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Post by hi224 on Jun 3, 2020 14:04:09 GMT
I am right now.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2020 14:23:23 GMT
yes
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Post by Nora on Jun 3, 2020 14:27:48 GMT
of course. i think everybody has. in my case it happened several times.
sometimes it was because the person didnt like my looks or my personality or because i was the wrong gender and once because he wouldnt date white.
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Post by Stammerhead on Jun 3, 2020 14:31:46 GMT
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Post by Feologild Oakes on Jun 3, 2020 14:49:03 GMT
Yes from when i was 13 to 16, i am now almost 37 and i have not been in love since than.
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Post by ck100 on Jun 3, 2020 15:50:32 GMT
It feels like it especially happens with a lot of dating sites. You make contact with an ideal person who is so far away.
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Post by politicidal on Jun 3, 2020 16:16:12 GMT
Yeah, that's life.
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Post by Nora on Jun 3, 2020 16:38:59 GMT
exactly. I have yet to meet a person who never fell for someone they didnt end up being with. i would even say its a healthy part of life. |
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Post by enigma72 on Jun 3, 2020 17:29:08 GMT
Probably.
Maybe a friend's husband?
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Post by Jayman on Jun 3, 2020 17:29:59 GMT
exactly. I have yet to meet a person who never fell for someone they didnt end up being with. i would even say its a healthy part of life. It also can be unhealthy |
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Post by Nora on Jun 3, 2020 18:13:17 GMT
exactly. I have yet to meet a person who never fell for someone they didnt end up being with. i would even say its a healthy part of life. It also can be unhealthy sure, but then again, almost anything can, if in excess or unamanged or just unfortunate coincidence. I mean more like that if a person never experienced it. Of course if its All they experience or they have a personality that will then obsess about it, or will have unmanaged underlying conditions etc etc it can be bad, sure. But then again, almost anything can. Including love. |
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Post by Joanna on Jun 3, 2020 18:17:46 GMT
Yes, you always want what you can't have.
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Post by Jayman on Jun 3, 2020 18:49:55 GMT
sure, but then again, almost anything can, if in excess or unamanged or just unfortunate coincidence. I mean more like that if a person never experienced it. Of course if its All they experience or they have a personality that will then obsess about it, or will have unmanaged underlying conditions etc etc it can be bad, sure. But then again, almost anything can. Including love. Yeah, kinda like the pizza I plan on having tonight. I plan on being really unhealthy later on. I have a friend that used to always do that. Obsess about girls that had boyfriends and try to be their friend in the hopes that maybe some day something could happen. It never happened. |
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Post by clayton12 on Jun 4, 2020 13:57:36 GMT
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Post by Sandman on Jun 4, 2020 17:22:39 GMT
I was pretty lucky in school. If I saw a girl I wanted to be with it usually happened. But there was this one girl in school I thought was as hot as a girl could get. Got to know her but as hard as I tried she would not go out with me.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 4, 2020 17:49:54 GMT
Yes, of course. For me it wasn't a matter of them being married or anything but the distance that separated us.
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Post by someguy on Jun 7, 2020 11:16:04 GMT
All the time when in high school. Luckily, I haven't fallen for anybody, whether I could be with them or not, in over a dozen years.
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Post by Nora on Jun 7, 2020 15:47:05 GMT
All the time when in high school. Luckily, I haven't fallen for anybody, whether I could be with them or not, in over a dozen years. why do you consider that lucky, if I may ask? and HOW do you do that, have you not met anyone inspiring in over a dozen years or do you just somehow self regulate/ remove from such people? |
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Post by someguy on Jun 7, 2020 15:51:41 GMT
I force myself not to feel attraction, and it is lucky because it saves me endless headaches, mind games, and rejection.
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Post by Nora on Jun 7, 2020 16:10:44 GMT
I force myself not to feel attraction, and it is lucky because it saves me endless headaches, mind games, and rejection. but there is also so much goodness that could come out of it. how about you allow yourself feel something every other year or so?  the chances to get the good stuff are MUCH higher than to get the bad stuff in long term. |
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