How often do gays or lesbians feel attraction towards their own bodies?

That actually makes sense in a way, as that statement that quite a few of the heterosexual men make is kind of contradictory in a way. While I’m not attracted to the male body, sexually speaking, I’m comfortable enough with my sexuality to be able to admire a male body in a platonic way, and actually respect what the genitals are used for without getting revolted by them, as being feeling lust towards women doesn’t necessarily mean that I hate feel the opposite towards men. In contrary, most people that I’ve spoken with seem to assume that if you don’t turn your head away when there’s a shirtless man, or a photo of a dick that you’re automatically gay. Some may naturally find it grotesque, which they are entitled to feel since it’s likely just in the ‘hard wiring’, but then the boners don’t fully make sense.

I think that our former homophobic society still hasn’t fully evolved past the many eras where gays and lesbians were locked up, or thrown into mental wards if they expressed or were caught engaging in homosexual acts. So the fear of getting chastised is still a thing, even with the legalization in most areas of America. And god forbid, the SJW group has literally done them no justice. They give liberals a bad name, and separate what makes them liberals.