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Post by amyghost on Oct 1, 2018 11:59:00 GMT
No, Toasted Cheese, though I suppose it is only a matter of time before some wacked out loony tunes PC left winger wants to make that be its own category. "Likes to have sex with a variety of melons..."Yeah, like Melonsexual!
Me neither, but I worked with a man who told me he knew of some other guy he used to work with who swore by them.
Years ago I read one of those Penthouse Forum letters wherein a chap quite lovingly described prepping, and then despoiling, a casaba melon. He was specific about the breed. Actually it all sounded pretty sensuous--he went into great detail, one would expect no less from a PF correspondent--as long as you didn't dwell too much on the fact that all of this effort was being directed towards a Cucumis melo.(Fun fact: In looking up the Latin name-and here you thought I just tossed that off the top of my head, didn't you--I found out that the casaba can be stored for much longer than most melons. Maybe that was a major influence in his choice; don't want the thing to go all mushy during the time it took to seduce it into the proper mood, I'd imagine.)
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Post by Terrapin Station on Oct 1, 2018 12:15:15 GMT
I'm attracted to stereotypically feminine "women-by-gender." That means that I'm also attracted to some transgender women, and it means that I'm not attracted to more butch or masculine biological women. At that, a lot of transgender women seem too masculine to me at times, but I'm definitely attracted to some transgender women.
I'm not sure what that makes me.
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Post by amyghost on Oct 1, 2018 16:21:29 GMT
Years ago I read one of those Penthouse Forum letters wherein a chap quite lovingly described prepping, and then despoiling, a casaba melon. He was specific about the breed. Actually it all sounded pretty sensuous--he went into great detail, one would expect no less from a PF correspondent--as long as you didn't dwell too much on the fact that all of this effort was being directed towards a Cucumis melo.(Fun fact: In looking up the Latin name-and here you thought I just tossed that off the top of my head, didn't you--I found out that the casaba can be stored for much longer than most melons. Maybe that was a major influence in his choice; don't want the thing to go all mushy during the time it took to seduce it into the proper mood, I'd imagine.)
Fruit can be a very sensuous thing and Call Me By Your Name made interesting and sensual use out of a Nectarine.
If only this site employed sound, I could play Muzak to embed those subliminal messages much more subtly .
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 1, 2018 16:26:43 GMT
Hetero.
Men are hideous.
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Post by dirtypillows on Oct 1, 2018 18:02:00 GMT
Fun Fact #2 - In Aztec language, avocados = "testicles". (becsuse of their shape and size, YOWZA) All that spirit and soul in there? Can you imagine it?
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Post by dirtypillows on Oct 2, 2018 0:17:29 GMT
I don't know what comes under "other" and that's why I asked in an earlier post the specific question "what does 'other' constitute?" You can go back and read what I wrote. Then, later, I suggested/wondered if maybe 'other' referred to some form of extreme fetishism, in which case - and with all that sexual knowledge and bravado you like to work into every other post in that super indiscreet way you have, you should already know this - is contingent on an inanimate object, and objects don't have gender (and please don't bring up how they do in French and Spanish or Portuguese or I might barf on my roommate's keyboard). Gameboy, it's less what you say, then how you say it... Consistently calling people "Fools", "mentally or physically ill", "idiots", "ill-informed" and saying things like "I already told you the answer" and "understand now?", like you're the keeper of knowledge - this is not going to be the thing that makes people think you know what you are talking about; it's going to be the thing that makes people think that you're stuck on yourself. You come across as very superior, whether you know it or not. And if you do do this on purpose, then don't expect that people aren't going to want to challenge you or bring you down a peg or two. And when you call me "Mister Know-It-All", well, that is some extensive projecting on your part. You never present your responses with a hint of doubt or humility or modesty. Ever. And so, for me, it becomes about you being so pompous all the time and the way you talk down to people. You really don't seem to engage - you just like to pose and pontificate. And, "queer" is not the end all be all encapsulation of homosexual experience and identity. If you want to own this for yourself, then more power to you, but don't presume to force your ideology on other people. You are not above enlightenment. I learned my rhetorical posting style on IMDb's Soapbox. It was a contentious board. I love to flesh out these topics and we can do that by putting on the heat. This is a topic which I am passionate about because it goes to the very gist of the LGBT movement and why I feel that our gay 'leaders' have failed us and are destroying the movement. The very term LGBT is divisive. And every letter they add to that alphabet soup just destroys our solidarity. Notice that "heterosexual" has only one option on that list. They're a powerful monolith. Yet we are subdivided into every silly nuance of sexual preference which can