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Post by mstreepsucks on May 25, 2019 0:25:13 GMT
If youa female and you hit another female, that's bad. If your a guy and you hit another guy, that's bad. Unless he's your brother. just kidding.
And it's not even ok if you're a female and you hit some guy. Because then he will do the same thing in self defense, and then go to jail, and that's not fair. I mean, heck it's not ok the other way around.: It's not really ok, if a guy hits a female cuz...then she will do the same thing to U and not go to jail.
So to avoid how unfair it is, just don't do it.
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Post by kls on May 25, 2019 0:26:53 GMT
I agree. Never raised a hand to anyone or been hit.
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Post by petrolino on May 25, 2019 0:29:33 GMT
Walk away.
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Post by mstreepsucks on May 25, 2019 0:33:20 GMT
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Post by Ass_E9 on May 25, 2019 0:58:14 GMT
Unless someone asks you to, like Britney Spears.
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Post by gw on May 25, 2019 1:10:31 GMT
Unless someone asks you to, like Britney Spears. I realize that it's just a joke, but for those who don't know, hit means like "Hit me up on your phone." and not literally hit somebody. It was a Swedish sort of phrase from the songwriter Max Martin.
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Post by Catman on May 25, 2019 1:11:56 GMT
Unfortunately, people suffering from dementia often lash out at their caregivers.
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Post by mslo79 on May 26, 2019 14:54:48 GMT
Some people are a little too quick for physical confrontations and those types are generally bad people and are better off being avoided. but at the same time... if someone starts hitting you, it's pretty much self defense to fight back at that point (especially if you did pretty much nothing to provoke that person). but obviously don't start hitting someone first as to do that someone has to really screw up otherwise the one who started the hitting is the villain. because it seems like some people who turn to violence fairly quickly if someone talks a little crap about them, and while the person who talked crap should not be doing that, for the person to flip out and start going off with hitting the person who talked crap likely has anger issues and is probably a so-so person at best. Agreed. but it seems to be just the way things are for the most part since society views guys as strong and females not so they don't take it nearly as seriously by default. but if a guy hits a female, everyone frowns on that very quickly (although for obvious reasons due to the average male vs average females strength difference).
but another thing... say a female starts hitting a male, just in my personal opinion the male won't be as likely to go off unless the females hits hurt quite a bit. because if the hits are more annoying than anything, chances are the male could get out of the situation or shut her down etc. but if those hits start to reach a certain pain threshold, I think it's natural for the male to become much more likely to hit back a lot sooner especially if he can't defuse the situation fairly quick etc.
but with that said... I would not be involved with someone who gets physical like that as it would be a red flag. because while no one is perfect, certain types of people tend to cross that line where they are not civil enough in general to where I would rather not be around them in general. Catman True, but I think what the OP is talking about is more of a normal person type situation.
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Post by Feologild Oakes on May 26, 2019 14:58:36 GMT
I would say its ok in self defense
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Post by politicidal on May 28, 2019 0:03:42 GMT
If you insist.
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Post by someguy on May 29, 2019 18:50:08 GMT
I'm all for spanking if it's in the bedroom of consenting adults.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on May 29, 2019 18:59:47 GMT
If youa female and you hit another female, that's bad. If your a guy and you hit another guy, that's bad. Unless he's your brother. just kidding.
And it's not even ok if you're a female and you hit some guy. Because then he will do the same thing in self defense, and then go to jail, and that's not fair. I mean, heck it's not ok the other way around.: It's not really ok, if a guy hits a female cuz...then she will do the same thing to U and not go to jail.
So to avoid how unfair it is, just don't do it. Agreed 100%.
Except for one small addendum... I wouldn't like it if a woman hit me, of course. But even if she did, I wouldn't hit her back. I know it sounds cliché but I wasn't raised that way. Also, its exactly as you said, if a man hits a woman the cops are going to arrest HIM no matter how much it was the woman who started it. There's just no way around that.
Some men can do more damage to a woman than she could do to him by hitting him ten times. Its just a matter of fact that men are physically stronger. I wouldn't want to be they guy trying in vain to explain his way out of that situation.
So guys, if a woman hits you, get the hell out of there! Remove yourself from the scenario asap. No matter what you will lose. Best to get away from the situation.
And if you're a lady how likes to hit... chill the fuck out with that. You're looking for trouble. One day you're gonna meet a guy who's not gonna give a fuck.
Bottom line: Don't hit. You cross the line when you do that.
That's why I go to the movies. To see people hit each other on screen! LOL!
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Post by bd74 on May 29, 2019 19:28:43 GMT
I used think it was tacky and low-class for people to get in a fight in public. But I came to realize that often times, people are just DEFENDING THEMSELVES when they get in a fight. If someone hits you, you're not gonna just stand there and take it. You're gonna wanna hit back.
