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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 1, 2018 16:09:03 GMT
do you think some people dont want friends?
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Post by koskiewicz on Apr 2, 2018 3:31:45 GMT
...why ask???
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Post by hi224 on Apr 2, 2018 15:51:13 GMT
sure?.
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Post by Lynx on Apr 2, 2018 16:23:21 GMT
do you think some people dont want friends? You're a very depressive person, you know. I'm still depressed from your post from yesterday
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Post by Sandman on Apr 2, 2018 21:24:20 GMT
do you think some people don't want friends? Definitely. Some people like to be by themselves. And I don't see anything wrong with that. They are not hurting anyone.
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Post by Nora on Apr 3, 2018 1:47:10 GMT
do you think some people don't want friends? Definitely. Some people like to be by themselves. And I don't see anything wrong with that. They are not hurting anyone. i struggle to believe there are people who TRULLY don't want ANY friends. I agree with you on "there is nothing wrong with that" if thats the case and they really don't want it (not preemptively give it up because of fear of getting hurt for example) then thats fine. but i am not sure they exist. There may be some people who may define friendship different way than most people maybe. and some are certainly fine with virtual (more easily manageable) friendships only, or mostly, but I struggle to imagine someone who genuinely doesn't want any friends whatsoever form or shape or frequency. now if you are talking about people with diagnoses or maybe on the spectrum, that may be somewhat different, but i believe they also want friends only somewhat redefine what friends do and are. i think a good question would be to ask: who/what is a "friend" to you? what does friendship mean? then the second good question is: do you believe in male and female friendship (or two gay people)? I am still not sure about the answer to this one. I know they exist but most of the times they are heavily fueled by one sided or mutual sexual/romantic desire. which may never be fulfilled but it plays a big part and they wouldn't necessarily be friends or as close if that was removed.
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Post by them1ghtyhumph on Apr 3, 2018 1:51:40 GMT
I like having friends, but at a distance
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2018 7:01:21 GMT
Yes. I believe they call them misanthropes and a lot of them are mass killers, serial killers and terrorists who hate humanity as a whole and want to wipe us all out. There are also some antisocial people who enjoy being alone and cut themselves off from other people and people who spend too much time focusing on their work and only care about making money.
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Post by hardball on Apr 4, 2018 10:57:47 GMT
Definitely. Some people like to be by themselves. And I don't see anything wrong with that. They are not hurting anyone. i struggle to believe there are people who TRULLY don't want ANY friends. I agree with you on "there is nothing wrong with that" if thats the case and they really don't want it (not preemptively give it up because of fear of getting hurt for example) then thats fine. but i am not sure they exist. There may be some people who may define friendship different way than most people maybe. and some are certainly fine with virtual (more easily manageable) friendships only, or mostly, but I struggle to imagine someone who genuinely doesn't want any friends whatsoever form or shape or frequency. now if you are talking about people with diagnoses or maybe on the spectrum, that may be somewhat different, but i believe they also want friends only somewhat redefine what friends do and are. i think a good question would be to ask: who/what is a "friend" to you? what does friendship mean? then the second good question is: do you believe in male and female friendship (or two gay people)? I am still not sure about the answer to this one. I know they exist but most of the times they are heavily fueled by one sided or mutual sexual/romantic desire. which may never be fulfilled but it plays a big part and they wouldn't necessarily be friends or as close if that was removed. I know people who don't have friends but are close to their children, spouse, parents and family members. But I don't know anyone who shuns family and non-family.
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Post by koskiewicz on Apr 5, 2018 16:50:36 GMT
...just because I am alone doesn't mean I am lonely...I prefer it that way...
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Post by Nora on Apr 6, 2018 2:36:55 GMT
...just because I am alone doesn't mean I am lonely...I prefer it that way… tell me more
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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 6, 2018 14:43:27 GMT
pls spam me profile and inbox and flame me thank you.
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Post by koskiewicz on Apr 6, 2018 14:54:26 GMT
In contact, lo! the flint and steel, By spark and flame, the thought reveal That he the metal, and she the stone, Had cherished secretly alone. -Booley Fito
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Post by teleadm on Apr 6, 2018 17:18:33 GMT
Over the years I've met some people that I've wondered it they wouldn't be better off in some cave and only pop up if they need help, in other words a semi-hermit.
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Post by sugarbiscuits on Apr 11, 2018 2:57:28 GMT
u think im a dumbass boring faggot bellend?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2018 3:22:37 GMT
I think it depends on the type of people you’re normally around or what your current lifestyle is at the moment that would prevent you from wanting to make friends. If you’re a traveler it might be harder to want to make friends because you’re getting to know them a temporary amount of time and will eventually leave and probably never see them again. Being social is important though and you can be friendly and hang out with people but not exactly call them friends.’
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Post by Nicko's Nose on Apr 11, 2018 3:28:13 GMT
u think im a dumbass boring faggot bellend? You’re such a fucking weirdo.
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Post by theauxphou on Apr 11, 2018 8:08:46 GMT
Some people grow out of friends.
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