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Post by Deleted on Mar 18, 2019 7:17:10 GMT
Yes. I have dated and slept with guys in the past but I wouldn't go back to dating men now if I ever broke up with my Wifey 'cause I know I am a Lesbian and being with men never really felt right to me. I still get hit on by guys occasionally and I had a young boy who was around 8-10 years old call me an angel and tell me how beautiful I am and one of my younger cousins used to have a crush on me which was kinda odd. I don't get offended by it as long as they don't continue after I tell them I am a Lesbian and think I am some challenge to 'convert' like some morons do. What annoys me is when my Wife has guys hitting on her when we are out together at public places like restaurants or movie theatres and they think we are friends or worst of all, Sisters which is just silly since we look nothing alike and she has red hair and freckles and I am blonde. To be fair....I know two sisters irl that look drastically different physically. One has red hair and freckles and the other is a jet black brunette. You make a good point but when we are out places holding hands and being affectionate with each other it still happens from time to time and it is like we need to be all over each other for them to get the message but even then that probably wouldn't make any difference 'cause we have some bogans here that think being a lesbian means you are open to having threesomes with them and get angry when we turn them down.
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Post by moviemouth on Mar 18, 2019 7:27:14 GMT
Still doesn’t mean most straight men want to beat the crap out of the gay guy though. But more often than not, they would feel more threatened and uncomfortable by a guy flirting with them, than a gal. That is the mindset of homophobia. Is there heterophobia from a straight guy towards a girl flirting with them?
Straight girls may feel the same way about another chick hitting on them. They may not want to smack them out—unless they think they are a bitch and hate them—but they may feel uncomfortable nonetheless. Bottom line, homosexuality makes one feel uncomfortable, if they identify as hetero. That is an interesting thing to think about. I would be slightly uncomfortable by a gay guy hitting on me and I am not quite sure why. I am not afraid of homosexuals or homosexuality. I think it is because it feels like they are purposely trying to make me uncomfortable because why would a gay man hit on a man anywhere who doesn't give off the impression that he is gay. I am talking about gay guys who hit on men who they know are straight. What is the point besides an attempt to purposely make them uncomfortable. It is like if I went to a lesbian bar and started hitting on the woman there. If I was in a gay bar for some reason and a guy hit on me than that would make sense, or if I was a flamboyant straight man then that would also make sense. Or are they just crap-shooting? Hoping that some random guy they hit on is by chance gay. Then again I get uncomfortable when anyone I am not interested in hits on me, like a woman I don't find even slightly attractive for example.
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Post by moviemouth on Mar 18, 2019 12:15:31 GMT
That is an interesting thing to think about. I would be slightly uncomfortable by a gay guy hitting on me and I am not quite sure why. I am not afraid of homosexuals or homosexuality. I think it is because it feels like they are purposely trying to make me uncomfortable because why would a gay man hit on a man anywhere who doesn't give off the impression that he is gay. I am talking about gay guys who hit on men who they know are straight. What is the point besides an attempt to purposely make them uncomfortable. It is like if I went to a lesbian bar and started hitting on the woman there.
If I was in a gay bar for some reason and a guy hit on me than that would make sense, or if I was a flamboyant straight man then that would also make sense. Or are they just crap-shooting? Hoping that some random guy they hit on is by chance gay.Then again I get uncomfortable when anyone I am not interested in hits on me, like a woman I don't find even slightly attractive for example. That is a logical way to look at it, but sometimes, how would you know? Not every homosexual dude looks gay and there would be more bisexual guys out there than we would know about. Not everyone is going to announce it. Some would opt the hetero route for convenience and it does make it easier. I guess it is just taking a punt. It is either rejection, or embracement and if the wrong guy is hit on, perhaps a black eye.
A gay guy just has to be tactful and shrewd and use his brains. Guys, especially in a bar and when drinking, can get chummy touchy feely as well. This can be a signal that is misconstrued too. Bottom line is, don't touch or act all buddy buddy, gay or straight, unless you know that person well enough. This has gotten Kevin Spacey into some hot water recently.
Thanks for the reply.
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