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Post by msdemos on Mar 9, 2019 20:46:05 GMT
.........were "swingers"? This week on a Chicago radio station, one of the DJ's was interviewing a woman who admitted to being a swinger (along with her husband). When the DJ found out that the two of them had kids, he asked how they were able to indulge in their "hobby" if the kids were always around. She explained that they did this on their 'date nights', when the grandparents would have the kids over at their house for a sleepover. Interestingly, he also asked her if any of their (the swinger's) parents knew about the husband and wife's "hobby", and she said they did not. Which got me to thinking about their (the swinger's) kids.......while the husband and wife obviously have a right to do what they want in their private lives, I wondered what their kids would think of their mom and dad, if later in life (or after they died) they happened to find out about what their parents were doing when they were kids. If these people happened to be your parents, and later in life you found out about it, would you think any less of them ??  SAVE FERRIS
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Post by ant-mac on Mar 9, 2019 21:07:59 GMT
No, not at all. In any case, who says that would be the worst thing my parents had ever done?  |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Mar 9, 2019 22:01:46 GMT
I would feel differently about them, but I wouldn't condemn them.
Also, I's try to find out the time frame of their swinging, as to know whether I should question who my biological father is.
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Post by mrellaguru on Mar 10, 2019 1:21:54 GMT
I would be astonished.
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Post by kls on Mar 10, 2019 1:26:19 GMT
If I found that out I'd hope that would mean there's a chance that my father isn't my bio father.
In all seriousness if a couple is cool with that that's up to them (though I could never go for that.)
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Post by mslo79 on Mar 10, 2019 4:36:49 GMT
It's lowers the people involved since it's a sin to do such things.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 10, 2019 4:56:35 GMT
No because it would have been one of the least surprising things they've done.
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Post by Roberto on Mar 10, 2019 6:48:22 GMT
Not that I think too much of them now, but of course I would. Who would be okay with finding out your parents were sluts around the time of your birth?
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Post by The Herald Erjen on Mar 10, 2019 7:16:32 GMT
We all fall short. I'd be surprised, but it wouldn't change how I feel about them.
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Post by deembastille on Mar 10, 2019 7:29:56 GMT
Hell yes! Because they spent my entire life (mom at least) being so hoity toity about that crap.
Meanwhile, it would let me know to do what I wanted.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 10, 2019 15:15:36 GMT
Hell yes! Because they spent my entire life (mom at least) being so hoity toity about that crap. Meanwhile, it would let me know to do what I wanted. If you’re an adult you should already be doing what you want. |
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Post by kls on Mar 10, 2019 15:17:51 GMT
Hell yes! Because they spent my entire life (mom at least) being so hoity toity about that crap. Meanwhile, it would let me know to do what I wanted. If you’re an adult you should already be doing what you want. No limits to that?
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 10, 2019 15:35:18 GMT
If you’re an adult you should already be doing what you want. No limits to that? No, why would there be? |
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Post by kls on Mar 10, 2019 15:37:41 GMT
What if what I wanted to do was a mass killing?
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 10, 2019 15:41:58 GMT
What if what I wanted to do was a mass killing? Then do it just be prepared to deal with the consequences. So again, why would there be limits? |
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Post by kls on Mar 10, 2019 15:47:17 GMT
What if what I wanted to do was a mass killing? Then do it just be prepared to deal with the consequences. So again, why would there be limits? Limits in terms of what society will accept is what I was thinking of.
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Mar 10, 2019 15:53:34 GMT
Then do it just be prepared to deal with the consequences. So again, why would there be limits? Limits in terms of what society will accept is what I was thinking of. We have systems in place to deal with unacceptable behavior from shunning to prison but a person is still free to do what they want. |
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Post by theauxphou on Mar 10, 2019 16:06:36 GMT
I’d act disgusted otherwise if I show any sign of acceptance they’ll think I wanna join in.
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Post by louise on Mar 10, 2019 16:17:19 GMT
No. I would be rather surprised, but it wouldn't make any difference to how I felt about them. Can't really visualise it though. My mother in particular was an extremely volatile woman and apt to fly off the handle very easily, and I have always imagined swingers to be very laid back types. 'Laid back' is not something you could ever say about my mother.
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