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Post by msdemos on Jan 20, 2019 20:36:48 GMT
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Post by ant-mac on Jan 20, 2019 20:42:41 GMT
Well, I suppose it's a compliment and should be treated as such.
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Post by mslo79 on Jan 21, 2019 0:37:25 GMT
Who don't like to be liked?
but in that regard... since I am not the most social person in the world, it could be a bit awkward, as I am not that good as random conversation with people in general which is why I say little to nothing to most people unless I know you pretty well.
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Post by marianne48 on Jan 21, 2019 0:50:14 GMT
How come there's no "Never Happened" option?
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Post by Raimo47 on Jan 21, 2019 0:50:57 GMT
It depends on the person.
That has happened to me only three times. I rejected two of those girls politely but I had sex with the third one. It felt good, but also somewhat uncomfortable.
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Post by Nora on Jan 21, 2019 1:17:44 GMT
its very complicated. the 3-4 times this happened to me it was someone I cared about very much and liked hanging out with as a friend and it was difficult to readjust the relationship after finding out.
in one case i even tried dating the guy even though i wasnt attracted to him really because i liked him so much as a person and thought maybe it can work on his love and my respect and care for him.
but it didnt. so my advice would be (if they are your good friend) be frank about not reciprocating but open to hear what they have got to say and work through the weirdness. the friendship can absolutelly be salvaged, if it was good to begin with and if handled well. thats what the one guy did to me the time i was on the “worse” end of this and we are still close friends 7 years later. and in the end thats worth a lot too.
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Post by Nora on Jan 21, 2019 1:32:59 GMT
It depends on the person. That has happened to me only three times. I rejected two of those girls politely but I had sex with the third one. It felt good, but also somewhat uncomfortable. same here. what made you sleep with the one? was it pitty or genuine desire or something else? |
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Jan 21, 2019 2:45:57 GMT
Makes me feel awkward and uncomfortable, and I feel bad for the person because I've been on the other side of the situation.
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Post by rachelcarson1953 on Jan 21, 2019 3:41:15 GMT
I'm so socially reclusive that I rarely let things get that far. I have boundary issues, and if I feel like someone is maybe getting a little too close, I will distance in as polite a way as possible. I've actually had one man verbalize his feelings; I told him that even though my husband had died, I still felt married to him. I wasn't open to having a 'relationship'.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Jan 21, 2019 8:25:47 GMT
I'm so socially reclusive that I rarely let things get that far. I have boundary issues, and if I feel like someone is maybe getting a little too close, I will distance in as polite a way as possible. I've actually had one man verbalize his feelings; I told him that even though my husband had died, I still felt married to him. I wasn't open to having a 'relationship'. Whatever makes you feel comfortable |
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Post by Raimo47 on Jan 21, 2019 18:12:18 GMT
It depends on the person. That has happened to me only three times. I rejected two of those girls politely but I had sex with the third one. It felt good, but also somewhat uncomfortable. same here. what made you sleep with the one? was it pitty or genuine desire or something else? It was genuine desire. The only woman I have ever loved had broken up with me a few months earlier. I had zero romantic feelings for women at the time. Then I met this woman who liked me. She was quite sexy and wanted to have sex with me. It just happened. |
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Post by deembastille on Jan 21, 2019 18:29:01 GMT
I'd I have no feelings either way, interested.
However, I have experienced people I can't stand trying to buddy up to me. That is extremely uncomfortable. Especially if I can't stand them because they are smarmy or in your face about everything and they just don't get the numerous hints.
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Post by NewtJorden on Jan 22, 2019 2:45:49 GMT
It depends on the person
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Post by politicidal on Jan 22, 2019 3:45:33 GMT
Depends on the person.
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Post by permutojoe on Jan 22, 2019 5:55:51 GMT
Flattered or scared, depending on if they're crazy.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2019 6:09:06 GMT
It depends on how I feel about them. If I don't like them I don't particularly care how they feel about me but with my ex I felt horrible and sorry for him 'cause I did like him and care about him as a friend but as much as I tried I couldn't love him and I knew when he started talking about marriage and kids I had to break up with him. We are still friends now and he is married and has children and I am happy for him. 
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