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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2020 18:14:02 GMT
or "typical Canadians" or whatever because of their refusal to fund any education of mine that's not math-related. I suck at math. I haven't enrolled in school in the past 5 years, have been working very stably in supermarkets for the past 3 years, and am planning to return to university to finish the linguistics degree I had to abandon when I was 19 due to lack of funds and ineligibility for loans. I've got savings now and a backup plan to take out loans and grants.
AFAIK, my divorced parents do have money invested in various real estate properties. My dad had 2 kids with his new wife after I left home at 18 so he could start over from the disappointment I brought him.
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Post by autumn on Aug 3, 2020 19:11:01 GMT
When my parents separated and remarried, my father's new wife told me, in front of him and to my face, "He has a NEW family now!" and my father never corrected her, never had my back, and never stepped up for me. He brought his "new son" (from his new wife's previous marriage) into the family business.
You're not alone. I think many parents have ideas and expectations of their kids. Not to excuse what they do but I think most of the time it's motivated by them being so determined that they don't want their kids to have as hard of a life as they themselves had, so as difficult and confusing as this sounds, it's not really personal in that way. It's a reflection on them and their inadequacies.
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