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Post by lenlenlen1 on Aug 19, 2019 15:50:32 GMT
If we ever meet... I'm hugging you... yeah I would expect as much from you ;-) Oh yeah? Well now I'm gonna squeeeeeeeeze you and plant several WET ones right on your face!
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Post by Nora on Aug 19, 2019 16:36:26 GMT
yeah I would expect as much from you ;-) Oh yeah? Well now I'm gonna squeeeeeeeeze you and plant several WET ones right on your face! you in Minnesota, New Jersey or New York this September? Or Korea tomorrow? ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) so u can make your threats a reality...
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Post by lenlenlen1 on Aug 20, 2019 17:41:18 GMT
Oh yeah? Well now I'm gonna squeeeeeeeeze you and plant several WET ones right on your face! you in Minnesota, New Jersey or New York this September? Or Korea tomorrow? ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) so u can make your threats a reality... Wait a minute... that was easy! I thought you hated that stuff? LOL
p.s. Korea?
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Post by dirtypillows on Aug 20, 2019 17:54:45 GMT
I want to go back to handshakes with most people. From hugs and kisses to hand shakes. Now with close friends it wont be a problem, Ill just tell them straight and we go back to hand shakes. But what about a bit less close friends or acquaintances or business associates etc? How awkward is to say you wanna go back to handhakes only? After weeks/months or years of hugs and kisses. Is there any good way to say it? Mind you this is not sexual harrasment related at all, I just dont like the kiss on cheek and hug with people unless they are my family or partner. I never used to do it but lately it has somehow became the overwhelming norm and I started reluctantly participating in it and even where I offer jist a hand it sometimes doesn work out. I have had two pepole recently say “i am a hugger” and proceeded to extend their arms/hug me/ offer thei cheek/kiss me adter I soecifically offered to shake hands. Any tips on how to reclaim your personal space again? Without dragging “me too” in it or making someone feel sleazy? because nobody does it in a sleazyway to me its just very friendly but puts me in a situation i dont enjoy. what would you say? People aside, would you hug the sweet alpaca?
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Post by Nora on Aug 20, 2019 19:49:53 GMT
you in Minnesota, New Jersey or New York this September? Or Korea tomorrow? ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) so u can make your threats a reality... Wait a minute... that was easy! I thought you hated that stuff? LOL
p.s. Korea?
I dont enjoy it with most true but you knowing I dont enjoy it changes it for the better somehow. yes hi from Seoul.
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Post by Nora on Aug 20, 2019 19:50:27 GMT
I want to go back to handshakes with most people. From hugs and kisses to hand shakes. Now with close friends it wont be a problem, Ill just tell them straight and we go back to hand shakes. But what about a bit less close friends or acquaintances or business associates etc? How awkward is to say you wanna go back to handhakes only? After weeks/months or years of hugs and kisses. Is there any good way to say it? Mind you this is not sexual harrasment related at all, I just dont like the kiss on cheek and hug with people unless they are my family or partner. I never used to do it but lately it has somehow became the overwhelming norm and I started reluctantly participating in it and even where I offer jist a hand it sometimes doesn work out. I have had two pepole recently say “i am a hugger” and proceeded to extend their arms/hug me/ offer thei cheek/kiss me adter I soecifically offered to shake hands. Any tips on how to reclaim your personal space again? Without dragging “me too” in it or making someone feel sleazy? because nobody does it in a sleazyway to me its just very friendly but puts me in a situation i dont enjoy. what would you say? People aside, would you hug the sweet alpaca? oh I love hugging animals. probably because there is nothing even potentially sexually about it to me so I dont feel the need to get to know them first ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png)
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Post by dirtypillows on Aug 20, 2019 20:10:56 GMT
People aside, would you hug the sweet alpaca? oh I love hugging animals. probably because there is nothing even potentially sexually about it to me so I dont feel the need to get to know them first ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) I just did a google search on the alpaca and found there is a petting zoo not 20-25 miles away from where I live! They look sooooo adorable and gentle -natured. I'm going to try and talk a friend into going out there sometime! They look unreal in their cuteness! Are you in Korea right now?
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Post by Nora on Aug 20, 2019 20:32:51 GMT
oh I love hugging animals. probably because there is nothing even potentially sexually about it to me so I dont feel the need to get to know them first ![:)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/smiley.png) I just did a google search on the alpaca and found there is a petting zoo not 20-25 miles away from where I live! They look sooooo adorable and gentle -natured. I'm going to try and talk a friend into going out there sometime! They look unreal in their cuteness! Are you in Korea right now? yes. On a tour now. Seoul, Vienna, Prague, Madrid, Lisbon, Paris, Brussels, Warsaw, some place in New Jersey, Minneapolis, LA, New York all in the next 5 or so weeks. Which reminds me, don’t you live in LA? Should we get a coffee?
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Post by dirtypillows on Aug 20, 2019 20:36:48 GMT
I just did a google search on the alpaca and found there is a petting zoo not 20-25 miles away from where I live! They look sooooo adorable and gentle -natured. I'm going to try and talk a friend into going out there sometime! They look unreal in their cuteness! Are you in Korea right now? yes. On a tour now. Seoul, Vienna, Prague, Madrid, Lisbon, Paris, Brussels, Warsaw, some place in New Jersey, Minneapolis, LA, New York all in the next 5 or so weeks. Which reminds me, don’t you live in LA? Should we get a coffee? Awwww... well, I live in Chicago... but that's really nice, though... Of all those places you mentioned, I think Paris seems the most exciting to me. Something about that Western European decadence!!! Have fun! I know you will!
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Post by Nora on Aug 21, 2019 3:55:05 GMT
yes. On a tour now. Seoul, Vienna, Prague, Madrid, Lisbon, Paris, Brussels, Warsaw, some place in New Jersey, Minneapolis, LA, New York all in the next 5 or so weeks. Which reminds me, don’t you live in LA? Should we get a coffee? Awwww... well, I live in Chicago... but that's really nice, though... Of all those places you mentioned, I think Paris seems the most exciting to me. Something about that Western European decadence!!! Have fun! I know you will! why do I think you live in La? did you use to live there? oh well, next time I am in Chicago then... ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png)
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