As a matter of fact, I don't really see an issue with someone being the one to throw the first hit if the other person provoked them. Sometimes people like to badmouth other people assuming that no consequence will arise from that. When I was younger, there were situations where someone said something bad to me and I simply "let it go". But by letting it go, all it did was to leave me with anger inside. Now that I'm older, my personality has changed a bit, and I don't know how I would react if I were to encounter that type of situation again. I don't think I would just let it go.
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Post by amyghost on May 29, 2019 19:31:57 GMT
I just saw an episode of Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood that had exactly that as it's moral lesson (It's Not Okay To Hurt Someone); unfortunately, it left me with the desire to hit most of the animated cast.
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Post by someguy on May 29, 2019 19:36:58 GMT
I used think it was tacky and low-class for people to get in a fight in public. But I came to realize that often times, people are just DEFENDING THEMSELVES when they get in a fight. If someone hits you, you're not gonna just stand there and take it. You're gonna wanna hit back. As a matter of fact, I don't really see an issue with someone being the one to throw the first hit if the other person provoked them. Sometimes people like to badmouth other people assuming that no consequence will arise from that. When I was younger, there were situations where someone said something bad to me and I simply "let it go". But by letting it go, all it did was to leave me with anger inside. Now that I'm older, my personality has changed a bit, and I don't know how I would react if I were to encounter that type of situation again. I don't think I would just let it go. In most cases, I think letting it go is the best option. It doesn't leave me with anger inside because I don't let it bother me. |
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Post by mstreepsucks on May 30, 2019 0:50:16 GMT
If youa female and you hit another female, that's bad. If your a guy and you hit another guy, that's bad. Unless he's your brother. just kidding.
And it's not even ok if you're a female and you hit some guy. Because then he will do the same thing in self defense, and then go to jail, and that's not fair. I mean, heck it's not ok the other way around.: It's not really ok, if a guy hits a female cuz...then she will do the same thing to U and not go to jail.
So to avoid how unfair it is, just don't do it. Agreed 100%.
Except for one small addendum... I wouldn't like it if a woman hit me, of course. But even if she did, I wouldn't hit her back. I know it sounds cliché but I wasn't raised that way. Also, its exactly as you said, if a man hits a woman the cops are going to arrest HIM no matter how much it was the woman who started it. There's just no way around that.
Some men can do more damage to a woman than she could do to him by hitting him ten times. Its just a matter of fact that men are physically stronger. I wouldn't want to be they guy trying in vain to explain his way out of that situation.
So guys, if a woman hits you, get the hell out of there! Remove yourself from the scenario asap. No matter what you will lose. Best to get away from the situation.
And if you're a lady how likes to hit... chill the fuck out with that. You're looking for trouble. One day you're gonna meet a guy who's not gonna give a fuck.
Bottom line: Don't hit. You cross the line when you do that.
That's why I go to the movies. To see people hit each other on screen! LOL!
It's ok to hit people in certain situations, theoretically. That goes for either gender.
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Post by ant-mac on May 30, 2019 11:32:07 GMT
Unfortunately, people suffering from dementia often lash out at their caregivers. My mum was like that, but thankfully she just lashed out verbally. She became a completely different person to what she'd been like. Almost a total stranger.
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Post by amyghost on May 30, 2019 12:24:35 GMT
I just saw an episode of Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood that had exactly that as it's moral lesson (It's Not Okay To Hurt Someone); unfortunately, it left me with the desire to hit most of the animated cast.Now, what would Thumper's mother have to say about that?  You mean his mother Thwack? 
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Post by kuatorises on May 30, 2019 14:08:12 GMT
"Just don't do it" isn't reality.You're allowed to defend yourself. You're allowed to (attempt to ) take down someone with a weapon who is threatening others. No violent situation is de-escalated by caving into the attackers.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on May 30, 2019 16:53:02 GMT
Agreed 100%.
Except for one small addendum... I wouldn't like it if a woman hit me, of course. But even if she did, I wouldn't hit her back. I know it sounds cliché but I wasn't raised that way. Also, its exactly as you said, if a man hits a woman the cops are going to arrest HIM no matter how much it was the woman who started it. There's just no way around that.
Some men can do more damage to a woman than she could do to him by hitting him ten times. Its just a matter of fact that men are physically stronger. I wouldn't want to be they guy trying in vain to explain his way out of that situation.
So guys, if a woman hits you, get the hell out of there! Remove yourself from the scenario asap. No matter what you will lose. Best to get away from the situation.
And if you're a lady how likes to hit... chill the fuck out with that. You're looking for trouble. One day you're gonna meet a guy who's not gonna give a fuck.
Bottom line: Don't hit. You cross the line when you do that.
That's why I go to the movies. To see people hit each other on screen! LOL!
It's ok to hit people in certain situations, theoretically. That goes for either gender. A) only in self defense and B) if a woman hit me, I still wouldn't hit her back for the above mentioned reasons. But that's just me.
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