me thought I would never see her again but another part told me to not give up and when I was with my ex it felt wrong 'cause I was still in love with Beccy and he was in love with me and he was a good guy and I cared about him but I couldn't love him the way he wanted me to or give him the life together he wanted us to have so I broke up with him and it wasn't much longer after that I found Beccy and it was like we had never been apart. When Beccy and I finally got together we jumped in head first into our relationship and we didn't put on any breaks and when she told me how she felt and she kissed me I was hers.
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Post by ck100 on Feb 26, 2019 20:20:34 GMT
Regardless of how this thread ended up, it got people talking.
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Post by moviemouth on Feb 15, 2024 4:38:00 GMT
I will only ever have pre-marital sex, because I have no desire to get married and I love sex.
You just have to be careful. That is if you are someone who enjoys multiple sex partners. If you aren't married, but you are your partner are close and respect each other, but just don't desire marriage than you will be as safe as a faithful married couple.
I am of course an atheist, but regardless of where the idea of marriage comes from I do understand the purpose from a secular societal standpoint.
Coincidentally I just got done reading the Sermon on the Mount.
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Post by jimmyboy on Feb 25, 2024 21:12:09 GMT
How do you feel about it? Are you someone who has, or wants, to wait until marriage for sex? Or are you someone who would have no problem with having pre-marital sex? We need more PMS on this board!!! What would people do if the Loving case in the 60's had not passed? Or the ruling on gay marriage? Marriage is being pushed by the wayside anyways.
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Post by James on Feb 28, 2024 17:27:40 GMT
Perfectly fine and normal thing to do. Some people choose to have post-marital sex only for their own beliefs, which is fine too, just as long as they don't push that onto others. Though I doubt some of them even fully commit to that themselves, like with other rules in religion.
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