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Post by Jillian on May 20, 2017 5:59:35 GMT
Moving away from that place is an excellent idea, but some of us have no choice but to put up with their shit every day so pretending that they don't exist won't do you any good when they start pushing you around and throwing things until you acknowledge their presence. Also, Confronting bullies doesn't end "well" for either of you, isn't it easier if you just laugh with them laughing at you rather than exchanging insults? They'll soon grow tired of mocking you because every bully expects their victim to breakdown and run away crying but when you do the exact opposite, they won't know what to do and ultimately, they'll be ones who feel bullied. At first, the fear of even talking to your bullies is crippling, but if you manage to get past the initial fear and take the plunge, you won't have to be afraid of them anymore. But remind yourself that, despite their constant bullying, you are still a better person than those goons and you're just being nice to them when no one else did. I hear/get you to a certain extent and it does make it harder if you are stuck and can't leave. Why can't You just get out of there and leave them behind? A school? Work? Or is it a place one can't leave? Prison? A sibling? Some sort of a facility?
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Post by ghostintheshell on May 20, 2017 12:24:57 GMT
Moving away from that place is an excellent idea, but some of us have no choice but to put up with their shit every day so pretending that they don't exist won't do you any good when they start pushing you around and throwing things until you acknowledge their presence. Also, Confronting bullies doesn't end "well" for either of you, isn't it easier if you just laugh with them laughing at you rather than exchanging insults? They'll soon grow tired of mocking you because every bully expects their victim to breakdown and run away crying but when you do the exact opposite, they won't know what to do and ultimately, they'll be ones who feel bullied. At first, the fear of even talking to your bullies is crippling, but if you manage to get past the initial fear and take the plunge, you won't have to be afraid of them anymore. But remind yourself that, despite their constant bullying, you are still a better person than those goons and you're just being nice to them when no one else did. I hear/get you to a certain extent and it does make it harder if you are stuck and can't leave. Why can't You just get out of there and leave them behind? A school? Work? Or is it a place one can't leave? Prison? A sibling? Some sort of a facility? Leaving your old place and joining a new one seems good at first but what if you run into a few more bullies over there as well? There are bullies in every institution and leaving is just not an option when you'll be facing people like that everywhere you go. How long can we keep running away from them? We'll be ones who will suffer in the long run. This could even cost us a fortune.
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Post by Jillian on May 20, 2017 16:39:37 GMT
I hear/get you to a certain extent and it does make it harder if you are stuck and can't leave. Why can't You just get out of there and leave them behind? A school? Work? Or is it a place one can't leave? Prison? A sibling? Some sort of a facility? Leaving your old place and joining a new one seems good at first but what if you run into a few more bullies over there as well? There are bullies in every institution and leaving is just not an option when you'll be facing people like that everywhere you go. How long can we keep running away from them? We'll be ones who will suffer in the long run. This could even cost us a fortune. If I would do/relive my youth again, I'd certainly change location until I'd find people with similar views. If bullying really is an issue, I do not seeing it as running away, but more like searching for different solutions until You find one that fits your needs. Of course I do not know your background or why you are hinting at being stuck in a certain place.
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Post by Vodkie on May 21, 2017 1:16:57 GMT
I got bullied in jr. High mostly
One bully, i spread rumors about him that he was gay and my boyfriend
When the rumor got so out of control that people believed it, i told him i started the rumor. It ruined his friendship ship with his best friend because his best friend hated gays.
Needless to say, losing his best friend to a rumor really took a tole on him and he never bothered me again.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2017 6:00:56 GMT
Query Response: What do I think of bullies?? They make excellent sniper rifle fodder. Silly meatbags!
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