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Post by cwsims on Nov 11, 2018 23:23:13 GMT
im a virgin and never had sex
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 11, 2018 23:30:30 GMT
At one point or another, I've experienced sex where there's deep emotional attachment and where there's no emotional attachment.
Both can be very satisfying.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Nov 11, 2018 23:35:12 GMT
Personally, the sex was the best when I was in love with the woman
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Nov 11, 2018 23:35:43 GMT
At one point or another, I've experienced sex where there's deep emotional attachment and where there's no emotional attachment. Both can be very satisfying. Trick is to not catch feelings and leave emotions out of it which I’ve discovered I can’t do. So...no booty calls for me lol.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 11, 2018 23:40:00 GMT
At one point or another, I've experienced sex where there's deep emotional attachment and where there's no emotional attachment. Both can be very satisfying. Trick is to not catch feelings and leave emotions out of it which I’ve discovered I can’t do. So...no booty calls for me lol. Oh, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I dislike.
But we don't have to be passionately in love either.
Hopefully we're comfortable in each other's company and can get along...
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Post by CynicalDreamer2 on Nov 12, 2018 1:15:51 GMT
Trick is to not catch feelings and leave emotions out of it which I’ve discovered I can’t do. So...no booty calls for me lol. Oh, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I dislike.
But we don't have to be passionately in love either.
Hopefully we're comfortable in each other's company and can get along...
Yeah like a friends with benefits type deal. Nothing is wrong with it, I just can’t do it.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 1:17:56 GMT
Oh, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I dislike.
But we don't have to be passionately in love either.
Hopefully we're comfortable in each other's company and can get along...
Yeah like a friends with benefits type deal. Nothing is wrong with it, I just can’t do it. Oh, I've given it al up as a waste of time a while back.
I prefer the peace and quiet.
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Post by James on Nov 12, 2018 2:51:57 GMT
Objectively, it’s right to have sex when you’re married. I don’t think it physically feels any better if you’re truly in love with the person or not.
Then again, I never had sex either. So what do I know?
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 2:55:23 GMT
Objectively, it’s right to have sex when you’re married. I don’t think it physically feels any better if you’re truly in love with the person or not. Then again, I never had sex either. So what do I know? Why is it "objectively right" to have sex when married?
Being in love is perfectly natural.
Being married is not.
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Post by James on Nov 12, 2018 2:59:50 GMT
Objectively, it’s right to have sex when you’re married. I don’t think it physically feels any better if you’re truly in love with the person or not. Then again, I never had sex either. So what do I know? Why is it "objectively right" to have sex when married?
Being in love is perfectly natural.
Being married is not.
I should’ve mentioned that in my religion, it’s a sin to have sex when you’re not married, as is having an affair.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 3:02:06 GMT
Why is it "objectively right" to have sex when married?
Being in love is perfectly natural.
Being married is not.
I should’ve mentioned that in my religion, it’s a sin to have sex when you’re not married, as is having an affair. For me, being in love is natural.
Marriage and religion are not.
Different perspectives.
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Post by James on Nov 12, 2018 3:06:46 GMT
I should’ve mentioned that in my religion, it’s a sin to have sex when you’re not married, as is having an affair. For me, being in love is natural.
Marriage and religion are not.
Different perspectives.
True that. My Christianity has made me fully cautious of my future actions, let’s say.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 3:11:48 GMT
For me, being in love is natural.
Marriage and religion are not.
Different perspectives.
True that. My Christianity has made me fully cautious of my future actions, let’s say. It's my atheism that's done it for me.
I can't just have someone remove my feelings of guilt for whatever crimes or sins I may have committed.
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Post by James on Nov 12, 2018 3:16:07 GMT
True that. My Christianity has made me fully cautious of my future actions, let’s say. It's my atheism that's done it for me.
I can't just have someone remove my feelings of guilt for whatever crimes or sins I may have committed.
Logical explanation. You have the power to decide what you wanna do.
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Post by ck100 on Nov 12, 2018 3:16:15 GMT
If you're having sex with someone you're in love with, you have better connection, intimacy, you're more open with each other, etc. and it's easier to share what turns you on, what positions you like, etc.
Having sex with someone you're not in love with can still be quite enjoyable, but it won't be as strong as sex with someone you're in love with. It's kind of like the enjoyment you'd get from masturbating. It ain't as good as fucking with someone, but it's good enough.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Nov 12, 2018 3:32:24 GMT
True that. My Christianity has made me fully cautious of my future actions, let’s say. It's my atheism that's done it for me.
I can't just have someone remove my feelings of guilt for whatever crimes or sins I may have committed.
Forgive yourself. You are only human, which means you are going to fuck up sometimes. That's natural.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 3:35:31 GMT
It's my atheism that's done it for me.
I can't just have someone remove my feelings of guilt for whatever crimes or sins I may have committed.
Logical explanation. You have the power to decide what you wanna do. Yeah.
Ever since I became an adult.
Hopefully it'll last until final oblivion.
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Post by ant-mac on Nov 12, 2018 3:37:19 GMT
It's my atheism that's done it for me.
I can't just have someone remove my feelings of guilt for whatever crimes or sins I may have committed.
Forgive yourself. You are only human, which means you are going to fuck up sometimes. That's natural. Oh, that's rarely a problem for me.
Luckily, I'm far more of a bastard in real life than I am online.
Or at least I'd like to think I am.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Nov 12, 2018 3:53:43 GMT
Forgive yourself. You are only human, which means you are going to fuck up sometimes. That's natural. Oh, that's rarely a problem for me.
Luckily, I'm far more of a bastard in real life than I am online.
Or at least I'd like to think I am.
Whatever lets you sleep comfortably
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Post by kls on Nov 12, 2018 10:38:32 GMT
I wouldn't personally choose to be intimate with a man unless I was in love and believed he was with me as well.
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