be imagined in the most outrageous of porno. This is why I bristle at this term "pansexual" It just means a preference for or a "non-problem" with sex with transgender folks. Why not add a category for heterosexuals who prefer blondes or three legged midgets for that matter? Oh no no no no - don't point out any variations on heterosexual orientation. Yet our struggle for freedom must be divided into 50 warring idiosyncrasies. Do you not realize this is political, divide and conquer, just get married already and ape us? And OMG, the addition of asexuality to our moniker, so that now it's LGBTQI A and the ellipse ... makes another open ended invitation for every perversion on earth to be equated to homosexuality?This is why I advocate for one strong word and one word alone to describe our struggle - QUEER. There are straights and queers. That's the struggle. Sorry, my movement is about the freedom of our oppressed sexuality. This is about freedom of sexual expression, not asexual eunuchs who hate sex, not about gender confusion, and the only part of "bisexual" which has ever been a problem in our society is the "homo" part. Stop trying to destroy the solidarity of our movement.Thank you for the response, which was relatively mild in tone. So, that's cool enough. Yeah, about LGBTQIA... well, I don't know if it's exactly the same thing or not, but I myself bristle when I have people referring to me as "cis gay male" The first time I heard that I was WTF is up? On a one on one basis, I have no problem referring to a person however they like to be acknowledged. I don't believe that I am transphobic. I was best friends with male to female transgendered person and not once did I question anything about her situation. I accepted her on her terms and for the ten years it lasted, it was one of the most enjoyable and satisfying friendships I have ever had in my life. The LGBTQIA issue... I'm 48 years old, and my parents nonwithstanding, I have never felt oppressed over being gay in my life. Or at least not in a way that had me feeling bad about it. I came out to friends when I was 18 and all was cool. Living in a big city, I have gotten some dirty looks from black people once in a while. I supposed I can understand their frustration and their resentments and I'm not going to try and talk them out of their feelings, because that's not going to get me far at all. And it's not my place to do that. Do you, Gameboy, take issue with a man who identifies as "gay" or "homosexual" as opposed to queer? That's just not something I could ever get riled up about.
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Post by loofapotato on Oct 2, 2018 1:56:20 GMT
I'm a vagitarian
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 1:56:36 GMT
I believe that homophobia is really self hate. Why are you repulsed by the male body? That's certainly not natural. I didn't say I was repulsed. My body is glorious, but I would never date it.
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 2:10:37 GMT
I didn't say I was repulsed. My body is glorious, but I would never date it. Sure, you're heterosexual, you're not sexually attracted to men. I get that. But you go further than that. You say men are hideous, not neutral. So you're a man and you're saying you're hideous. I believe homophobia is a culturally propagated hatred for our own sexuality and our own bodies, not a fear of male ballet dancers. So anyone that is hetero, not attracted to the same gender, they hate themselves? That seems like goofy thinking. Please explain why it's not.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2018 2:15:33 GMT
So at this point 72% are heterosexual. 19% are gay, bisexual or pansexual (which is just another way of saying bisexual) - so 19% are queer. One idiot is either mentally or physically ill and is "asexual" which is not even a sexual orientation (mind you, this fool just declined to state their sexual orientation. He/she still has one.) 6% are lying and said "none of the above". I don't understand the "other" option. What would they be attracted to then? And I expected the majority would be hetero, but I'm surprised to be the only one to vote bisexual. I didn't realize I was that unique ðâ I can see someone being asexual but I feel like they would have to have some condition that prevents them from not being attracted to anyone.
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 2:22:09 GMT
So at this point 72% are heterosexual. 19% are gay, bisexual or pansexual (which is just another way of saying bisexual) - so 19% are queer. One idiot is either mentally or physically ill and is "asexual" which is not even a sexual orientation (mind you, this fool just declined to state their sexual orientation. He/she still has one.) 6% are lying and said "none of the above". I don't understand the "other" option. What would they be attracted to then? And I expected the majority would be hetero, but I'm surprised to be the only one to vote bisexual. I didn't realize I was that unique ðâ I can see someone being asexual but I feel like they would have to have some condition that prevents them from not being attracted to anyone.
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 2:23:51 GMT
So anyone that is hetero, not attracted to the same gender, they hate themselves? That seems like goofy thinking. Please explain why it's not. No dude, you have a male body and you said male bodies are hideous. How is that not self hate? Because I don't hate my body just because I'm not attracted to it or any dude's for that matter. Let's not forget you're the one making up definitions. Let me know if I'm supposed to adhere to them.
