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Post by Sarge on Aug 23, 2021 5:34:18 GMT
I did and found a sister. We have a lot in common and get along well.
Also learned I'm half Welsh.
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Post by Nora on Aug 23, 2021 12:52:34 GMT
I did and found a sister. We have a lot in common and get along well.
Also learned I'm half Welsh.
no way! thats amazing, congrats! Tbh that was my hope too, to find a relative but no such luck on my side...
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Post by Mulder and Scully on Aug 23, 2021 15:45:01 GMT
I think it's best if some things are left as it is. There needs to be some mystery in our lives.
I don't need to know everything.
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Post by Sarge on Aug 24, 2021 1:52:28 GMT
I think it's best if some things are left as it is. There needs to be some mystery in our lives. I don't need to know everything.
That's exactly how I felt until last November when my wife discovered a previously unknown relative and it was a positive experience, so I went looking.
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Post by Sarge on Aug 24, 2021 1:56:56 GMT
I did and found a sister. We have a lot in common and get along well.
Also learned I'm half Welsh.
no way! thats amazing, congrats! Tbh that was my hope too, to find a relative but no such luck on my side...
Thanks. Turns out she knew I existed, but didn't know who I was.
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Post by Nalkarj on Aug 24, 2021 2:13:04 GMT
Found out that my very Italian grandmother is actually a good 30 percent Middle Eastern! (Unfortunately the test isn’t more specific than that.) Which just makes me even more of (to quote a former editor) an “all-American mutt”!
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Post by Admin on Aug 24, 2021 2:23:41 GMT
I did and found a sister. We have a lot in common and get along well.
Also learned I'm half Welsh.
I think I would have a few questions for my parents...
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Post by bravomailer on Aug 24, 2021 2:40:37 GMT
I learned my dog is seven different breeds.
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Post by Morgana on Aug 24, 2021 9:54:10 GMT
I would love to do one but I don't think I would be able to trace my ancestors and that would be frustrating.
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Post by Sarge on Aug 24, 2021 18:30:12 GMT
I did and found a sister. We have a lot in common and get along well.
Also learned I'm half Welsh.
I think I would have a few questions for my parents...
I was adopted and have always known so everything I learned was new but not a surprise.
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Post by Sarge on Aug 24, 2021 18:41:02 GMT
I would love to do one but I don't think I would be able to trace my ancestors and that would be frustrating.
You might be surprised. Many people have researched their ancestry and shared it online, and there are so many public records online, so you can accomplish quite a bit fairly quickly. The downside is some of those people are lazy, their research is sloppy, but it's not hard to sort truth from fiction if you are not lazy.
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Post by ellynmacg on Aug 24, 2021 20:10:05 GMT
I would love to do one but I don't think I would be able to trace my ancestors and that would be frustrating. Depends on what you mean by "trace." If you take the test (which with Ancestry.com basically consists of drooling/spitting into a tube and sending said tube to them--yes, I know, that's icky), they will do a lot of the initial work--i.e., telling you what your national/ethnic genetic background roughly consists of, along with approximate percentages of each strain. Of course, it isn't free of charge, but by paying their fees, you will be provided access to many records that would probably be closed (or much less accessible) to independent ancestor-seekers. And they will anonymously and privately suggest possible relatives (e.g., "You have a potential third cousin"). In my case, it wasn't so much that I learned something new as that Ancestry.com confirmed that what I was told by my parents was largely true (and not just family legends). For instance, I had always been told by my father that his father (the grandfather I never knew) came over from Scotland in the early 1900's. Not only was that confirmed, but I also found out that my maternal great-grandmother was indeed of Welsh descent, as my mother's family always maintained. I also discovered that, in addition to many, many Scottish forebears (on both sides), I had quite a few who were Sassenach--er, English. And, getting back to my father's side, I had confirmation that his grandmother-- not the mother of the father from Scotland--was born in Ireland. So what with the Scots, the Welsh, and the Irish, I'm as Celtic as I believed--and hoped--myself to be (with the aforementioned English thrown in for good measure). Plus, I had a tiny sprinkling of French and Dutch ancestors as well, with the most exotic strain being a trace of Finnish. One disappointment: because my maternal grandfather (a Missouri-born college professor) had high cheekbones and straight black hair--that is, when he still had hair --I always hoped he was of partial Native American descent. Nope. Same old British Isles ancestry. Oh, well. But then, as the Scottish saying goes, "We're all Jock Tamson's bairns." (I.e., "children of Adam.")
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Post by Morgana on Aug 25, 2021 12:07:50 GMT
I would love to do one but I don't think I would be able to trace my ancestors and that would be frustrating.
You might be surprised. Many people have researched their ancestry and shared it online, and there are so many public records online, so you can accomplish quite a bit fairly quickly. The downside is some of those people are lazy, their research is sloppy, but it's not hard to sort truth from fiction if you are not lazy.
My grandfather was from China, and my father's family are a tribe that live in the mountains in Yemen, so though I know I could probably trace my grandmother's family pretty easy - English, it's those I'm not sure about. I do know that my father's family belong to a tribe called the Kindah, and they ruled parts of Yemen a thousand years ago, but there are no written records that would be more specific than that.
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Post by Mia on Aug 25, 2021 12:17:57 GMT
I know my heritage, and I have no interest in sending my DNA to any random lab so they can have it on file for some random data base. I've never understood the fascination with anyone wanting to find this stuff out.
What difference does it make? You're still you. What difference will it possibly make to how you live your life, finding out this new information? You're really going to go change your lifestyle or perception of your existence based on a test?
Worse yet, digging up some completely random potential relative who may or may not want anything to do with meeting you? Why would you do that and disrupt someone else's life out of your curiosity?
To what end?
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Post by Sarge on Aug 26, 2021 3:50:37 GMT
What difference does it make? You're still you. What difference will it possibly make to how you live your life,
I now have a sister and she has a brother, and it has been a positive experience for me and I believe for her. I also have 2 new cousins that have become friends, one has become a real good friend and we talk every week. That's the difference it made. If it has no value to you, it has no value. Believe it or not, there are people who need/want/like things that you don't.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Sept 22, 2021 20:30:09 GMT
I have no interest in sending my DNA to any random lab so they can have it on file for some random data base. That concerns me too.
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