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Post by deembastille on Jul 5, 2018 23:34:41 GMT
dude, is this bit about your real life now ex girlfriend? its not about what she is trying not to look like. its about how she knows you would react. dude, i love you and i fear for you but you have been more than moping around on this site quasi using it as a psychiatrists couch for a while, now. her keeping you on facebook means that you have been checking up on her. its time to let her go. i keep my exes on my phone, too. if they ever contact me and leave a shitty message, i have proof. [they never have but you never know] i don't think anyone is the bad guy in a broken relationship. if you do, then you are just not mature or emotionally stable enough to handle an adult relationship. let me put it to you this way: would you rather marry a person who deep down doesn't love you or loves someone else, have kids with this person, then have this person create some unfortunate scandal for your family and children to have to live down? is that fair to anyone, including you? anyone getting out of a relationship before children are involved is being wise and the good guy. its not all about you and your happiness. Actually a hypothetical scenario and I wasnt rrying to say she was the bad guy. sorry but theres a whole lot of she did this she said that for this to be a hypothetical situation. |
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Post by kls on Jul 5, 2018 23:59:58 GMT
I've had exes say that, but it didn't usually come to pass. We'd just not bother to keep up with the friendship.
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Sept 5, 2018 18:31:31 GMT
Is that just a nice way of letting you pretty much down as easy as possible?. yep. period. |
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Post by Nora on Sept 6, 2018 0:21:48 GMT
Is that just a nice way of letting you pretty much down as easy as possible?. since its an Ex already I believe they already let u down right? or are u asking if frienship is possible between exes? i believe so. i am friendly with all of my exes and friends with most. but make sure u r not trying it be friends with someoone for whom u still have romantic feelings. thats a dangerous area.... |
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Sept 6, 2018 1:52:16 GMT
Whwn a girl says she wants to be friends, I don't try to analyze it too much. I just say "no thanks".
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Post by ant-mac on Sept 6, 2018 1:56:37 GMT
Then I say, "No thank you. Goodbye and good luck."
Things generally end badly, otherwise they wouldn't end.
When I was still with my ex, her mother and father still stayed close in touch. It was fucking weird to watch. No thanks.
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Post by moviebuffbrad on Dec 8, 2023 4:36:12 GMT
I genuinely wanted to be friends with my ex since she's the only real friend I've had the last five years. But it was easier for her to have a clean split.
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