Exceptionally Good Looking People ???

I've seen both traits in people, but those who are hot and act like they are, just don't look as good as the ones that don't feel the need to act like they are...



such as myself.

...it is all subjective...!!!

It's not always a sign of insecurity when an "exceptionally" good looking person brags about thier looks. It's sometimes the opposite. Those people have a massive superiority complex and treat people who they consider ugly horribly and think they are beneath them and aren't worth thier friendship.

I suspect those who brag about their good looks tend to be snobs which makes them less attractive anyways.

but then again there are a lot of people who have basically good surface looks, like where you can tell they would not have no problems hooking up with others, but they just don't do nothing for you. like are missing something.

I see myself somewhere in the average range but closer to above than below average in looks, basically somewhere around a high-average as I can just tell my looks are up to a decent enough standard. hell, it's not that often I see someone and think "Damn, they are ugly!" even though you still stumble into a fair amount of people you can tell are below average area as some people you sorta feel sorry for because while I realize looks are not everything you still got to be up to a decent standard otherwise your doomed and I know I am at least at that decent standard level.


bondfan90



Exactly.

but to me it's just about general arrogance with those kinds of people regardless of whether they got good looks or not. not many likes someone who looks down on the common person etc.


@deblovesbeccy



To me ones overall attractiveness is not solely about surface looks as someone might be up to that standard where they might be considered 'above average' by society's standard of good looks but there are a fair amount of people like that in society that do nothing for me. sorta that 'just another pretty face' sorta thing which can in turn make them somewhat average-ish in a way where as it's possible someone say decent looks (like at least average or maybe a high average and the like) might just 'have it' about them and make them stand out from the pack a bit etc.

this is no offense to you but you can see my general point here as a example. but with that said... given your comments, chances are your on the positive side of things with enough people out there at the very least as you don't have to have everyone chasing after you(as it's not possible to please everyone no matter how good your surface looks are), but just enough to where you got a decent selection to choose from

if you don't mind me asking... is that picture of you below your screen name? ; if so, I can tell (even though the picture is a tad small) you would be more on the above average side by society standards. but as I am sure you already know... a picture can only say so much about someone as you really need to see someone in person (or at least in a video) to gauge their overall attractiveness more accurately.

p.s. Vera Farmiga is the gold standard of 10/10 in my mind as almost no one else hits 10/10 status for me (assuming we measure things on a 1 through 10 scale). but speaking of her... from what I can tell from a society standpoint, while I am sure she would be considered 'good looking' by many I would imagine by that standard of society there would be quite a few others who would rank higher. but for me that's highly unlikely they would beat her as I always like to refer to her as the 'anomaly of nature'



While being in shape helps it does not necessarily say anything about ones looks, at least as long as your not really overweight etc. but then again, even if someone is really overweight it's still possible they have a decent looking face or 'good looks'.

because you can be skinny or a bit bigger and still be hot. but obviously, after a certain point with the weight it's going to have a negative effect.

I am a 38 year old guy and I am more on the slender side of things (it's pretty safe to say I am smaller than most adult males) as I am basically 5'7" @ 140-145lbs right now (our scales usually say 138-140lbs lately but I think they are a bit low in comparison to the doctors scales and other scales I have tested). I was around 150lbs (according to our scales) for years though and in my prime, like my energy to burn days (i.e. basically 15-16+ years old, maybe into 20's a bit) i was same height but weighed 125-130lbs.

but anyways, based on my height and weight I am decent here but I am not really in shape and consider myself average in this regard (like I am sure my body does not look bad but it's nothing that stands out by any measure either). but I used to be pretty athletic (just naturally) as my running speed and jumping abilities back when I was 16 years old had to be above average at the least as I had to have about a 36" vertical jump (this has to be very close giving my measurements) and while I don't know for sure I would guess my top running speed back in those days to be roughly 18-20mph or so because even a couple of years ago or so, of which I weighed roughly 150lbs at the time, I was still running about 14-15mph (I know that's got to be close given I measured the speed of what I was running against (i.e. Golf Cart which has to be very close to 13.3mph top speed given it does 4min30sec mile (or a little quicker)) and I was beating it) and I definitely took a hit in my speed vs back in my prime.



Playing the odds... chances are I would think your more attractive than she is given this comment.