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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2018 7:47:46 GMT
That is why question
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Mar 31, 2018 8:06:58 GMT
If you've observed life at all, you know they do not.
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Post by twothousandonemark on Mar 31, 2018 9:07:04 GMT
Yes but no. Unconditionally yeah, subjectively lols no.
Canadian magazine Maclean's up here ran a cover story 'Moms who regret parenthood' which is slowly becoming less blasphemous.
Basically while they may not have the children/same number of children all over again, they'd still cut off their arms to save them.
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Post by politicidal on Mar 31, 2018 17:43:29 GMT
Hell no they don't.
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Post by Skreebert on Mar 31, 2018 19:17:42 GMT
Love yes, like no
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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2018 20:16:05 GMT
Yes, If they've only got one kid.
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Post by ghostintheshell on Mar 31, 2018 20:23:04 GMT
No. Not in this world.
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Post by ellynmacg on Mar 31, 2018 21:07:36 GMT
How can you love them equally when they're not the same person?
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Post by someguy on Apr 1, 2018 7:13:58 GMT
As surely as Santa comes down the chimney.
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Post by mslo79 on Apr 2, 2018 6:44:28 GMT
Well I imagine the decent parents pretty much do even though, even in these decent parent cases, I am sure there is some favoritism towards others especially as your family grows. main thing is as long as it's kept fair enough as if your clearly favoring one kid and treat the other like crap, clearly that's a problem. but if there is only a bit of favoritism, then it's not the end of the world. twothousandonemark Yeah, because the standards of society are getting lower as time passes. but don't get me wrong, I not saying everything was great in the 'old days', as it had it's issues, but you can tell that overall the moral standards here in the USA have declined quite a bit vs what they once were say 50-60+ years ago and society is breaking down more and more because of it. hell, even in the last 15-20 years or so things have taken a solid hit. p.s. someone has to be quite self-absorbed to not give a crap about their own child. I know know one is perfect but it seems like that, for the most part, mothers have a built-in instinct to want to protect their child etc. but apparently for some, this is corrupted etc. |
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Post by NewtJorden on Apr 5, 2018 3:19:53 GMT
They dont
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Post by deembastille on Apr 6, 2018 0:24:01 GMT
yes and no. yes in amount. no in why they are loved by their parents -- what makes them special.
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Post by Nora on Apr 6, 2018 2:41:02 GMT
are any of you that answered it parents of multiple children?
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Post by ellynmacg on Apr 6, 2018 7:33:11 GMT
I am the mother of two.
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Post by hardball on Apr 6, 2018 9:34:57 GMT
That's what my parents told me.
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Post by louise on Apr 6, 2018 18:31:01 GMT
Yes.
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Post by teleadm on Apr 6, 2018 19:41:31 GMT
No! I know it's not estheticaly correct.but no!
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Post by Nora on Apr 7, 2018 2:36:06 GMT
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Post by Nora on Apr 7, 2018 2:38:36 GMT
How can you love them equally when they're not the same person? i imagine it works the same way that you can love your parents equally. i honestly couldnt pick which one of my parents i love more/less. I get angry at them sometimes sure and there are things i dont like about each one of them but I honestly feel that my love for both of them is the same. If I had to chose "to save only one" i guess i woudl be picking by their age and level of happiness and life expectation. so i would imagine it works the same for kids. that they annoy you, you might feel closer to one at one time, another one at another time, but you fundamentally love both of them equally. |
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Post by deembastille on Apr 7, 2018 3:50:06 GMT
they love them the same amount but in different increments. i am loved for my creativity, my natural way with children and my sense of humor. my middle sister is loved for her 'Darlene connor' attitude although she is not that deadpan or unemotional. she also makes killer cookie balls [creamcheese and crushed oreo cookies]. my youngest sister is loved for her attention to detail without giving herself an ulcer, the attention she pays to her children [her older child's third word was OCTAGON], how she actually PLANS some sort of art activity every day for her children [nearing 4 and just over 2], but they are allowed to be children.
we were all connected to each parent via something. i was good at building and since my father was a civil engineer who also was a quite accomplished handyman and carpenter, i had gotten good at that kind of stuff.
our middle sister was into car shows so he would take her to some car shows and auctions.
our youngest sister was into baking [attention to detail] and he would take her to baking classes and such.
and everyone loves our dog because he is the epitome of awesome. you drop the leash by accident, not only does he stop in his tracks but he will pick it up in his mouth and HAND IT TO YOU. No one taught him that.
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