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 2:34:16 GMT
Because I don't hate my body just because I'm not attracted to it or any dude's for that matter. Let's not forget you're the one making up definitions. Let me know if I'm supposed to adhere to them. Dude, do you believe male bodies are hideous? This is what I said: You should take that to mean that I don;t find men even remotely attractive. If that's homophobic than I am a flaming homophobe. If that means I'm secretly gay or self-loathing then so be it as long as it's buried deep enough within me to find women to be totally hot.
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Post by CoolJGS⺠on Oct 2, 2018 2:46:27 GMT
This is what I said: You should take that to mean that I don;t find men even remotely attractive. If that's homophobic than I am a flaming homophobe. If that means I'm secretly gay or self-loathing then so be it as long as it's buried deep enough within me to find women to be totally hot. Nah, that's why I think gay people who think homophobia is personally directed at them are wrong. Most gays are also fond of saying that homophobes are really gay. I don't. You think the male body is hideous, so you find male homosexuality to be repulsive. If you liked your own body you would just look at two guys fucking like you look at a blank wall or a sofa. lol
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Post by Fox in the Snow on Oct 2, 2018 2:58:26 GMT
So at this point 72% are heterosexual. 19% are gay, bisexual or pansexual (which is just another way of saying bisexual) - so 19% are queer. One idiot is either mentally or physically ill and is "asexual" which is not even a sexual orientation (mind you, this fool just declined to state their sexual orientation. He/she still has one.) 6% are lying and said "none of the above". I don't understand the "other" option. When this was asked earlier in the thread, someone suggested "fluid" or "undecided".
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2018 3:27:34 GMT
I don't understand the "other" option. What would they be attracted to then? And I expected the majority would be hetero, but I'm surprised to be the only one to vote bisexual. I didn't realize I was that unique ðâ I can see someone being asexual but I feel like they would have to have some condition that prevents them from not being attracted to anyone. That's the problem, Monicah. A lot of bisexuals call themselves "pansexual" now. That's what's ridiculous. So you think you're alone but you're really part of a large group. Actually if you add up all the silly categories, 30% of us are "queer" or not straight. I think pansexuality can be considered a subcategory to bisexuality since it is still different than the standard definition bisexuality. I'm attracted to both men and women but that means I'm only attracted to the ones who identify as either one or the other. Pansexuality doesn't include gender identity which makes its distinction, but they're are still only male and female sex organs so that's where it could still be classified into bisexuality.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2018 6:25:03 GMT
Lesbian. I dated a number of guys when I was younger but I have no plans to go back to men if I broke up with my Wifey 'cause I was never emotionally or sexually attracted to them like I am to women.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2018 6:38:19 GMT
So at this point 72% are heterosexual. 19% are gay, bisexual or pansexual (which is just another way of saying bisexual) - so 19% are queer. One idiot is either mentally or physically ill and is "asexual" which is not even a sexual orientation (mind you, this fool just declined to state their sexual orientation. He/she still has one.) 6% are lying and said "none of the above". I don't understand the "other" option. What would they be attracted to then? And I expected the majority would be hetero, but I'm surprised to be the only one to vote bisexual. I didn't realize I was that unique ðâ I can see someone being asexual but I feel like they would have to have some condition that prevents them from not being attracted to anyone. That's Aromantic and Asexual together. An Asexual person is just somebody who dislikes having sex. I know Asexual people and many of them are still attracted to other people and have relationships with other Asexuals and there are even dating sites and gatherings in Sydney where Asexual people meet up with each other. Some Asexuals get married and live together for years and I have no idea how they do it 'cause I would go crazy without having sex but it is their choice and if it makes the two of them happy that is all that matters. Aromantic people on the other hand don't like having relationships with people but some of them like having sex as long as there is no emotional connection involved. Then you have Demisexual people and a Demisexual person isn't sexually attracted to anybody unless they form a strong emotional connection with them.
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Post by amyghost on Oct 2, 2018 11:55:01 GMT
Fun Fact #2 - In Aztec language, avocados = "testicles". (becsuse of their shape and size, YOWZA) All that spirit and soul in there? Can you imagine it? OMG, if you haven't, read Gore Vidal's Duluth sometime. He makes hilarious use of that in this novel.
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Post by hanswilm on Oct 2, 2018 12:38:33 GMT
I'm male, I'm straight, I'm married, I have two kids.
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